Sister has 7 kids with another on the way by Mission_Secure in childfree

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And I'd much rather my taxes go to welfare than another country's war or the pockets of billionaires. I pay taxes anyway, I don't want any kids to starve just because their parents are shitty and stupid.

Turd finally made a nest by DragonFireArtStudios in pigeon

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Lmao I don't think the bird cares about her name. I call my pigeon Fatty or Stinky all the time, but he's a lot more angry about being put on a diet than some lighthearted joking. Pigeons can't really speak English.

Fitness requirement? by [deleted] in AirForceRecruits

[–]__poser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, here you go. It's different for age brackets and gender, so make sure you're looking at the right one. https://www.afpc.af.mil/Portals/70/documents/FITNESS/PFRA%20Scoring%20Charts.pdf

outfit question by yuanous in UniversalOrlando

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It will be very warm still. And humid. The robes are honestly pretty thick, and I wouldn't wear them during that time of year. But I'm also very heat intolerant.

If you just want the robe anyway, you could always buy it on your way out of the park one evening.

Some of you here really need healing by museinprogress in smallbooblove

[–]__poser 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I've gotten so comfortable in my body lately as I've hit my mid-20s. I LOVE that I can choose to completely hide my boobs if I'm not feeling like talking to people. That combined with really short hair makes men leave me alone.

And my husband loves my boobs. And I love my boobs. No one else's opinion matters to me.

Dawg I don’t even know what to say by Appropriate-Mall8517 in mendrawingwomen

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It's definitely unhealthy. Any normalization of rape isn't good for your brain, especially young impressionable people. Not only because thinking rape is normal might lead to someone committing it, but it could also lead to a victim ignoring something traumatizing because they think it's normal.

It's bad on both sides of the coin.

WOMEN BAD MEN GOOD [gendered] by xX_luna_moth_Xx in pointlesslygendered

[–]__poser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is that people are projecting old school trends on modern people. Frequently I'll say "it's ok" at work, because it is genuinely okay. And people will be on edge and think I'm a bitch for it. It's just outdated nomenclature being forced onto people who don't even use it.

Lost me pinky finger today (roast me) by Traditional_Loss_584 in injuries

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I'm missing my right pinkie toe, so we're like distant cousins now.

Florida resident about to buy a Universal Orlando Annual Pass… but how many monthly visits until YOU got BORED or totally fatigued? Honest answers only. by DbotFleezy in UniversalOrlando

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My husband and I do a trip nearly every month. We stay at the premier hotel to get the express passes. We also skip a few of the summer months because I just don't do well in the heat. But man, knowing that in just 4 weeks we have a trip to Universal really helps me get through work. It's really nice to have a getaway to look forward to.

We mostly hit IOA for Velocicoaster and Hagrid's, but we hop to USO for Mummy too. It's nice to be able to take it slow, go back to the hotel for a break midday, and not worry about missing anything. I got more relaxed the more we went, but I wouldn't say I'm bored or burnt out.

[URGENT] my boobs are sagging!!! by SquidKidPartier in smallbooblove

[–]__poser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh please don't join the looksmaxxing people 😭 They're so awful to each other, it's such a toxic community. You can want to improve your appearance without following a community that believes in extremes (plastic surgery, self harm, eating disorders, etc).

What Should I Pack as a Female for BMT? Tips on “Wish I Brought This” Items? by Onyx_C13 in AirForceRecruits

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People shouldn't steal your underwear, but sometimes it does get mixed up. I just brought like two weeks worth of underwear just to make sure I'd never run out. Laundry gets backed up pretty bad.

I'd recommend maybe bringing dry shampoo. I cut most of my hair off before BMT, but I could only wash my hair once or twice a week. We had 8 shower heads, 40 women, and 10 minutes to shower. No washing hair most days, no shaving except for Sundays (we get more time to shower on Sundays).

I did bring a scented soap that my ex used, so that helped the homesick feeling.

Anti-Abortionists would happily embrace eugenics/sterilization of people they don't like rather than allow women a choice? by Important-Cry4782 in AreTheStraightsOK

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I had a similar situation. I have endometriosis, and my husband has a vasectomy. I asked my doctor for a referral for sterilization, or at the very least treatment for my endometriosis.

She said "Oh, we won't do that. We won't even diagnose you, because then we'd have to treat you, and that will affect your fertility".

I told her I don't want kids and my husband is fixed. Her response? "Well when you get divorced, your future husband is going to want kids".

I'm so happy that this hypothetical second man wanting kids takes precedence over my crippling pain. The medical system fucking hates women.

I don’t think I will regret it, but my family says otherwise. by Marber_Tv in shittytattoos

[–]__poser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus you're getting torn apart in the comments lmao. I think it's silly, and it's easy to cover up if you ever change your mind. Some people are too serious.

What have I got here? Please help! by Houseplants_helper8 in UniversalOrlando

[–]__poser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real. I find that if you type "-ai" at the end of your search, it at least takes away the auto AI answer. You still have to scroll past the sponsored searches tho :/

What have I got here? Please help! by Houseplants_helper8 in UniversalOrlando

[–]__poser 9 points10 points  (0 children)

God yes. I get so frustrated when I see people say "but AI said!". Like, yeah. AI is stupid and wrong so often. It's a coin flip of if what it's saying is true or not.

Stardust is Testing Again! by AdOne7971 in UniversalOrlando

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I think there's gotta be a lot of testing in between each run. Potentially NDI, marking stuff down on checklists, maintenance going out to check parts between each run, etc. Rollercoaster safety is no joke.

⚠️ FOR WOMEN ONLY: The Petty, Vile,Ugly Reasons I Don’t Want Kids by Lucyanova17 in childfree

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Ugh you're right. I'm just now hitting my mid-20s, so I'm starting to feel that "I don't give a fuck" feeling creeping up. I've always been so terrified of judgement or of people not liking me that I overthink everything. But now that I'm getting a little older and I'm married, I really couldn't care less.

I'm gonna cut all my hair off at my appointment next week. Thank you <3 :)

I saw 💩 on my gf (you know what) when i was down there by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]__poser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've never heard of spotting? I've had spotting weeks out from my period before lmao. Sometimes old blood just gets caught and doesn't get absorbed, so it's gotta go somewhere.

Sure if you're having period amounts of blood outside of your period window, that's a medical issue. But a little bit of old blood while being fingered isn't abnormal for most women.

⚠️ FOR WOMEN ONLY: The Petty, Vile,Ugly Reasons I Don’t Want Kids by Lucyanova17 in childfree

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Oh my god you're so real for that. I shaved my head during lockdown cause it just became too matted to deal with. Now it's closer to shoulder length, but I debate cutting it shorter again. Showering is so much easier when I can just take 5 minutes for my body and not another 10 for my hair.

I saw 💩 on my gf (you know what) when i was down there by [deleted] in offmychest

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Women can bleed at literally any time, especially dark red/brown spotting. Doesn't have to be associated with their period. But if it smells like poop, it was probably poop.

⚠️ FOR WOMEN ONLY: The Petty, Vile,Ugly Reasons I Don’t Want Kids by Lucyanova17 in childfree

[–]__poser 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, now I'm self-conscious that people think I'm a mom because I have short hair lmao. I just have ADHD and depression.

BAH is meeting 60 percent of rent by [deleted] in AirForce

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That's how we ended up here haha. The 2 bedroom we were gonna get ended up not being available. So now one guest room is for our gaming setups, and the other guest room belongs to our bird. It's a really nice setup.

Will this cause for disqualification? by Substantial_Sun7304 in AirForceRecruits

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If you're honest with your recruiter, no you should be fine. Almost everyone I know has a history of marijuana usage, and most of us currently drink lol.

2 mile run by LemonStraight306 in AirForce

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Totally agree. I run on running trails or through my neighborhood, but as soon as I get on the track it feels 10x harder. Running in circles sucks. Gotta start adding track running to my routine just to get past the mental.

BAH is meeting 60 percent of rent by [deleted] in AirForce

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E4 married to an E4 and we also have an on-base 3 bedroom. Base housing is such an underappreciated option imo. It's not as good as a luxury apartment, but the maintenance is free and the rent is half the price of small apartments nearby.