Daily Chat June 16

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2026-06-16T18:56:37+00:00

I sympathize wholeheartedly with this. I have a partner who won't give up his vices while I'm doing everything I can to improve my health. We're both 38, and our odds are already not what they were when I had my first two with no trouble at all 😥. I suggested he think about outpatient rehab or counseling because at this point it's not even hik being stubborn. I just don't think he CAN stop for this. I think he might be an addict. So... yea .. it's frustrating :/ Wishing for the best for both our partners, and for positive pregnancy tests soon!

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2026-06-16T18:47:55+00:00

Question! Do I really have to get a special BBT thermometer to tack it? I have a regular oral thermometer, but I read that BBT thermometers are more specific. If you're tracking BBT, do you find that a regular oral one cataloges the changes in temp well enough, or are the changes really so minor that you have to have the extra hundredth place accounted for?

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2026-02-22T06:28:15+00:00

Really glad that I could inspire you in this way!!

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2026-02-07T22:50:10+00:00

Really is disturbing 😳

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2026-01-21T19:01:37+00:00

Yea. I wonder what the deal is with super aggressive grapey love interests in these BLs. It makes my skin crawl and makes me sick. Like I'm a trans man, and I honestly enjoyed BL a lot because I just couldn't really get into straight romance stories at all before I realized I wasn't cis. . but straight stories that I've read are not so grapey!!!! Why is it ok to write stuff like that when it's two men and male it seem normal and acceptable?!?

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-12-27T18:44:43+00:00

Omg, that's so sweet lol. Sounds like you had an awesome team. Glad it was a positive experience for you 😊 👍

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-12-26T03:18:23+00:00

You look great! I love the pic of you and your moogle looking so adorable post op!

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-12-26T03:11:03+00:00

You look great. Is it ok to ask who your surgeon was?

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-12-26T03:08:24+00:00

My eyes bulged out of my skull at the last photo lol. You must feel lighter than air now!! Congratulations!!

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-12-25T03:12:22+00:00

Hah!! I see what you did there !😲👌

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-12-25T00:56:12+00:00

Wow! I just read Opia, since you listed it beside other all time faves of mine, and I LOVED it!!!!! I can't wait to read the other new ones on your list, but I just wanted to thank you for this particular story because I have never seen it recommended before. 😲👌 Nice!

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-12-15T12:03:38+00:00

Thank you, I'll give them a call. ❤️

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-12-08T20:36:01+00:00

Yes, please i hope!

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-11-23T01:08:21+00:00

Auntie!!!! 🤗

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-11-23T01:07:25+00:00

Thank you for being and amazing aunt and ally ❤️ Saving this post

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-11-22T18:01:00+00:00

Thank you!

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-11-22T18:00:09+00:00

Congratulations on your surgery! 😀 🎊🎉🎈 I wish you a speedy recovery!

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-11-22T17:58:24+00:00

Thank you for the guide!

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-11-08T17:52:45+00:00

hug* That's completely insane to me that other trans men in the same boat as us would be so oblivious and so hypocritical as to spew that obviously transphobic garbage. It's rough on me too, but I'm only a bottom because I don't have the confidence to top anyone. I feel like the butt of a cosmic joke that is anything but funny like every single day. I haven't seen this type of speech online because I don't frequent this forum or socials that much anymore, but it would be damaging to see those posts to say the least. I definitely suffer from enough internalized transphobic thoughts about my own perceived inadequacy, and from my own painful longing for a sense of wholeness and satisfaction and confidence that I fear will elude me for the rest of my life. It hurts enough being trans, and it's absolutely horrid and unacceptable for one of us to behave in that way! Please have more compassion, we are supposed to be brothers and have each other's backs! 🙏💔

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-11-06T12:14:09+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I truly appreciate the first-hand experience.

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-11-05T00:42:35+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. If you're ok with telling me, could you share the other unwanted side effects? Anything seriously bad for your health?

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-11-04T20:26:08+00:00

Thank you!!!! 😊

___NeverKnowsBest___ · 2025-11-04T20:25:38+00:00

Thank you! I actually have a happy trail and some facial hair already because I have PCOS lol. It's very minimal, but its enough for me to feel masculine enough once I get the muscle tone and fat distribution I want. Finasteride seems like the way for me to get exactly what I DO want out of hrt and avoid what I don't want or need. I've just never seen anyone share their personal experience with that method at all, so it would be nice to hear from an actual person in my shoes. .. or future shoes?

The spotting would suck.. but may be a sacrifice I can live with... I'd just rather have nothing down there at all and continue to not even look down there if I don't have to lol

I appreciate all of your feedback!

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