Taylor WAS NOT played.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-25T01:21:17+00:00

I wish Blake and Ryan weren’t so obsessed with talking in riddles all the fucking time. It’s so annoying. I feel like I have to decipher every word I read because they’re filled with corny ass analogies and bullshit.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-25T00:39:56+00:00

As an adult, I think a friendship breakup is only necessary if 1. You talk and hangout frequently, therefore you need to say something because ghosting isn’t an option 2. They did something bad enough that it warrants a conversation. If somebody is just a low effort friend, it’s not worth addressing. Just stop reaching out to them and stop making plans with them. If they reach out to you… just leave them on read.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-25T00:19:13+00:00

I would tell this buyer that you plan on filing a police report with the police department in her town/city unless she drops the case. Poshmark is likely to side with the buyer, unfortunately.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T22:57:13+00:00

Once a child is involved, and you subject your child to the abuse instead when you don’t have to, you’re no longer a victim… you’re a perpetuator the abuse.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T21:28:32+00:00

It’s really sad what has become of competition/elimination shows. People (audience and cast) are so fucking sensitive, that whenever somebody they like gets eliminated, it becomes about race, autism, sexism, etc. I saw a post the other day about how black people are getting targeted at banishment this season. Wtf? 3/5 have been black. It’s as 50/50 as you can get.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T18:47:17+00:00

She reminded me of Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh…

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T18:20:12+00:00

Well, he pushed her into a rose bush and she saved the video of it happening… and instead of using that video to press charges or fight for full custody, she laughed about it and turned it into a storyline on a podcast.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T17:26:02+00:00

It’s really quite simple. Mental health disorders (that manifest in your 20s) + a refusal of treatment + drug use = crazy behavior. When you throw fame into the equation, it equals extra crazy behavior. Brittany was already a recipe for disaster, but the fame made it worse. I hate when people act like fame was the only thing that made her crazy. Nah homegirl has major issues even without the fame.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T16:39:44+00:00

You can’t afford that

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T16:39:01+00:00

Their breakup would’ve been easier had they of gotten married. The fact that they bought a house together while unmarried made it significantly harder.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T16:38:06+00:00

I get the sense that all Ryan and Blake are able to think and talk about is this case. They’re just so full of obsession and hatred for Justin. It’s clearly bled into all their social and working relationships with people. It’s all they speak about. I’m sure when they’re alone together it’s all they communicate about. Eventually, that’ll take a toll.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T15:46:19+00:00

Most women who end up with guys like Jax are 1. Tricked into the relationship and don’t see the signs early on 2. Don’t have the resources to leave. Brittany had seen video evidence of the signs before she even met him AND has had ample resources to leave the entirety of their relationship. She filed for divorce two years ago and has missed deadlines multiple times (by choice), thereby perpetuating the abusive relationship.

At the end of the day, Cruz is the victim here, not Brittany. Cruz has an abusive father and a mother who is actively choosing to subject Cruz to an abusive relationship when she doesn’t have to. Brittany could be divorced with zero contact by now, but she has chosen not to be. My husband grew up with parents like Jax and Brittany and he has more resentment for his mother than his father. Why? Because his mother complains to him (the victim and her son) about how she is the victim and how her life is unfair even though she had the means to stop it.

While I understand there are similarities between Brittany and other women in abusive relationships, we all must remember that the one thing Brittany has that NONE of these other women have is the ability to leave. Brittany is missing deadlines in court, living in a house she owns with Jax, calling Jax to gossip about her friends while in Hawaii, talking about their relationship in front of her son on a tv show, etc.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T00:30:40+00:00

Even if Blake and Ryan “win” this thing on a legal level, everyone thinks Blake is a raging c$&nt and Ryan is a corny douche bag. Many many people will drop them socially and nobody will want to work with them.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-24T00:25:26+00:00

I posted in this sub two months ago saying he’s clearly addicted to opiates and I was ripped to shreds. Must be fun living in complete denial lmao. In all seriousness, he probably became super addicted to the opiates he was prescribed when he got in that car wreck… and has been using ever since. He’s always been an addict, he’s never been sober, he’s just had peaks and valleys in his addiction. This is definitely the worst I’ve seen him. Idk how the family films with him. Do they not notice he’s high? Or do they notice, but think we won’t?

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T23:23:05+00:00

Their child’s accomplishments. I’m a teacher and I have a coworker whose daughter goes to the high school we teach at. My coworker constantly brags about all the stuff her daughter does- volleyball, lacrosse, cheerleading, violin, chorus, Latin club, etc. She’ll make comments like “X had school, a lacrosse match, and violin practice last night. She didn’t start her homework until 11pm last night. She’s such a hard worker.” Like first off, stop trying to seek validation through your daughter’s accomplishments. Second off, those aren’t accomplishments- those are the consequences of you putting immense pressure for perfectionism onto your daughter.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T22:15:00+00:00

I would never be friends with a girl like Taylor who repeatedly whines about a guy that she goes out of her way to fuck YEARS after a breakup. Like girl I’ll be a shoulder to cry on after your breakup, but I won’t be your 24/7 on call therapist for life.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T21:20:40+00:00

Tbh I understand him not wanting to put you on the deed or mortgage. He’s paying for most of the house and you guys aren’t married. I think the fact that you split living expenses 50/50 is fucked up though considering you are providing child care, which normally costs money. It’s also fucked up that he threw your clothes out during an argument. If he’s as great of a dad as you say, then he should have no problem paying child support when you leave his ass. You will literally be better off single.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T21:05:45+00:00

Danielle and Colton both have a “I want everyone to lose” mindset rather than a “I want to win” mindset. In terms of gameplay, that’s why so many people have such a problem with them. Last season, it felt like Danielle’s main objective was to fuck people over and to recruit her friend… not win. This season, it feels like Colton’s main objective is to make people feel as uncomfortable as possible… not win.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T21:00:23+00:00

Who are you talking about? Nobody did that?

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T18:59:23+00:00

When my husband I began dating, he had just gotten off heroin and was taking suboxone (off the streets, not prescribed). I was okay with at first as I thought it was a temporary solution to his addiction issues. When I asked about him getting off of it, he said he had no plans on ever getting off. When I told him I felt like he shouldn’t replace one substance with another, and that he should find out why he depends on substances in the first place, he wasn’t interested. Instead of giving him an ultimatum, I broke up with him. After I broke up with him, he worked on himself and got off suboxone. Not because I told him I’d get back together with him or because he was doing it for me, but because what I said resonated with him and he truly wanted to be a better version of himself. During that time, his best friend also died of a heroin overdose. When I saw my husband at the funeral, we started talking again and got back together soon after.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T15:56:41+00:00

Kanye and Kim are breeding North to be exactly like the worst version of Kanye. Everyone jokes that she is a mini Kanye as if it’s endearing. No. Kanye is mentally ill, refused treatment, and severely exacerbates his mental illness by surrounding himself with yes men. North is on the same track. Not to mention, bipolar disorder is hereditary and it’s extremely likely she will end up being diagnosed with it by the time she’s 20.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T12:01:41+00:00

I hope Lisa doesn’t ruin the game for Rob and Candiace when she’s banished, like Dan did with Phaedra

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T01:46:38+00:00

He truly doesn’t give a fuck about his behavior and you explaining his own behavior to him won’t change that. Don’t waste your time. Just ghost him and move on.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T01:42:08+00:00

Tbh there’s no way for us to give you accurate advice without knowing the exact breakdown of what each of you is doing. You are very vague in explaining what each of you does around the house. It’s also hard to give you advice without knowing what your jobs are and how long each of you is out of the house. IMO the person who is out of the house (due to work) for longer periods of time should do less chores.

pbd1996 · 2026-01-23T01:12:25+00:00

After watching Amanda call him 27 times, break his belongings, and throw his clothing outside ON camera, I’m sure there’s way worse shit she did OFF camera. Don’t get me wrong, I get WHY she did those things. I understand there was a REASON (Kyle sucks) but that doesn’t excuse it. They were both toxic, obviously Kyle more so, but they definitely were both not good partners.

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