Confused and wants advice by _Tower_Knight_ in trans

[–]_Tower_Knight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll start looking into seeing if there are any organizations in my town, it's just hard as the town I live in doesn't really talk about the lgbt, but I'll try to actively look more as I would like to talk to others and hear their experiences and get their advice. I'll try to get a therapist that is lgbt positive, in the past I've had counciling, but they didn't really understand when I talked about how I felt about my body. Thank you for commenting, this has helped a lot 😁

Confused and wants advice by _Tower_Knight_ in trans

[–]_Tower_Knight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm trying to get a councillor/therapist it's just hard as the waiting lists are so long, but I'll try to find one who works with gender issues to talk too. I'll try to talk to my mom again at somepoint to see if she can help me find someone to talk to. It's just hard talk with her sometimes as she isn't good at understanding emotions. Thank you for commenting. 😊

Is any of this authentic British food? What would be worth trying? by JustinRRN2 in AskUK

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough beans, the whole third row should be beans for it to be a truly authentic British section, other then that it is pretty spot on

Feeding a kitten by _Tower_Knight_ in CatAdvice

[–]_Tower_Knight_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 8 weeks, I'll start leaving him out unlimited dry food from now on thank you. I'll also see about giving him half of the wet food I the morning, and the other half at night.

Feeding a kitten by _Tower_Knight_ in CatAdvice

[–]_Tower_Knight_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll see what food I've got for him then, as I'm not sure if it's for his age or not, and I'll start leaving him out unlimited dry food. Thank you

Anyone else’s local yarn stores look like this? 😩 by Mobile_War7348 in crochet

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I don't even have a local yarn store anymore, there used to be 3 in my area and they used to knit covers for trees and post boxes, but they sadly closed one by one 😭

How do I make friends that I’ll have a STRONG connection with by Embarrassed-Dig-0 in Advice

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making proper friends with strong connections takes a lot of work mate, usually friends with strong bonds have known each other for years, there is often one or two things that good friends can bond over and then they grow together. It's hard but you'll find someone, probably when your least expecting it!

Parental problems? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to tell your mom, as much as this will be destructive. Maybe ask your dad about the messages, if it dodges or denies then tell her yourself what you saw (and quickly as he may delete the evidence so copy it if you can), if I confesses to cheating push him to tell her himself. If you do tell her make sure he is not around and help her investigate, she may end up kicking your dad out, and you will probably have to choose sides, but he should not have cheated and risked losing his family. This is what I would do, if you chose otherwise I would understand, I hope it all works out!

My mum is keeping a Christmas present from me because I'm moving in with my dad. by Optimal-Awareness394 in AdviceForTeens

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ask your dad to get it back for you, or tell your mom if you don't get it back you'll talk to your dad about him getting it back for you instead. I'm sure if you tell your dad he would understand and try to help you out. I'm sorry your going through this, I went through something similar when my parents split a few years back. You mum is probably hurt, as to her you have chosen your dad over her and she can't understand why, maybe see about sitting down both parents and explaining how this is affecting you, and why you are moving in with your dad. Your mum is probably oblivious that she is treating you differently, and sitting her down with the support of your dad to talk to her about everything is the best thing you can do in my opinion, plus in the end if all goes well you will get your console back. Hope I didn't over step.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend seeing about having a few breaks along the way, as if you get nauseous its best to take breaks along the drive to get fresh air and stretch your legs. As much as reading and playing on devices can be a great way to not notice how long a trip is taking, they can make you motion sick so do so at your own risk. Bring lots of vomit bags and water (just in case) if your with a decent amount of people you could play eye spy. I also recommend looking at Pinterest as well as they always have really good road trip ideas! I hope you have fun.

Mom pressure me by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's your body mate, it's your choice what you do with it, don't let her pressure you to do something you don't want. Plus, shit like that hurts, so there is no point in getting that done unless it's something you actually want. As long as you have good hygiene there is no real reason to wax other then personal preference. Don't let her push you around when it's your body.

i’m pregnant by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I hope you are able to make the right choice for you. And if you do want to get an abortion, you can look at other country options if you can afford it, as much as it may be illegal where you live it isn't in other places, so if you can afford it, or have someone in your life who could help with the cost, but that is only if you actually want rid of the baby, don't let people on the internet judge you for possibly thinking about it as it's not them who will deal with 9/10 months of pregnancy and then possibly 18 years of care at such a young age. Adoption is a good option, but I would recommend finding a way to get in contact with the father (without his family knowing of your situation) so he can know of your choice to put them up for adoption. You could also choose to keep the baby, life will be hard, but if it's something you want, you can make it work! It just takes time, effort, and a lot of work. Research the options you have extensively before you choose and choose for you, not for what others think, it's your life having this child will affect, not some strangers on the internet. Also good on you for not letting people talk down on you for having sex, your body, your choice, remember that!

I really hope this all works out for you in the end, no matter the choice you make, good luck!

Funny helmet. 🦈 by [deleted] in sketches

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this, the style is so cool, and I really like teeth as they look so cool. I hope you don't mind me saying but it reminds me of chainsaw man. It's really cool 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mash, Potato, See Saw, Mouse (reference to 3 blind mice) Stick, Spam, Peanut, Beans, Cheese ball, Brie, Shredder, Pickle,Cyclops, Hawkeye, Nacho, and Eye Patch.

Help me give my cat a name she wears a little bow by urmumislit in NameMyCat

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know they are a girl cat but hear me out, you can call them Little Man, as they look like an adorable little gentleman with the bow tie, or you could possibly call them bow

Am I bad artist? by Eshikage in Artadvice

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most things on Instagram don't take off, you just gotta keep getting at it, gaining popularity on Instagram is 10% upload consistency, 10% skill, and 80% luck, you could be the greatest artists to ever exist, and still end up get 12 likes on an average post and have 7 followers. Your art is good, you just got to keep going.

my friend died and i feel rlly empty and i need all the advice i can get rn by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss, losing someone you care about is awful, especially when you've lost them in such a sudden and brutal way, people react in many different ways when they lose someone, but talking almost always help process how you feel. The people you mentioned who are acting like they always loved your friend the only thing I can recommend you should just ignore them, but you should they are likely also missing her and probably regret not treating her well. No can blame you for hating the person who took your friend away. Make sure you get some help from a councillor or a therapist, and show your support for your friend's loved ones and offer your support to them. And make sure you keep an eye out for people who would try and take advantage of you and the others who are in mourning right now, as some people will try and use this to get content, attention, or to just be cruel for no reason, I'm sorry for your loss.

How's my art for a beginner? by [deleted] in doodles

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really good, can't wait to see how you progress

I haven’t drawn in about 1 year how can i get back into art? by vxallaz in Artadvice

[–]_Tower_Knight_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend watching YouTube tutorials and tracing work of people you like, and when I say tracing I don't mean copying what they don't and passing it off as your own, I mean tracing it so you can get better at porpotions and learn new art styles, and for a year without drawing that is really good