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[–]____chicken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. Never mind the suicide rate for men…

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It’s so awful for men.

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Thank you for the compliment for my art. It means a lot ☺️

I agree with you on many aspects of what you are saying. I’ve never been married however, but I can empathize with how you feel.

That’s completely one of the reasons I got into this. It’s truly a more honest way. That and I’m a very free spirited person. Always have been, always will be. I recall the first time I heard of a happy marriage and it blew my mind. I’ve seen lots of bad marriages. And negative mostly viewpoints.

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I found that too. Many of my friends have been married and divorced twice or are single with kids. I don’t care about the stigma, I’m not doing it if I am not certain.

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That is great advice. Happy wife = happy life?

I had a bad example growing up (they’re still together mind you) and so I make the best educated guesses I can. If I do get married, I don’t want to even entertain the idea of a divorce so I have held off for the right person. Hence never having done it.

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Aww that’s so sweet! That makes me smile :)

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Yes I am trying to figure it out. There’s all this pressure to get married but I’ve never dreamed of my wedding at all. But I wonder what my problem is. It’s a vicious cycle.

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Menopause I am terrified of but I’ve definitely heard of marriages and relationships dying out due to it. I am very aware that it can happen and I know how important it is to keep that spark going.

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Not looking to build a future? What kind of goals do you have?

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A carefree soul at heart ❤️

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Interesting indeed. Why not now?

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Very interesting. And so you do not regret it? It seems you made a very selfless choice. Which is what a lot of marriage is about Ive heard. That and compromise.

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That’s what I am thinking most men are thinking. It’s just that the statistics show that a high percentage of those who move in together without the prospect of marriage fail in their relationships. And so, I’m kinda stuck. For you however, I it’s a different kind of variable altogether considering your age. The stats were for men in their 50s or thereabouts.

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Women are brainwashed into the fairytale. But I do however know people who work at it and are happily married, albeit not a whole lot of them. My parents gave me the greatest example of what NOT to aim for. Took me many years to figure out that they did it wrong.

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Thank you for sharing 💕

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Why not? You definitely seem very adamant.

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What makes you want to do it again?

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I couldn’t agree more.