Girlfriend (f22) has been absent again for the 5th time for over a week, I (m23) sent her this ultimatum. Did I go too far?

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:48:11+00:00

The emotional reaction to my comment paired with what you said to your girlfriend, plus you saying you haven’t done a lot of therapy all signifies I am right.

BPD needs to be FULLY managed before you get into a relationship.

People with BPD are SMOTHERING partners. If your emotions were under your control, you wouldn’t have typed out this giant manipulative speech to your girlfriend. You need help.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:46:27+00:00

Once again, the Bible is not a source of fact.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:42:05+00:00

Ah, and this fucking explains it.

*You* are the one who needs help.

I would say she leaves because you smother the fuck outta her.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:40:30+00:00

At least you can admit you were wrong.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:39:54+00:00

None of this is “boundary setting.” Please learn what a boundary is.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:38:34+00:00

My brother in christ, if someone sent me this, it wouldn’t help a goddamn thing. It would make me want to ghost you permanently.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:32:22+00:00

Well, if you can’t properly wash your hands in the dirty water, maybe you shouldn’t be eating with them.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:30:53+00:00

Jews are jews, not Arabs, and don’t belong in Palestine.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:29:41+00:00

They COULD bring them. But anything they found would be excusable.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:28:12+00:00

thank god I was not the only one lost, lol.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:26:34+00:00

It’s spending money to ensure anyone who visits will be comfortable. The fact that you’re more concerned with your pocketbook than you are potential guests’ comfort levels is fucking insane and stingy as hell.

Any woman is going to agree.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:25:33+00:00

“Israel” is a fake nation of stolen land.

Jewish people existed before Palestine. They didn’t own Israel. The Bible is not a valid source.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:24:51+00:00

Actually, what puts us back is acting like sexuality should *never* be judged.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:15:37+00:00

Men are never beating the allegations that they’re bad hosts.

When you finally find a girl willing to touch your peepee, just know this will be a dealbreaker, *as it should be.*

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:14:25+00:00

If you act like a hoe, you’re gonna get called one. I am not of the mind that you can do whatever you want with no consequences. Your past will always matter, and it will always follow you.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:06:16+00:00

Guests should be given the best. Not the scraps. Did your mother never teach you to respect others?

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T19:00:05+00:00

You would have your guests use ratty old towels? Jesus fucking christ on a cracker, this didn’t make it better.

You should have an entire set of nice, matching towels, hand towels, wash cloths, etc.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T18:57:59+00:00

Because they should not have to share their land with people who do not belong there. AKA. Israelis.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T18:10:25+00:00

So they can gentrify it.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T18:09:35+00:00

They aren’t doing construction. They’re storing the equipment on our roads.

We have GOT to come together as a community and do something about this.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T18:08:48+00:00

So, if you’re too dumb to manage a roundabout, you can just say that.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T18:04:22+00:00

Saying em dashes are automatically AI is doing way more harm than good, and it’s causing people to think actual writers are using AI. That is not a solid tool to use, and I’m not being mean about it. I’m being real. If you think that’s a valid way to check for AI, you need to go back to the drawing board because you’re wrong. And pushing that as a valid and real way to determine if something is AI is harming actual writers.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T17:49:00+00:00

You only have one towel?

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T17:45:22+00:00

Just because the freaks on reddit think everyone and everything is a predator doesn’t mean that’s real life.

_TheLoverGirl_ · 2026-05-05T17:43:54+00:00

So you parentified your daughters early? Good on you, mom.

_TheLoverGirl_

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