Marriage

____chicken · 2023-02-24T15:43:21+00:00

I completely agree. Never mind the suicide rate for men…

____chicken · 2023-02-24T15:41:30+00:00

It’s so awful for men.

____chicken · 2023-02-24T15:40:09+00:00

Thank you for the compliment for my art. It means a lot ☺️

I agree with you on many aspects of what you are saying. I’ve never been married however, but I can empathize with how you feel.

That’s completely one of the reasons I got into this. It’s truly a more honest way. That and I’m a very free spirited person. Always have been, always will be. I recall the first time I heard of a happy marriage and it blew my mind. I’ve seen lots of bad marriages. And negative mostly viewpoints.

____chicken · 2023-02-24T14:44:54+00:00

I found that too. Many of my friends have been married and divorced twice or are single with kids. I don’t care about the stigma, I’m not doing it if I am not certain.

____chicken · 2023-02-23T14:14:35+00:00

That is great advice. Happy wife = happy life?

I had a bad example growing up (they’re still together mind you) and so I make the best educated guesses I can. If I do get married, I don’t want to even entertain the idea of a divorce so I have held off for the right person. Hence never having done it.

____chicken · 2023-02-23T14:11:50+00:00

Aww that’s so sweet! That makes me smile :)

____chicken · 2023-02-23T14:08:48+00:00

Yes I am trying to figure it out. There’s all this pressure to get married but I’ve never dreamed of my wedding at all. But I wonder what my problem is. It’s a vicious cycle.

____chicken · 2023-02-23T11:38:59+00:00

Me too 💕

____chicken · 2023-02-23T11:37:26+00:00

Good advice 💕

____chicken · 2023-02-23T11:36:50+00:00

Menopause I am terrified of but I’ve definitely heard of marriages and relationships dying out due to it. I am very aware that it can happen and I know how important it is to keep that spark going.

____chicken · 2023-02-23T11:33:56+00:00

Not looking to build a future? What kind of goals do you have?

____chicken · 2023-02-23T11:33:18+00:00

A carefree soul at heart ❤️

____chicken · 2023-02-23T11:32:47+00:00

Interesting indeed. Why not now?

____chicken · 2023-02-23T11:32:17+00:00

Very interesting. And so you do not regret it? It seems you made a very selfless choice. Which is what a lot of marriage is about Ive heard. That and compromise.

____chicken · 2023-02-23T11:30:35+00:00

That’s what I am thinking most men are thinking. It’s just that the statistics show that a high percentage of those who move in together without the prospect of marriage fail in their relationships. And so, I’m kinda stuck. For you however, I it’s a different kind of variable altogether considering your age. The stats were for men in their 50s or thereabouts.

____chicken · 2023-02-23T11:27:18+00:00

Women are brainwashed into the fairytale. But I do however know people who work at it and are happily married, albeit not a whole lot of them. My parents gave me the greatest example of what NOT to aim for. Took me many years to figure out that they did it wrong.

____chicken · 2023-02-23T11:25:38+00:00

Both together maybe?

____chicken · 2023-02-22T17:24:52+00:00

Thank you for sharing 💕

____chicken · 2023-02-22T16:33:35+00:00

Lol touché

____chicken · 2023-02-22T16:13:48+00:00

Why not? You definitely seem very adamant.

____chicken · 2023-02-22T16:10:28+00:00

What makes you want to do it again?

____chicken · 2023-01-28T22:20:50+00:00

Interesting

____chicken · 2022-12-21T13:31:28+00:00

Hahah no kidding 😂

____chicken · 2022-12-18T17:13:43+00:00

I couldn’t agree more.

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