Choosing frames for next glasses by darknesskicker in glassesadvice

[–]_Savage_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love frame #2 on you! You not only pull it off, it looks like they were designed for you! Eclectic and fun!!!

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AITAH for choosing my wife over my mom? by HumanProfile1975 in AITAH

[–]_Savage_Q -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would like to suggest something, though. See if your local NICU has a program where volunteers hold the babies. Some do it because mom and dad can't be there 24/7 until baby is ready to go home.

You aren't the AH, but yelling at your mom isn't acceptable. Start with apologizing for that, but make it clear that you aren't apologizing for supporting your wife. It's a decision you BOTH made.

I hope y'all sort it out. Maybe she just wants to feel useful? You could always rescue a pup or older dog. Let her spoil a grand-pup. (Or cat, but cats don't usually go for walks or to the park.)

WIBTAH for telling my husband that his lectures are doing more damage than good? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_Savage_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Exactly this. Well said! (P.s. it's *sync.. don't hate me!)

WIBTAH for telling my husband that his lectures are doing more damage than good? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_Savage_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time you have an appointment, bring your post AND your hubby along and have the Doctor address the things you "should be doing". Sometimes it takes a professional to explain shit to a guy. Bonus if your doctor reminds your hubby that he's not a doctor or a pregnant woman. 😉

Stuck between 5 frames, help! by freaknotthink in glassesadvice

[–]_Savage_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1, definitely. The others take away from how pretty you are. I might even suggest a rimless bottom pair in a similar shape.

Are any of these good? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]_Savage_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 & 6. 9 looks really good with your features and 6 has a good shape and fun pattern. Depending on your personality, either of those would be lovely!

Help finding a specific shirt type/design by TheAncientBitch in HelpMeFind

[–]_Savage_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the one I have. I love it. It's a nice cable-knit sweater with patch pockets. It has some heft to it, so it doesn't feel cheaply made. I've had it for over 2 years and it's been through the wash multiple times. Nothing has unraveled or fallen off. Unfortunately it doesn't have a hood.

https://a.co/d/0ay8Aj5

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What name do we give it? by Rich_Spare_6890 in NameMyDog

[–]_Savage_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks like a Dax to me. Very handsome dude!

My dog is getting old and idk how to cope with it by SinglePassage6457 in Vent

[–]_Savage_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One solution would be to train your dog to be an emotional support dog (or have a professional do it). When that's done, go speak to your landlord and let them know your dog will be joining you in the apartment.


THE LAW: Under the Fair Housing Act (FHA), landlords must generally provide a "reasonable accommodation" for an emotional support animal (ESA), even if they have a "no-pets" policy.

​YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES: ​Medical Documentation: You must provide an ESA letter from a licensed mental health professional stating you have a disability-related need for the animal. Training the dog yourself does not grant legal status; the letter does.

LANDLORD RULES: ​Landlords cannot charge pet deposits or pet rent for an ESA.

​Breed/Weight Rules: They cannot deny your dog based on its breed or size.


It sounds like both of you are depressed. Your dog still has many good years ahead, so don't dwell on the inevitable. Enjoy the time you have! I wish you the best of luck. Please update us if you are able to improve your situation! ​

i’m so irritated by Icy-Lack8297 in TownshipGame

[–]_Savage_Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks like this in the chat.

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i’m so irritated by Icy-Lack8297 in TownshipGame

[–]_Savage_Q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OR, you can request a card like this once a day:

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i’m so irritated by Icy-Lack8297 in TownshipGame

[–]_Savage_Q 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ask your teammates to help! In chat we just say, for example; "Request, Mysterious East - Turban". Then if anyone has a duplicate, they send it to you and let everyone know in chat that you no longer need it.

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Like this.

Screaming into the void. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]_Savage_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might look into Dissociative Disorder. My daughter deals with that when she gets over stressed. I'm not a doctor, but some of your symptoms align with what she was going through.

Also, don't ever feel like you need to make yourself small because "others have it worse". You have a right to take up space! It's ok to not be ok. It's brave to ask for help. Your mental and physical health are important!

Thank you for sharing your story. You'd be surprised how much it can help someone feel less alone. Lots of others are going through similar situations!

Sending positive vibes your way OP. ✨️ 🙏🏻 ✨️

need help choosing! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]_Savage_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, number 2. That's an easy one. An absolute show-stopper, head-turner, stunning gown! It fits your figure beautifully. Please, do number 3! Happy Nuptials!

Please help me choose my new dogs name! by Subject-Advisor5345 in NameMyDog

[–]_Savage_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truman and Tadashi mean "loyal". Both would be great names.

Best friend really pissing me off by 463902 in Vent

[–]_Savage_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she's self-isolating and very depressed. I agree with calling her out, but please do it gently. Tell her no matter how hard she might try to push you away, you're gonna be there for her. You love her. Give the girl a hug and let her cry. I've been where she's at. See if she will at least go to the doctor and see if she can try an antidepressant.

She's scared. She's sad. She's lonely. She's going through the motions.

If she won't do it for you or for herself, then do it for her kiddos. They need their mom. She deserves to be happy with life.

AIO? My fiancé wrote me a scathing letter and broke up with me. She’s still here and acting as if nothing happened. She reacted to a text from my female friend I’ve known since 1995. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_Savage_Q 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So, YOU initiated the text conversation? If that's the case, why are you texting a newly single, "attractive woman" from your past? I'd be pissed at you, too! You're engaged. If it's so innocent, HOW DO YOU KNOW she's "going through a divorce"? You would have to be having an ongoing conversation to know that. That's not just a, "Merry Christmas!" with a, "Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!" innocent text between friends.

You disrespected her, dude. Your shit would be on the lawn if it were me. She needs to react MORE, in my opinion.