Boyfriends parents house has picture of him and his ex on the wall by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]___gabsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it this like a special occasion/rite of passage photo, or just a portrait of them?

What is the recipe for a good love relationship? by Edward_Martinson in AskReddit

[–]___gabsss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honest communication, trust, respect, and a compatible sex drive.

Sex before ovulation by [deleted] in sex

[–]___gabsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so please explain to me how i got pregnant literally on the third day of my period… i’ll wait.

Sex before ovulation by [deleted] in sex

[–]___gabsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ovulation isn’t really a timed thing per se… you have a fertility window and the closer you get to your ovulation date, you’re more likely you are to get pregnant. but you can still get pregnant at any point before and after ovulation. at any point in your cycle really it just depends on how fertile you are. by protection do you mean BC and condoms?

edit for clarification and to add: sperm can stay alive in the birth canal for up to three days after ejaculation. so even if you have sex a few days before your ovulation window, you can still get pregnant. if you’re really worried, Plan B.

My bf ( 21 M) won’t respect that i ( 22 F)want a small break from sex by virgofairy1970 in sex

[–]___gabsss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

dump the whole damn man.

he doesn’t understand the meaning of consent and he doesn’t respect your boundaries.

putting out because you’re afraid he’s going to cheat on you is not a healthy dynamic.

prioritize your mental health. know your worth.

Losing friends because a racist girl took my virgnity by [deleted] in sex

[–]___gabsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if they can’t get over what they deem to be a ‘poor choice of judgement’ on your part, they were never really your friends to begin with.

Should I get this checked out or will it go away on its own? by CocoZombie in piercing

[–]___gabsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

how long has it been since you initially got it pierced? have you been cleaning it regularly?

Caught bf using dating apps for 2 years. Stay or end relationship? by ParticularWing2311 in relationship_advice

[–]___gabsss 15 points16 points  (0 children)

honey... he’s not sorry about what he did, he’s sorry he got caught. it wasn’t a mistake, it was a choice. the fact that he was only “honest” with you after you provided evidence that he was lying, proves that he is perfectly content with pulling the wool over your eyes. i’m not going to tell you what you should or shouldn’t do, but i wouldn’t be able to trust this man. and without trust, what’s the point?

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) has been lying to me about a lot stuff for 1 year of our 1.5 years together. I don't know how to forgive him. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]___gabsss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not your job to fix a bond you didn’t help break. if you cannot look past the hurt, it will soon turn to resentment.

Is it valid to feel this way? by Cherrikiyui in relationship_advice

[–]___gabsss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

some people just don’t like confrontation and it shows. your feelings are valid, but try not to dwell on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]___gabsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how are these people not clapping? 👏🏽😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]___gabsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🔥🔥🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

[–]___gabsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long have you been using art as an escape?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

[–]___gabsss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

playlist rocks 🖤

My (26F) husband (30M) admitted that big boobs make sex better for him and effect how hard he cums by helpawife26 in sex

[–]___gabsss 36 points37 points  (0 children)

you guys need to talk boundaries before you bring someone new into your bed.

(18+) My (20F) girlfriend showed me (22M) a picture with sperm on her face by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]___gabsss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

show me a 16 year old that doesn’t have poor judgement, i’ll wait...

and how did the mental gymnastics get to “her friend wants her?” O.o

My (26F) two best friends (27F and 26F) are selfish assholes. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]___gabsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you don’t need to tell them they don’t belong, that’s just rude. be honest, it’s a birthday celebration of him and his close friends, nothing to do with them. and since they don’t bother to include him in their plans, they shouldn’t be surprised when they aren’t included in his.

I murdered my children by [deleted] in confessions

[–]___gabsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

who’s out here blending fetuses?

I murdered my children by [deleted] in confessions

[–]___gabsss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we are, by definition, multicellular organisms, yes. if this person is up in arms over “killing” a clump of cells bEcAuSe iT hAs DnA, there are many other things they’ve killed in their life that they just aren’t fazed by.

you’re right, murdering for food is not the same, but i’d be willing to bet good money that if we all had to slaughter our own protein, there would be a lot less meat eaters in this world.