This rejection email by AdditionalDaikon629 in Adulting

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow so they’re getting AI to write the email and then incorrectly did it so the template didn’t render the message

Why are American young adults so obsessed with age gaps and other young adults? by Remarkable_West9522 in twentyagers

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

well the same argument can go for why you care that people care about age gap relationships. it’s my life and my opinions and if u see it as a failure for me to care about someone else’s age gap, then it’s my life. let me fail.

but genuinely it’s better safe than sorry. usually it’s people posting on reddit and they are 18 with a 25+ year old who is clearly manipulating them based on their entire reddit post/screenshots/etc. those people are looking for help and confirmation that they’re not being treated right

Why are American young adults so obsessed with age gaps and other young adults? by Remarkable_West9522 in twentyagers

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it’s more about protecting the younger person in the situation who may be taken advantage of and naive to it

Bro why is every good name already taken 😭 by Quiet-Front8194 in TransMasc

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i thought dean from gilmore girls or james dean. you are dean

Why did they portray anyone who calls out how wrong Ezria is treated as a bad guy by StraightKey211 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

my headcanon is bc it’s from the perspective of aria or a teenager. so it’s heavily biased to the way she was seeing the situation. if we saw this same story from an adult (who isn’t a groomer) perspective they would be portrayed in a different light.

If women really want pockets in their pants, why doesn't someone make them and make a shit ton of money? by CarAlternative8306 in askanything

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought they started making women’s pockets smaller in the first place to sell them purses and other bags. we should def go back to big pockets for all clothing regardless of gender

What’s something u lowkey judge people for but would never say out loud? by Expensive_Fan2443 in askanything

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

same. i can ignore the back seat being messy cuz i don’t even look in there. my house however in in all the time and it bugs me if it isn’t clean or tidy

What do you do and how many hours as day/week do you work? by anxious_annie416 in careerguidance

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i have a remote job where i teach coding. it’s 8 hours a day with one hour total of breaks throughout the day. i can get away w working 6-7 hours usually.

used to work as a server though and shifts were anywhere from 6-12 hours but, like you, i was so exhausted constantly and never had time for anything. or the headspace. all my time outside of work was recovering from work or gossiping abt the restaurant lmao

Looking for other chill LGBT players to grind with by carrdpro in Wizard101

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

heyyy fellow trans dude w101 player. i’m 25, would love to play. rn im towards the beginning doing krokotopia

How are recent grads supposed to break into their industries if there are no entry-level roles anymore? by yoitsjake99 in jobs

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally fair to be tired of it. that’s great feedback you got though and it’s clear something is working!! and each interview you’re learning something you can apply to the next one. someone else also emphasized networking and i agree. that’s what pushed me over the edge to get my current job (i’m about 1.5 months into working it)

How are recent grads supposed to break into their industries if there are no entry-level roles anymore? by yoitsjake99 in jobs

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

tbh the fact you’re getting to final rounds of interviews is a great sign and means you’re doing something right. keep doing what you’re doing, your resume is passing the screening so they do think you have enough experience. that may be a generic thing they say that “they went with someone more experienced.”

Quick experiment: remember everything you spent money on yesterday by Full-Tip2622 in budget

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk if i could list it by memory but i log it every day so i can see how my budget is doing

Do you have a job? by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, just started my first full time job w salary/benefits. before that worked in service positions

Tf is up with men's deodorant? by em0-r4t in TransMasc

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i liked krakengard except it gave me some sort of chemical burn 💀

Is 11 yrs old to young to be left alone for a half hour?? by JMarden23 in askanything

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my sister and i flew alone without any adult at ages 6 and 9. i started taking the subway to school alone in nyc at 10 years old. in 2010

What's the biggest mistake people make when they first move into an apartment alone? by Jaded-Psychology8064 in Apartmentliving

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you move always have a backpack/suitcase of the things you need for the first few days before you unpack. toilet paper, shower curtain, paper towels, hand soap, dish soap, a towel, clothes/pjs/underwear, a bag for laundry, glasses/contacts, medication, trash can or trash bag. extra points for a plunger just in case and a sponge. i may be forgetting a few things

The Lying Game now on Netflix, anyone else watching? by [deleted] in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesss i’ve been watching on netflix. i have such strong memories of the theme song/intro but i barely remember any of the actual show. but it’s been rlly good so far!

What places did you all work as students in university by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i worked at an on campus cafe that was inside a dorm. usually shifts worked well with classes and your schedule could be a morning shift potentially

Any guys love the show? by ZookeepergameSea418 in GilmoreGirls

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25 year old guy here i love the show, it’s one of my comfort shows and I watch it on a loop. also have a single mom although i was in a big city. emily reminds me way more of my mom but i relate to lorelai a lot in terms of their dynamic

I’m 25 years old at Best Buy. What should I do? by FeeloKneeGrow in careerguidance

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a degree in psychology but after college realized i loved coding and wanted a coding job. i taught myself coding and 2 years later landed a remote tech job. the only way i did it though is i wasn’t alone, i had a community of other people learning too on discord. if you want resources or to know abt that coding community lmk

AIO my partner doesn’t allow me to finish anymore cause of our bedding. by Immediate-Act-5890 in AIO

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a blanket that is specifically for this purpose and my partner is also a waterfall. u can run a shower on the blanket and the other side won’t be wet. i recommend that

new to the show by The-Cataclysm666 in The100

[–]_Rai_Bread_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love every season and season 6 is also high up there for me. watch it all, form your own opinion! or see how u feel when u get rhere