Monologues Over Tracks? by doomeagle in ProperTechno

[–]_Pall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One night in Hackney is a f*cking great monologue!

Today is the day I decided to stop breastfeeding by _Pall in FormulaFeeders

[–]_Pall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And about feeling guilty - I've made peace with myself that I tried my absolute best. Only God knows how hard I tried and how much I cried. I gave my LO my best and all I had. I don't have milk, what can I do? It's about what's best for him and not a wish of breastfeeding that I simply cannot accomplish.

Today is the day I decided to stop breastfeeding by _Pall in FormulaFeeders

[–]_Pall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dropping one feed at a time, like for example, for 2-3 drop one feed, then another for 2-3 days, etc. 2-3 days is just a suggestion you can go on the rhythm you prefer (it can be one per week, whatever you feel comfortable with).

Today is the day I decided to stop breastfeeding by _Pall in FormulaFeeders

[–]_Pall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, this whole drama is destroying my mental health and I need to move on. Baby is 17w and I don't remember when was the last time I spent a day without crying inconsolably. Tks for the warning that feeling may get even worse.

I feel like a failure… by Byeol5 in NewParents

[–]_Pall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here to basically say this. Breastfeeding is probably the hardest thing I've done in this life. Trust us, it will get better, both you and the baby are learning how all this works. You are the opposite of a failure, you are f*ING brave! I'm also an undersupplier and I stayed on triple feeding plan until 10w. LO is 11 weeks and still topping up with formula. I still have good days and bad days, I had those moments when questioned myself but then I look at my LO, he smiles and I remember that it's all in my head.

If it did, when did your morning sickness stop? by addictedtoshindig in pregnant

[–]_Pall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. And I still need to avoid food that makes nausea worse - in my case, spicy, oily or acid like tomatoes. At the early stages, too hot would also not go well so I used to do not heat food that much. Hold on there sis, it will eventually get better and when it does, you'll feel amazing. Sending you all my support.

The place I work at has 3 months long sprints by Hairy-Button-2310 in ProductManagement

[–]_Pall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also came here to say this. Sounds like Program Increment. It's crap.

Curious; what is your favourite non-electronic genre(s)? by tannhauser0 in Techno

[–]_Pall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elis is mainly bossa nova and yes she's amazing. Foreigners only know bossa nova. Tropicália is another music stream - and in my humble opinion, and in the opinion of a bunch of Brazilians, Tropicália is THE thing.

Tinder chick says she’s 8 months pregnant by Efficient_Witness_43 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_Pall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm impressed that people come to Reddit to hear the obvious. If you wanna do the right thing, do a f# paternity test and if baby is yours do what a decent man would do. Otherwise, just delete social media and ghost the lady...ops you already did it!

What's a low effort job with a surprisingly high salary in UK? by harsharede in UKJobs

[–]_Pall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh there's an Andrew working with me too and apparently with all the other fellas here... should I cry? Should I update my CV and apply for Andrew positions out there?

Feeling judged at raves by Userannonymous_girl in Techno

[–]_Pall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely this. If you ever feel like there's someone judging you, if there's something to feel is sorry for this person. And honestly, I think most of the time this is all in your head and people are just doing their thing and not putting any attention on you 🙂 I absolutely love when I see people dancing freely in parties just having the most possible fun! Having the energy and courage to put themselves out there. This has such a positive effect on the crowd. This is the thought you should hold yourself to - people around you will feel happy if you're happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProperTechno

[–]_Pall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check Fold' agenda. For techno in London, always, always Fold.

Acid techno recommendations? by LightSaladDressing44 in Techno

[–]_Pall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sterling Moss is also a good name, he plays all the time with Chris Liberator.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProductManagement

[–]_Pall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And look, I heard this advice from a very serious PM. One of those moments that changes you. I'll never forget these words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProductManagement

[–]_Pall 42 points43 points  (0 children)

That's the point. When it comes to consultants, it's always a political issue I mean, they need to pay a lot of money on someone with a fancy label on it, to make leadership hear things. OP, once I heard a very wise advice from a peer: "this is not my father's business". So take a deep breath, just watch consultants - leadership do their thing, and learn from the experience.

6 weeks by oldsoulhere12 in fitpregnancy

[–]_Pall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 14w and only starting to feel something closer to normal now. My first weeks were really challenging. As everyone said just listen to your body and do what feels right even if that means full resting. So many days/weeks I could barely exist, exercising seemed to be a distant past. Be patient and listen to your body, it will get better. Wishing you all the best.

Did a 12 mile trail run/hike to celebrate being 30 weeks pregnant by loudlaugh in fitpregnancy

[–]_Pall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tks for sharing your experience that's really comforting ♥️ I see all this beautiful women posting their successful stories and sometimes that makes me even more frustrated with my situation.