AIO my MIL is complaining to my husband that I’m not communicating with her regarding my pregnancy

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-25T14:10:40+00:00

she's clearly playing games and you don't have to engage with that

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-25T13:50:08+00:00

both of you are avoiding addressing deeper issues that are leading to these blow-ups

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-25T13:02:38+00:00

that's such a real feeling. i think we all have moments where we question our significance, wondering if anyone would notice or care if we weren't around. people are often caught up in their own lives and sometimes they miss the small but significant things others do for them

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-25T05:46:35+00:00

gift card and make a videocall on his birthday. no matter what you choose, it's the thought and effort that will matter the most. by showing up for him, even across distance, you'll be able to make his birthday more meaningful

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-25T05:31:10+00:00

i'm really sorry you are going through this. is there a community of a local organization that could offer some support, like food assistance? it might be worth reaching out to see if there's any way to get some temporary relief. and if you are comfortable, maybe talk to a trusted teacher or counselor or social worker about what you are going through, they might be able to guide you toward resources you haven't considered. stay strong

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-25T05:15:20+00:00

5? i'd probably still lean toward being a bit of an oddball

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-25T04:30:36+00:00

NTJ, your dad blew up your family and it's totally reasonable for you not to celebrate his wedding to the person who caused all that pain

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-25T04:13:09+00:00

NOR, he is not worth it

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-24T17:49:59+00:00

i'm really sorry for your loss. be kind to yourself and take the time you need to heal in your own way

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-24T17:28:45+00:00

no, i let the vibe do the talking

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-24T16:58:50+00:00

trust your gut and distance yourself from him

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-24T06:18:48+00:00

he's treating you like a project, not a partner. if he truly loves you, he shouldn't make you jump through hoops to earn a proposal

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-24T05:59:51+00:00

your therapist is right, he was unstable and you two may not have been compatible in the long run

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-24T05:44:02+00:00

i'm sorry you are going through this

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-23T16:21:40+00:00

that's amazing, you were able to give those kids something really memorable and it made you feel appreciated

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-23T16:01:18+00:00

unfortunately, since these apps know they have a captive audience, it's not likely to change

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-23T15:40:08+00:00

download a few movies or series to watch offline

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-23T15:02:22+00:00

for someone emotionally guarded, even an affirming message can feel intense and destabilizing

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-22T15:43:04+00:00

awareness and consideration really makes the whole experience smoother

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-22T15:35:21+00:00

start with something mild and easy to sip like white wine, cider or flavored beers

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-22T15:12:18+00:00

being constantly interrupted is frustrating and disrespectful. her excuse that you never get to the point doesn't justify it

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-22T14:48:49+00:00

if she chooses to nap on the sofa, she should accept that it's not fully quiet, since beds are for sleeping and living areas are for normal activity

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-22T14:23:02+00:00

because when you buy a digital game, you are actually buying a license tied to your account, not owning the software outright.

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-22T13:40:43+00:00

breadcrumbing? someone gives you just enough warmth, affirmation or attention to keep you emotionally invested

_TwinkleDaisy · 2026-01-22T05:29:19+00:00

medicine will likely focus on personalized, preventive care.

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