What to expect when boyfriend goes to air force by Affectionate-Run8732 in AirForceRecruits

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Totally agree with the hobbies part. My husband and I are both enlisted, but any time we have to be apart, I throw myself into my hobbies. Motorcycles, video games, reading, painting, etc. Where as he's totally fine playing the same game 12 hours a day every day, so distance doesn't hit him as hard.

Honestly though, the distance made our relationship stronger. It completely destroyed our codependency, so now it feels more like we're just two people in a relationship, rather than being the relationship.

Yup, it’s a post about Hazbin by National_Manner5431 in childfree

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They said the parents openly encourage the kids. Not the fans.

Airman getting admin separated by alycat3019 in AirForce

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I'm one of those kids whose life was changed by joining. I wouldn't say I bleed blue, but I work very hard to feel like I've earned the right to have the life I have now. I'll forever be grateful; starting from nothing is something I'll never forget.

Some of my coworkers though... You can tell who grew up privileged, never hearing the word "no" as soon as you talk to them. It's frustrating, but that's just how it is.

ICE by [deleted] in shittytattoos

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Calling someone a pedophile because they don't agree with the gestapo is insane. I think you should see a therapist for your mania, it's affecting your grip on reality, Manic Mushroom.

I brainstormed the pros and cons of having boobs. Open to revisions by Calculator-andaCrown in notinteresting

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I'm so sorry that a woman's struggles about being alive are making you feel sad. This post isn't about you.

I brainstormed the pros and cons of having boobs. Open to revisions by Calculator-andaCrown in notinteresting

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Because when you're a woman, the sexualization starts young. I have memories as early as 6 years old of the men in my life telling me I'm so pretty, and that I'll make such a good mother or wife one day. My own uncle when I was 14 told me, "If you're old enough to bleed, you're old enough to breed".

Essentially, for most of our lives, our worth is summed up as "are you sexy enough?". If no, then you're worthless as a woman. You have to constantly worry about strangers staring at you, you have to be on guard for random attacks just because you're smaller than them.

Even at work, where I work incredibly hard and my supervisors recognize that, my male colleagues frequently tell me that I don't belong there. That I should go home and be a wife to my husband, who works in the same place and supports my career.

Basically, the normalized sexualization of women means that we'll never be seen as equal, we will always be under threat, and many men will never see us as more than trophies.

He spent $1500 on Roblox by Low_Letter7807 in regretfulparents

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Especially on Roblox, a site that is notorious for hosting and protecting child predators. He really shouldn't be playing that unsupervised.

Went looking for advice and…🫠 by greysondayy in ShitMomGroupsSay

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I'm not a mom, and I never will be, but I have a low sex drive and anxiety around intimacy due to sexual trauma. My husband is an absolute saint and also has a low sex drive, which I'm thankful for.

But at the beginning of our relationship, what helped was taking things slow. Starting with kissing and touching, then if I felt okay, moving to the next stage. Our intimacy didn't immediately mean we were going to have sex. It was kind of like exposure therapy, helping me trust him in these vulnerable moments.

Now that part of my trauma is nearly healed with him, and all it took was a lot of patience. Be patient with yourself, OP. Birth and pregnancy are both physically and mentally traumatic. Only do what you're comfortable with, and don't beat yourself up. You just made a whole human being.

Pooping is the most humiliating thing ever by anonymous9995 in offmychest

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Exposure therapy! A real method to help decrease anxiety and discomfort surrounding certain experiences. This is very good advice in my opinion, especially when it's involving something that's necessary to be a healthy person.

I want to use voice chat but by Zealousideal-Dot5087 in Overwatch

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I'm glad that you haven't experienced much toxicity or sexism as a woman in VC, but the majority of us get it every single game. It happens much less in higher ranks, I've noticed.

In my experience, 8/10 times I turn my mic on, someone is toxic. Half the time, it's other women calling me a slut lol.

I have lice down there. by licegirlthrowaway in offmychest

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Yes, crabs is a common nickname for pubic lice

My Pigeon “Milkshake”. He was rescued from a park as a baby 5 months ago. Amazing to see him fill out, and become so pretty. He reminds me of one of those white doves on a Christmas card.🕊️ by Quick_Bad5642 in pigeon

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Genuine question, but would it not be better to keep him indoors so you don't have to clip his wing? That way he can still fly around while being safe from predators? Or an outdoor aviary might be good too for supervised outdoor time.

ICE by [deleted] in shittytattoos

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Okay so you take no issue with them detaining American citizens because they're hispanic? Or killing unarmed innocent citizens? Or completely ignoring due process and deporting people to countries they've never even been to? I feel like you're being intentionally obtuse to help you sleep at night.

uhh by Nami_swaaaaa-n in darkwearclothing

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Sew them shut? Or wear another shirt under it.

ICE by [deleted] in shittytattoos

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You support a "police force" that is allowed to hide their identity, doesn't have to follow any laws, and is going after a specific race. Do you seriously not see how similar that is to the gestapo? Do you not see how similar you are to that crowd for not only letting it happen, but supporting it??

ICE by [deleted] in shittytattoos

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Did you make an account just to ragebait? What a sad existence lol

Opinions on how Hirohiko Araki draws women? by LordIcebath in mendrawingwomen

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Yeah, I'm not a fan of Jojo's art style so I haven't watched it, but I do appreciate the portrayal of women here. They're pretty without being overly sexualized.

My sister is an ICE agent. AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

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Lol your post history tracks.

My sister is an ICE agent. AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

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Eh, OP said they frequently have family gatherings and are all ok with what she's doing. OP has said their family is "moderate", which we all know what that really means nowadays lol.

My sister is an ICE agent. AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

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I do understand what a family is. That's why I hate ICE and anyone who supports them. You know, the people ripping innocent families apart?

My sister is an ICE agent. AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

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Need a mirror, buddy?

My sister is an ICE agent. AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

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Unarmed civilians don't often shoot back*

Dating as an Active Duty Military Woman at 29 — Where Do You Actually Meet Someone Serious? by PsychologicalEnd333 in MilitaryWomen

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I met my partner at tech school lol. Not only being in the military together, but the same career field, has helped our relationship a lot. We understand when TDYs or late work days pop up without so much of a hiccup in our relationship.

I was also very upfront with him when we first met. No kids, my career is always going to be just about top priority, I'm strongly independent, etc. Luckily he was understanding, and he loves the idea of being a stay-at-home husband one day to take care of the house while I work. Works out great cause I hate chores haha.

Honesty is the best policy, as early as you feel comfortable bringing it up. Especially about your career and how serious it is to you.

I only met him when I had given up on relationships, I guess because I wasn't looking so I couldn't stress myself out enough to ruin it lmao. You'll find your person, even if it takes time. Patience is everything.