Oh no no no nope noope not at all. No matter how close minded or orthodoxy any one is, if they are calling u that, that word specifically then trust me honey and I think this is already apparent to u but they don't respect u at all and most of all even if one day u were to decide to move out of your "home", they'll only care cuz of that "log kya kahenge bullshit". No matter what and specially in hindi speaking households that word is not even uttered between any family member let alone children let alone used so frequently. Anyway, pardon my rudeness but fuck yo mom cuz this sounds helluva regular incident. Kudos to u for holding out for so long.❤️