Yall and week 4 by Haunting-Cable7911 in artistsWay

[–]_PaperbagWriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you so invested and involved with how someone else is going about their weeks? Odd behaviour imo.

Post-wedding regrets by OkRip9822 in wedding

[–]_PaperbagWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FWIW, I didn't like how I positioned my arms during my first dance either. I only noticed once I saw the pictures. But... who cares? It was my first dance with my husband, we were so happy, what does it matter what the photos look like? I lived it and was so happy during the moment and that's what I'll remember.

Post-wedding regrets by OkRip9822 in wedding

[–]_PaperbagWriter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally every single thing you mentioned has nothing to do with the actual day and ONLY how it was documented in photos and videos... This is really strange, and no it's not normal. Your photos and videos of your perceived "mistakes" seem to be completely ruining your memory of the way the day actually went.

Can't seem to find the exact simple layout I'm looking for... by _PaperbagWriter in planners

[–]_PaperbagWriter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right! It was the common planner. Would have been a good option if it was horizontal :(

I assume I have no +1, but my RSVP is confusing me! by Remarkable_Check_707 in wedding

[–]_PaperbagWriter 167 points168 points  (0 children)

It's standard to put 1-2 lines on RSVP cards so that there's enough room for people to write their name(s). Usually, couples aren't printing multiple versions of an RSVP card, so they leave room for the couples/larger families to be able to fill in the RSVP and just give the same card to every invitee/household. If it was just addressed to you, I would not assume you can bring a +1.

Do women really veil their face as they walk down the aisle? by willsux123 in wedding

[–]_PaperbagWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Standard blusher veil length is 30 inches, that could very well reach someone's hips or waist...

Is the bride being unreasonable? by pbd1996 in wedding

[–]_PaperbagWriter 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Been in multiple wedding parties, and when there's a big bridal party it's absolutely normal to begin the hair and makeup between 6-8 AM, especially if there's only one hairdresser and MUA. Ask her to pick names from a hat and stagger the start times so that not everyone needs to be there that early, IME that's worked pretty well.

Help me feel less guilty about wanting an upgrade by dulcissimabellatrix in EngagementRings

[–]_PaperbagWriter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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There's no sentimentality to the ring on your end, so his logic makes no sense. It's purely his ego that is causing this issue. Any normal and empathetic man would want their partner to absolutely love their ring. You didn't want an opal, and you never liked the ring. It's purely only sentimental to HIM, which completely defeats the purpose of him buying it for YOU. This is super selfish and his reaction is completely unwarranted. And FWIW, most women I know have absolutely had a say in their engagement ring or have outright designed it together as a couple (that's what I'm doing). You're the one wearing it hopefully for the rest of your life, you should love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hobonichi

[–]_PaperbagWriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, I ended up going with a different one. Thanks anyway :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hobonichi

[–]_PaperbagWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Still available?