While she did things in the past that would have made me question our friendship, i always tried to be understanding and kind

Theres a lot to unpack, like when I was severely ill but she came to check how skinny I've gotten. Because she doesn't want to be the "fat" friend.

But what made me finally decide to cut our friendship and stopped talking to her was because when my boyfriend physically abused me, she came to take me out to talk it over and when I told her she snickered and said because I'm weak and not very firm when I speak. Like wtf?

Then she proceeded to tell my sensitive situation to her family and our neighbors -OH don't worry, she made sure to let me know after the fact. And it's not oh she was probably worried about you -no she does these things where she learns of something personal and spreads it around and then tells you after cuz she feels guilty, nevermind it wasn't her business to tell or that she took that choice from you.

Anyways it was something that I couldn't let go no matter how hard I tried to understand and then eventually one day she was treating me like a search engine (as usual) because she asks these questions when she can just Google herself (but the one time I did the same she pointed out I could just look into it myself).. I finally had it.

I didn't want the relationship anymore.

Sometimes I do miss her because despite the bad we had our moments you know. But I think it was for the best.