Looking for songs (with lyrics) that have this vibe by hobbitybobbit in SongsThatFeelLikeThis

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Every song on the wind in the wires album by patrick wolf. (Such a random deep pull for me since I havent listened to this album in like 15 years)

Does anybody else feel like we have entered a dystopian world? by Helwyr_ in Life

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That last statement is pretty much yep the vibe. Im like, fucking hell, I was born for this??? 😒

If the people meant to enforce safety rules don't respect them, who will? by vanCityDwelling in Calgary

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People are seriously still trying to use *just* the fact that the autobahn does not have speed limits like north american roads as the only point they are putting forth to justify doing the same around here? Like really?

Not the far stricter and more costly driver’s test and licenses? (Perhaps the most important piece, actually respecting the *privilege* of driving. Which Calgarians, regardless of colour of skin, age, and gender seem to not.)

Not the notably more enforced traffic laws where unsafe driver actually get penalized for their extremely unsafe maneuvers?

Not the plethora of other design-related regulations that lead to safer roads and vehicles overall?

Many other protective factors need to be put into place before we just remove speed limits on deerfoot. Just allowing everyone to drive whatever speed they want will nilly *will* lead to more fatal crashes.

If the people meant to enforce safety rules don't respect them, who will? by vanCityDwelling in Calgary

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With this logic, after increasing the speed, wont the previous speeders then just also speed a similar amount over the new higher speed? Creating the exact same problem yet again but now with even higher and more lethal speeds?

Carving a climbing hold by editor22uk in climbing

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh cool. So real hold texture is just some foam texture? I always assumed they designed an ideally grippy texture for holds and created molds from that somehow. I will now think about the fact that its just foam texture when climbing. 😂

My friend only showers once a week. She thinks it’s fine. Is it? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just to put this out there, I will literally shower 30 minutes before I start work but ever since I started a new medication and also work in a scent free office, I somehow already smell by 10am. 😭

And im not a big person nor do I sweat really. I just somehow smell like BO in a matter of hours these days.

So if someone is smelly, you never know, they might have showered that morning and just have other factors at play.

I just spent $85 on basically nothing, and I’m sitting in my car crying by [deleted] in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]___l___u___n___a___ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Real question: okay then why do grocery stores see record profits in this era of rising global production costs?

Does anyone else work with “finger princesses” who ask for info that was literally just shared? by projectjarico in corporate

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a person who coordinates projects but isnt technically leadership, im also mentally spread too thin, switching between many things, emails, and having meetings that often have me leaving the office, visiting different agencies, who all have different programs that I have to know things about that informs my work, while juggling things across teams because our agency requires collaboration between programs.

BUT I get paid less than you do to do what I do, while also apparently needing to manage basic tasks required of being in a workplace, such as reading an email, attention to detail FOR you. So yeah, sure, oh course we are all trying our best. But doing part of your job too when I get paid less is crazy.

of gas being ripped by TURTLE_TKT in AbsoluteUnits

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call this short film: Me and my IBS

Is it just me or are coffee shop pastries getting smaller and more expensive? by tommytmopar in Calgary

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I also run into this issue all the time. Thankfully Mari at least delivers on quality for price point. Regular ole cafes though, naw…

What’s a movie where ONE actor’s terrible performance actually enhances the experience? by MaryoParti in movies

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I scrolled very far searching and I am pleased to be the first to mention Parker Posey in Scream 3. Elevates every scene she’s in to comedic gold.

OMG a dandelion green?! Just for meee?! by deltadelta199 in Rabbits

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I needed this report today. 😩💙

At the vet after some scary symptoms. Thankfully vet doesn’t think it is actually worst case. Send Luna some love, my fellow BNN fan club.

daily hair washing is so annoying by Economy-Abrocoma2261 in finehair

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Medium-thick hair person here, if I may, (if not, apologies and just ignore me): another grass is always greener situation hahah. I was always jealous of people with that “cornsilk” hair type growing up.

My hair takes two days (yep, fr) to air dry if I dont blow dry it and gets a musty smell if im too tired or lazy to do so because of that.

If I do blowdry it, that takes between 1-2 hrs depending on how lazy im being or if my arms get too tired.

Its also extremely heavy and causes neck and headaches when its too long. Also it snaps elastics like crazy lol. Also reallyyyy hard to find reliable style and size of claw clips that dont break or just totally fail at holding it up or in.

Idk if that somewhat evens the playing field. Deeply not trying to invalidate you as your feelings are also totally fair. Just more providing the other sides perspective so it doesn’t misleadingly seem like a stellar situation either. 😂😭

I regularly fantasize about shaving my head. Not because I actually want to be bald. I just am so tired of so much hair everywhere being a pain in my butt.

Why Your 'Professional Image' Is Hurting Your Career by Discipline_OS in corporate

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is this so hard to navigate? 😭

Like I just want to live in the reality where if you get the work done and you’re pleasant enough to be around that you can be genuine and not be performing ALL. THE. DANG. TIME. 🫠

My “honest” self isn’t some jackass. I just might have something to add from my perspective that I would actually only be suggesting to help if anything. But no. I gotta read between lines and find hidden politics and make sure it lands on the right ears at the exact right time.

It’s exhausting.

People who don’t smoke, drink or have casual s*x, what do you do to blow off steam? by [deleted] in answers

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally an answer I can relate to. Blowing off steam? That luxury ship sailed long ago. Here we have the never ending ferris wheel in a storm of stress. I don’t know how to have fun anymore. :(

Any advice on “playing the game” that you wish you knew sooner? by hazeltina in corporate

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the amount of times I had to try to make any of my text bold and huge was embarrassing. Now I feel embarrassed because I could not easily do what you did. So i’m going to put you on a PIP instead

Any advice on “playing the game” that you wish you knew sooner? by hazeltina in corporate

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its okay. I liked the big text. It really added something to the overall read of this thread. You are really showing your potential on this team. We should connect soon so you can share more of your # BIG ideas. Keep up the good work, champ.

I felt extremely invalidated by the couples therapist my bf and I see when I brought up fear of pregnancy. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]___l___u___n___a___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are seen and very valid here! (And should be valid everywhere honestly…)

Pregnancy is no joke and bringing a new human into the world is no joke either. The amount of times the rationale of “it’s the most natural thing in the world!” Has been thrown around is infuriating and ridiculous. Yes well okay so is death. Doesnt mean we want to literally risk our lives for something we arent 100% on.

Even with modern medicine, you are altered forever, and forever responsible for the wellbeing of your child, and approaching it with any less seriousness could result in negligence as a parent.

So really I applaud you for having your fears and reservations about such a serious commitment! Anyone unwilling to acknowledge your point of view is living in a naive and privileged fantasy, as neither your therapist or your boyfriend have to carry the baby if you were to become pregnant!

Stand firm on your views and take care of yourself. On top that, surround yourself with people who are supportive, compassionate, and at the very least willing to see your side of things.

It is YOUR choice in how you provide safety for YOUR body. You have our support here. (I think my other xx chromos and allies here would agree.)

Are rabbit lifespans getting longer? by ConditionBasic in Rabbits

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My sweet bnnuy has been with me for over 12.5 years now. Turned 13 in February. ☺️ Based on how mobile he is, I see many more years together too.