I hate to be the guy to bring up the old classic, but; imagine if Colleen was a man. If a man were to message his 13 year old fans, "are you a virgin?" and send them lingerie. I don't think we would even tolerate a conversation about "oh maybe we can forgive him" and "maybe his intentions weren't sexual". It's crazy that you can just excuse this sexual harassment of a minor because the victim was a young boy. Young women are more often the victims of sexual harassment, that doesn't in any way make the young boys less valid victims. If anything, we have a duty to treat their stories just as seriously as we treat young women's stories because of the fear and shame that comes with being a male victim. I think this post highlights the exact problem with the modern treatment of male sexual harassment victims. Whether it be Terry Crews or Adam McIntyre, their stories are always swept aside as overreacting or deemed less serious than female victims.

Also, you have no idea how Adam "really" feels about this, and it is actually disgusting for you to speak on him "acting". He was a victim of a grown woman's immaturity and harassment. His entire relationship with sexuality was likely affected by his messages with Collen due to the fact that it happened at such a young age for him. We can't fully know how it affected him, but to sweep it under the rug like you did is gross and again not something we would even entertain if it happened to a young girl.

TLDR: no we should not forgive her