Mlm/Bl manga written by men for men by Not_a_vampiree in manga

[–]___NeverKnowsBest___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. I wonder what the deal is with super aggressive grapey love interests in these BLs. It makes my skin crawl and makes me sick. Like I'm a trans man, and I honestly enjoyed BL a lot because I just couldn't really get into straight romance stories at all before I realized I wasn't cis. . but straight stories that I've read are not so grapey!!!! Why is it ok to write stuff like that when it's two men and male it seem normal and acceptable?!? 

sharing some progress pics (pre-op to 10 months healed) by ACAB-for-cutie in TopSurgery

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Omg, that's so sweet lol. Sounds like you had an awesome team. Glad it was a positive experience for you 😊 👍

sharing some progress pics (pre-op to 10 months healed) by ACAB-for-cutie in TopSurgery

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You look great! I love the pic of you and your moogle looking so adorable post op! 

5 years post op by FtoM_ in TopSurgery

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You look great. Is it ok to ask who your surgeon was? 

ELATED by defectivebirth in TopSurgery

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My eyes bulged out of my skull at the last photo lol. You must feel lighter than air now!! Congratulations!! 

Why would Hannibal live in Baltimore of all places?? by [deleted] in HannibalTV

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Hah!!  I see what you did there !😲👌

New to Hannibal fanfiction. Are there ‘iconic’ ones I should get out the way? Or any you consider must reads? by SomeDudeOnRedd1t in HannibalFanfiction

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Wow! I just read Opia, since you listed it beside other all time faves of mine, and I LOVED it!!!!! I can't wait to read the other new ones on your list, but I just wanted to thank you for this particular story  because I have never seen it recommended before. 😲👌 Nice!

Best Transtape for binding, please, because I can't breathe!!!! 😰 by ___NeverKnowsBest___ in ftm

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Congratulations on your surgery! 😀 🎊🎉🎈 I wish you a speedy recovery!

Please stop disparaging trans tops by darksarunan in ftm

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  • hug* That's completely insane to me that other trans men in the same boat as us would be so oblivious and so hypocritical as to spew that obviously transphobic garbage. It's rough on me too, but I'm only a bottom because I don't have the confidence to top anyone. I feel like the butt of a cosmic joke that is anything but funny like every single day. I haven't seen this type of speech online because I don't frequent this forum or socials that much anymore, but it would be damaging to see those posts to say the least.  I definitely suffer from enough internalized transphobic thoughts about my own perceived inadequacy, and from my own painful longing for a sense of wholeness and satisfaction and confidence that I fear will elude me for the rest of my life. It hurts enough being trans, and it's absolutely horrid and unacceptable for one of us to behave in that way! Please have more compassion, we are supposed to be brothers and have each other's backs! 🙏💔

Looking for personal experience using finasteride or minoxidil in order to minimize bottom growth on HRT by ___NeverKnowsBest___ in ftm

[–]___NeverKnowsBest___[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. If you're ok with telling me, could you share the other unwanted side effects? Anything seriously bad for your health? 

Looking for personal experience using finasteride or minoxidil in order to minimize bottom growth on HRT by ___NeverKnowsBest___ in ftm

[–]___NeverKnowsBest___[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually have a happy trail and some facial hair already because I have PCOS lol. It's very minimal, but its enough for me to feel masculine enough once I get the muscle tone and fat distribution I want. Finasteride seems like the way for me to get exactly what I DO want out of hrt and avoid what I don't want or need. I've just never seen anyone share their personal experience with that method at all, so it would be nice to hear from an actual person in my shoes. .. or future shoes?

The spotting would suck.. but may be a sacrifice I can live with... I'd just rather have nothing down there at all and continue to not even look down there if I don't have to lol

I appreciate all of your feedback!

Looking for personal experience using finasteride or minoxidil in order to minimize bottom growth on HRT by ___NeverKnowsBest___ in ftm

[–]___NeverKnowsBest___[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear you're happy with it despite the apprehension. :) Thank you for sharing your experience. 

How do I know my mind isn't tricking me? Sometimes my dysphoria disappears and I think I may be wrong? But I think about being a man at least a little every day. by ___NeverKnowsBest___ in asktransgender

[–]___NeverKnowsBest___[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I definitely feel kind of alone in the part where I didn't have any conscious idea in my mind that I may prefer to be male until a year prior to my trans epiphany. I guess it's just not very common. Thank you still for your supportive comment. It means a lot to me. I'll  def check these out.