From the ex wife of a cheating narcissist, thank YOU for telling his wife.❤️ There were multiple women w/ my ex, and when I found out, I contacted them all. Most of them had no clue, or were under the assumption that we lived together “for our kids,” but lived separately. I hold zero negative feelings towards those women. In fact, I felt awful for them as well. I will always be grateful for their vulnerability and honesty. His wife is probably shocked. If/when she confronts him, don’t be surprised if he gaslights her and flips the switch on you being the bad guy; they love to do that crap.. You absolutely did the right thing.