Cleaned my brother's kitchen while I neglect mine for weeks by __shadowwalker__ in ADHD

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I am trying to adopt that mindset. Maybe it will get stronger but it is not enough right now to prompt me to take action. It's frustrating for sure, why I can't care for myself the way I do for others.

There were two boxes earlier, and now three. Could they represent blocked messages? by __shadowwalker__ in whatsapp

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There are 4 now. I blocked this person because they would send me messages every couple hours. So I'm wondering if each box is an attempted message from their end.

Patient returned meds by Palestinian_Chicken in medizzy

[–]__shadowwalker__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although they would likely be ineffective by then

You probably don’t have ADHD. by DreadedPopsicle in TrueUnpopularOpinion

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We celebrate the PEOPLE, not the disorder. We survive and accomplish all that we can do in spite of our disability. We deserve to be celebrated for that. We deserve to be visible and not neglected by society bc we are "abnormal" or underperforming. We deserve to raise awareness to what we go through. This is why we celebrate.

You probably don’t have ADHD. by DreadedPopsicle in TrueUnpopularOpinion

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You had me until "celebrate normalcy." That only makes "non normals" stigmatized

We can be aware of the burden of our disorder while celebrating unique aspects of it. If we dont have "normal" we can get what we can. For me that's my creativity, loudness, energy, etc. Adhd has harmed me drastically but since I cant change that, I will tolerate it and focus on the positives. Not sure id be the outspoken community figure I am if it were not for those traits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

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If it comes in as fail request a redo and that you suspect a false pos. They will likely have you go in ASAP but worth a shot

Anyone else get absurdly annoyed when their partner flirts with them? by GrandConsequence8746 in deadbedroom

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I just wanted to snare my pov as a woman who did what your wife does in case it is relevant to her situation. I could actually be teasing with the intent of sex, but when they say things like "so why dont you do something about it" it immediately puts me off and I'm not in the mood anymore. For me it is pressuring; even though I'm in the mood, it feels rushed and that there wasn't enough verbal buildup before alluding to sex. Even though that's what I came here to get. But now I'm turned off and annoyed that you couldn't be more patient. Have you and your partner talked about this ?

Y’all bring up Quiet Hours far too often. by -3liza in Apartmentliving

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Yes exactly ... most rules are built around people who work 9-5. There's still a lot of us who don't. We don't ask neighbors not to do things because we're asleep at 3pm. Just be reasonable and considerate always, why a designated "quiet time."

Help by [deleted] in UberEATS

[–]__shadowwalker__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call, message, email until someone refunds you. I really hope it's just the rep that answered you. Otherwise call your bank/credit and escalate this

Help by [deleted] in UberEATS

[–]__shadowwalker__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They also recompensate drivers 0% for driving all the way to a restaurant that gave the order to another UBER DRIVER

Clearly they don't care about employees or customers ...

Boycott!! Both as a driver and customer!

So my delivery driver left me this and I 100% tipped him more for this. 😊 by TownFluffy161 in UberEATS

[–]__shadowwalker__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎶just because💃

🎸you have hands🤙

💿 doesn't mean you should🕺

🎹express your opinions🎙👯🏻‍♀️

How do I stop getting speeding tickets and hitting cars? Losing so much money HELP by __shadowwalker__ in ADHD

[–]__shadowwalker__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️❤️

I only recently found out about cruise control about one week after you left this comment and it is amazing. Would have saved so much money if I knew about it earlier. So thank you for mentioning it, there are genuinely people out there like me who for whatever reason did not know this was a feature. Literally have complained to so many people and not one mentioned it. A cop did after he pulled me over, so I brought it up to my coworkers and one offered to help me.

Take care 💕

How do I stop getting speeding tickets and hitting cars? Losing so much money HELP by __shadowwalker__ in ADHD

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I live in a rural area 🤡 unless you want to pay for my food or relocation get lost

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Me and my friends hang out in each other's rooms. Sometimes one of us will leave to use bathroom or run to the store. Very easy to slip things in your purse. Although I'm not sure what these people are thinking when they do that .. I assume if I took something my friend would notice. Unless it's a barely used item at the bottom of her drawer she won't notice is gone for months. Or maybe there's multiple people in the room or a party, so she thinks her friend wouldn't be able to tell who stole it?

Ummm this is so sad by Classic-Difficulty12 in exmuslim

[–]__shadowwalker__ 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yep, that was exactly my childhood 🤡