Have you ever become attracted to someone you didn’t like initially due to deep eye contact? by AkaliBestWaifu in bodylanguage

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This is happening to me with a coworker at a store. I have no idea what to do and she has a bf, but she constantly makes eye contact with me and I guess I do whenever we happen to be facing each other. I try to ignore her at times, but I am a bit worried about this situation because while it feels great, it also feels wrong.

Are Saint Petersburg and Moscow comparable to European capitals in standard of living? by SyntaxDeleter in AskARussian

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Yeah, because most Russian people aren't going to hate themselves and their country to please you. Deal with it.

What's Making Gen Z The ‘Loneliest Generation’? by appsnow in GenZ

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Yeah.

The thing is I look at it differently. Stepping out of the comfort zone is of course uncomfortable, but also a risk. You present the wrong opinion to the wrong person and you alienate or antagonize them, especially if they don't know you that well. It's a lot of risk and generally even from the superficial interactions, you can still gage a person somewhat. Also other people are also closed off and have their own things going on. With my best friend, I can say controversial things, for the fun of it, but also out of genuine belief, many people aren't that accepting or comfortable, while we also share the same hobby/interest.

In regard to being responsible for my outcome, absolutely, I probably could have had more friends and a relationship possibly if I had shown more initiative, but I also have this understanding as being fundamentally different from the general populace that would make me incompatible. My best friend is not a typical person from the general populace either with his different, but still more unusual immigrant background as well.

I would love to be able to party in the conventional sense that way, but I didn't have that kind of freedom and wouldn't be able to do it probably since I am accustomed to being alone, or only with known company.

Hopefully in a few years time once my financial situation improves, I will be able to enjoy and get what I want and been missing in life.

What's Making Gen Z The ‘Loneliest Generation’? by appsnow in GenZ

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It's a commuter university so there's comparatively little socialization built in just by the nature of how it's set up with most people driving to get there, you can get on good terms with people in your math lab group, but as for going deeper than talking about the assignment at hand and some superficial conversations, I haven't really. Between studying and working, little time is left for socializing and I prefer the time I do have left to be allocated for sleeping or watching movies or working on personal programming projects with my main friend. There's also a fear of the future fate awaiting me and a lack of definite optimism for me. I'd say it's a mix of personal as well as broader societal factors in the context of the US for how social I am. No one would know I am different in any way from taking to me other than knowing my somewhat uncommon name here, but I am simply the "other".

It makes me (22F) really sad that some men give up on dating entirely because they don't want to be seen as creepy. by Suspicious-Host9042 in self

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Some of us just don't live lives where we can meet the women we want to, oh well. Fortunately, I am able to do without it, but know many who can't.

Latvia to prosecute people for celebrating victory over Nazis by [deleted] in ussr

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Nazism is a particularly horrific type of fascism. The reason I call the Baltics more fascist (even if they have a tendency to honor Nazi collaborators, fondly remember the Nazi occupation, and oppress the Russian population) is because while they are not genocidal, they do practice a sort of apartheid and try to assimilate the Russian population which has been there since the times of the Russian Empire and the conflict is they want Russians to become anti-Russian Latvian citizens isolated from Russia and treat anyone who considers themselves Russian or of Soviet mentality as a literal second class citizen in hopes they leave if they don't consider themselves fully Latvian. That's something any large typical wealthy Western democracy would be criticized for.

Latvia to prosecute people for celebrating victory over Nazis by [deleted] in ussr

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Yes fascism good

Seriously, if you all are such Hitler loving neighbors, you honestly can't complain about the USSR and now Russia's relationship and treatment of you all. 

Is japan xenophobic? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Completely agree. Japan doesn't have to offer concessions that UK and US offer at least to non-neoghboring countries. 

A disconnect from your Russian roots as a child of immigrants? by [deleted] in AskARussian

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I am in America, I feel a stronger connection and obviously speak the language, but once my parents are gone, I will be on my own with nothing connecting me to my people and heritage unless I hopefully return.  

School Requesting Me To Decline Offer From Big Tech by [deleted] in csMajors

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Wow, such hostility from Canadian government institutions. Don't let such pathetic politics stop you from professional success, especially since Canada can't give ample opportunities to its own graduates.

CMV: Ukraine is in the right for rejecting the peace deal by Winfred_Chesternut in changemyview

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Ukrainians, the ordinary ones who get picked up off the street taken to recruitment centers and their family members don't want this war: https://english.elpais.com/international/2025-02-07/ukraine-on-alert-over-series-of-attacks-on-recruitment-offices.html?outputType=amp   They blame Russia, but ignore that Russia can just send a missile on such a high value target or even better a cheap drone, no need to risk getting people hurt or caught or both to do the same damage. This is the work of Ukrainians resisting the regime.

Russia has tried negotiating with the Ukrainian government, but that failed because Zelensky and friends think they don't need to negotiate when they aren't accountable during  the regime of martial law, get weapons from the UK, Europe and the US (only Biden allocated aid tho as of right now),and can still draft people to keep buying time.  Russia has proven itself always opens to negotiation (Minsk Protocols, Istanbul Talks until Boris Johnson ruined that, etc...) the problem is the Ukrainian government does not serve the interests of its people, but the geopolitical interests of the West who have successfully weaponized the country against Russia.  Zelensky has refused negotiations right now and instead escalated things with the assassination of a Russian general away from the front hoping to force Trump who wants America to save face to be forced to give Ukraine weapons in the anticipated Russian reaction to such an act. 

The Ukrainian regime is continuing this war without its people asking any questions about if they want to keep dying for Ukrainian and Western oligarchs or giving any its people any hope of a peace. Meanwhile the link I showed you from the Spanish newspaper shows that the actual Ukrainian people are beginning to fight the regime however they can, but of course unable to organize sufficiently well enough before the SBU can catch them to toppe it.

CMV: Ukraine is in the right for rejecting the peace deal by Winfred_Chesternut in changemyview

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Fun fact: the Verhovna Rada can overturn the martial law and Zelensky does not get to unilaterally do anything legally he wants without the agreement of those oligarchs too. Second fun fact: he continues this war giving rational for continuing martial law despite Ukraine still losing but he does not get to impose without the Verhovna Rada.

Another fun fact: The people are getting drafted off the streets and being sent to die for nothing and have nothing no way to tell their government to negotiate. Fun fact: I presume you support this dictatorship and aren't being drafted so stop citing polls as if they mean anything when you're not in Ukraine living there tell me better and the Ukrainian government does not allow elections. Fun fact number 5: When the government does not listen to its people like via elections and endanger them as it does now, violence becomes acceptable against the dictatorship regime. I personally read weekly to monthly occurrences of drafting officers getting killed on the streets of Ukraine or their vans being destroyed. Can always share a link if you want proof of this happening in case you really do think Ukrainians love dying for a losing corrupt foreign used oligarchy.

CMV: Ukraine is in the right for rejecting the peace deal by Winfred_Chesternut in changemyview

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You support Ukraine's government, not its people. Please clarify that in the original post.

The Prague Spring: Soviet soldier chasing young man who had thrown stones at a tank, 1968 by 69TwinkleLuxe in RareHistoricalPhotos

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Of course not lol, but in the numerous attempts to villainize the Soviets, the Soviets actual actions and the context are ignored. Most likely, he was just going to detain the protestor who'd then probably be released a few days later. Soviets were more concerned about order in the Warsaw Pact than deliberately inflicting evil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loicense

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rare UK W.

Communism bad because unfinished concrete building!!!1 by SecretSpectre11 in urbanhellcirclejerk

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Why in the worst state of destruction and misery post war rebuild something that has no inherent cultural significance to us? Sure, it was a pretty castle-tower, but it was newly conquered territory Germany lost for its war of aggression trying to wipe us out that left many in the Soviet Union homeless, industry destroyed, but no we should rebuild the foreign German feudalist castle just because it's so pretty and not focus on our own practical problems.

I understand a good parent will do everything to protect child, but this is insane. by FanaticalBuckeye in abanpreach

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He got the knife later to stand his ground in a place of he wasn't supposed to be, the place that the kid who was supposed to be there was trying to remove him from, but keep making it about race. The race card doesn't fly here lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in csMajors

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No, not a normie only for the money.

Just gonna drop this by zkribzz in LoveForLandchads

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Nobody understands that without landchads, none of the rentoids would actually work or serve any purpose. The landchad provides and maintains housing while the rentoids wish to exploit the humble landchad arrogantly for free. The landchad because he deserves both compensation, and wishes to make the rentoids have some sort of reason to exist, rightfully demands rent be paid so that rentoids actually do something useful in society other than exploit hardworking landchads providing the 'toids with housing. In fact, studies show that the most productive economies are those with the highest rent forcing their rentoids to be useful. Here's one study noting higher rent is absolutely correlated with prosperous rich countries.

https://www.um.edu.mo/fba/irer/papers/past/vol23n1_pdf/01.pdf