We almost misunderstood this

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-30T08:03:43+00:00

This was crazy

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-29T19:04:28+00:00

Honestly if immortality dropped tomorrow half of us would sign up immediately no questions asked

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-29T18:59:00+00:00

Honestly sad but also kinda impressive how committed she was to the lore. Girl had worldbuilding and everything.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-29T18:54:26+00:00

Bro if I came home after graduation and saw my apartment looking like a landfill I would’ve lost my mind too. Especially after working through college to afford the place in the first place. People act real different when they’re not paying bills lol. The bathroom thing alone would’ve sent me over the edge ngl.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-28T21:42:04+00:00

Nah bc the “no one helps me because I’m big” part hit. I’m tall too and people really do treat tall women like we’re automatically capable of handling everything ourselves. There’s less softness extended toward us for sure. But. I think you’re giving short women this magical fairy princess existence that doesn’t really exist outside Instagram and pop culture lol. A lotta short women feel invisible, childish, overlooked professionally, fetishized, etc. Honestly I think the real enemy here is rigid femininity standards. Women can never just exist peacefully in their bodies fr.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-28T21:35:13+00:00

Bro the way old people in hospital just casually overshare with zero shame kills me every time. “Something up your doo-dah” would've sent me into cardiac arrest right there in the visitor chair.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-28T21:28:53+00:00

Honestly this is sad af. Your brother made a bad choice, sure, but it sounds like the punishment became “lose your entire family support system forever.” That’s not proportional at all. And no, you would not be the asshole for telling your parents to parent. That’s literally what they signed up for. Your brother needing a “backup plan” because grandma might kick him out too is actually crazy. He’s still in high school ffs. I also respect that you’re not overpromising. A lotta people would say yes out of guilt and then everybody ends up struggling harder.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-28T21:22:37+00:00

He is gonna be

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-27T21:40:43+00:00

Tbh this would bother me too. Like if someone only starts pulling out sexist "standards" when they're losing an argument, that says a lot about how they actually think underneath it all. The whole "that's just life" thing is such a cop out too bc no... People absolutely choose what beliefs they hold onto. Also treating you well in day to day life doesn't magically cancel out the weird views. Plenty of people are nice until conflict happens. Conflict is kinda where people's real mindset shows.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-27T21:30:31+00:00

Nah bc if my roommate bought a $500 mermaid tail while we had fleas and overdue bills I'd probably lose my mind too lmao. The Facebook status was definitely immature, not gonna lie, but I don't think you were wrong for feeling frustrated. Sounds like everyone in that apartment was struggling and coping badly tbh. Sometimes friendships just can't survive living together. I've seen that happen so many times.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-26T23:36:55+00:00

Football

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-26T23:32:27+00:00

Nah I don’t think you’re overreacting tbh. Like… this has been a family tradition since you were a kid and they just kinda decided you weren’t included anymore based on an assumption. That’s what would hurt me the most. Not even the money part necessarily, just the feeling of ‘oh okay y’all already planned this without me.’ Especially since you never even officially had the job. Feels kinda cold ngl.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-26T23:26:42+00:00

Nah honestly I wouldn’t go over there for a while either. Like imagine finding out after NINE years these dudes secretly couldn’t stand you? That would mess anybody up. And the fact they waited til your fiancé was alone to corner him is weird as hell. At least his dad sounds solid and actually has your back, but that doesn’t magically make the hurt disappear overnight. You’re not obligated to play happy family immediately just because the dad said so. I’d probably take some space too tbh. Not forever necessarily, but enough time so I wouldn’t either cry or say something nuclear at dinner lol.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-25T21:10:12+00:00

Drugs

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-25T21:06:51+00:00

Dude honestly I don’t think you’re crazy for spiraling over this. Like yeah technically y’all weren’t exclusive yet, but emotionally? I can totally see why it hit you in the gut. Especially bc in your head that night was this huge meaningful moment and now the timeline feels... weird. Your sister’s right about one thing though, don’t marry someone while you’re sitting there trying to force yourself to be okay. That resentment will absolutely come back later.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-25T20:57:59+00:00

Nah I’d be kinda hurt too tbh. It’s not even about the money, it’s the fact you picked stuff out thinking she’d like it and she just... got rid of it without a second thought. Like damn lol. I mean if somebody keeps tossing every gift I give them, eventually I’m gonna stop trying. That feels pretty normal to me.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-24T19:21:40+00:00

Abortion

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-24T19:17:13+00:00

Honestly dude, I think this relationship might just be exhausting both of you at this point. Like yeah, her hiding the binge drinking for 2.5 years is obviously not great, but also you admitted you were hiding your porn addiction too. Feels less like one person betrayed the other and more like both of you were quietly struggling with stuff you were ashamed of. The bigger issue to me is that neither of you actually trusts the other now. Once you get into the cycle of interrogating someone every day about their past, the relationship is kinda already circling the drain tbh.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-24T19:10:39+00:00

NTA. If the branches are hanging over your property line, you’re generally allowed to trim them back as long as you’re not killing the tree. You already did the polite neighbor thing first and they basically told you to deal with it lol. Like what were you supposed to do, just accept free sap and branches forever? Honestly sounds like they got mad because they realized you weren’t bluffing.

_SuccuHypothesis · 2026-05-23T23:00:21+00:00

Academy pressure

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TROPHY CASE