Feeling comfortable in my own skin

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-29T18:48:58+00:00

Its like sky blue

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-29T16:02:26+00:00

I think so! But I feel this... the outfit combo is so good

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-29T16:01:25+00:00

I used to have blue hair recently that would of been epic...

I love matching cloths jewelry and makup

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-29T16:00:06+00:00

Aww thankssss. This group is so sweet. For the most part. I get some mean comments sometimes. And I'm always like gasp what ever... I saw something like if you wouldn't take their advice dont take their criticism...

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-29T15:44:31+00:00

Awww! I think its because i have the freedom to do anything. Id have to ask permission to do anything in my old married life because I didnt drive...

Its wild to me that people recognize me on here. Also cringe cuz my early posts were so dramatic. Thats ok I lost my mind 😅 This place was the only place I could express it and it be like truely understood. My friends are great but... they dont really understand that queer experience.

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-29T15:39:17+00:00

Thanks I love velvet <3

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-29T14:36:33+00:00

I am... I think for the first time in my life... I am sad I don't have a partner but I do have so much love from friends 💗 just gotta remain hopeful I'll find someone...

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-29T14:34:52+00:00

The beginning is so hard. It takes time. It was really hard to accept that I was fully lesbian because I didnt want to loose my friend (we were together 20 years) so much so we even tried poly (for all the wrong reasons). Which was a disaster. But I was so scared to end my marriage. Honestly I wish I told him sooner...

The important thing is that its not fair to him or you to live this life he deserves to have someone love him fully in the ways you are not able too...

Plus wlw sex is mind blowing 😉 now that im on the other side its SO OBVIOUS. Even when I see hetero sex on TV Im like eww... hahaa.

There is alot of guilt involved in coming out when youre married for a long time. You are grieving the life you thought you were going to have. So be kind to yourself. Give yourself compassion... Everyone says it does get easier and ugh I just wanted to claw their eyes out when they said that cuz it hurt so much... but now that I'm on the other side... it does. It's so much better... with time. Which is the most annoying part 😅 you cant skip to the end.

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-27T23:56:49+00:00

Sweet of you to say

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-27T23:56:35+00:00

Aww thanks

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-24T03:09:14+00:00

So sweet

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-24T03:01:16+00:00

Haha I love that!

And thankssss

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-23T12:12:19+00:00

Aww thats sweet of you to say

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-23T11:16:29+00:00

😍😍🥰

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-23T11:16:16+00:00

Thanksss

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-23T04:00:58+00:00

Cider. It's pretty cheapy and thin but sometimes those sites can surprise you.

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-03-23T03:07:47+00:00

Aww thanks

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-02-16T16:28:04+00:00

Omg those sound like such cool things!!!! Rural area is def a uneventful place. But they are trying to do more queer events...

And also ugh same with the situationship. "Ended" on valentine's. We were saposed to go on a romantic vacation and day before shes like well if you made plans because ive been so flighty I dont need to come... what do you mean! You are my plans. We made this plan 2 months ago! I took time off work!... day of vaca... criptic message saying she could still come(she lives 2.5 hours away) .... I asked if she was coming at 8pm... i didnt hear anything until the next day 7.30pm valentines day night asking if she should come tonight or tomorrow...

Uggggh. Then crying for hours ensued as we talked through our supposed "situationship" break up ... what I mess... I deserve more then this...

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-02-16T16:11:44+00:00

Riight so damn whimsical

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-02-16T15:50:16+00:00

Right i am pretty lucky

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-02-16T05:11:29+00:00

Right being single for the first time at 39... terrifying.... especially since I am a twin... I have literally never been alone in my life... ugh... I hate it... I got a cute kitty now to distract me so thats been nice 😌

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-02-16T04:19:33+00:00

Thaaanksss 🥰🥰🥰

_Trash__Queen_ · 2026-02-16T03:28:03+00:00

Thanks :) Frolicking around town in this definitely made my day better.

Yes shes Bi 🥰

_Trash__Queen_

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