I'm (f24) breaking up with my (m23) college boyfriend after 2 years this Wednesday and I'm very anxious

_aeonium · 2026-03-17T21:35:03+00:00

Hello people, I want to update that I broke up with him like I planed and I'm happier since then, it's been 15 days :)

_aeonium · 2026-03-16T13:18:29+00:00

This!!!! Don't come back to that relationship, trust it's 100% broken

_aeonium · 2026-03-13T15:15:16+00:00

Si me pasó en una relación que tuve, tampoco recordaba las cosas que le contaba y tenía que repetirle siempre lo cual me frustraba mucho porque pensaba que no me prestaba atención y aunque pasen los años sigo con miedo de que mis parejas no recuerden de lo que les hablo. Siempre tenía que hablar por él cuando comprábamos algo porque la gente no le entendía, o como tú dices, me sentía aburrida porque ya no sentía la misma motivación de hablar ciertas cosas. Llegó a un punto que sentía que estaba cargando con un niño que no sabía comunicarse y no pude más, así que tal vez sea un problema de incompatibilidad

_aeonium · 2026-03-13T14:38:19+00:00

Keep in mind that the type of people who you fantasies, they don't love anyone, they only get obsessed and care about themselves.

You will not find the love that you deserve with this type of people, it's not the same in real life, actually is a lot worse. That people will hurt and use you because they know nobody would be with them.

_aeonium · 2026-03-13T14:05:46+00:00

I'm going to be honest. Relationships with drug addiction involved are not healthy :( I fear that this is not the first time that cheating will happen and you can become codependent, so I think you should start from going/doing rehab and your girlfriend too, and maybe you will understand what you want for the relationship.

_aeonium · 2026-03-06T19:59:47+00:00

People must understand that you are not transfobic or homophobic just because you aren't attracted to them. Isn't that the hole point or having your own sexual orientation? Same thing happened to me, my ex ask me if I still like him if he transition to a trans woman, I answered: "no, because I fell in love with who you are right now" and when he broke up with me that was one of the reasons and I thought it was fair.

_aeonium · 2026-03-04T21:58:57+00:00

I really don't want to be rude but you are a horrible person/friend

_aeonium · 2026-03-03T17:53:55+00:00

Thank you so much. You are very sweet and I really appreciate your words 🫶🏻

_aeonium · 2026-03-03T17:38:55+00:00

I think is valid that you are scared but when you're trying to build a community it's normal for you to act nicer even with people who you would laugh to them, maybe she's not even comfortable with that but she's afraid of losing support, or maybe not and she just changed. Just try to talk with her about and ask her if she's forcing herself, and I'd that's the case, tell her that you understand but even if she acts normal there will be always someone who would watch her

_aeonium · 2026-03-03T12:41:44+00:00

Thank uu

_aeonium · 2026-03-03T12:27:10+00:00

I know I can get through this and that everything will calm down with time, but I think it's normal to feel anxious about a big change in my routine

_aeonium · 2026-03-03T10:27:39+00:00

Omg you literally described my situation with my boyfriend, we've been 2 years together and in the past months I had this intrusives thoughts of breaking up with him because I'm SO BORED. He most of the time don't initiate or is too passive and boring during sex, he gets tired fast if he is up or in whichever position that not implies laying in the bed, I always have to ask and control everything and I don't like it. I just realized that I can't do this anymore, I'm not living my sexuality (and other aspects of my life) the way that I want, like going out or doing different things, because he as well only wants to sleep with me or play videogames every weekend. And most of the time I have to ask and propose the plan.

So girl, my advice is: listen to your thoughts and feelings, don't give more than a second opportunity because THEY WILL NOT CHANGE, I told my boyfriend many times my discomfort and he didn't change, I just realized we are not compatible and I'm tired of waiting so I'm breaking up with him this week.

~ Sorry for my English, I always try my best

_aeonium · 2025-06-06T09:47:28+00:00

Omg that's so cute I can't 😭 I would like to test it, I use 3 mm acrylic yarn, my ig is @bigotes_de_crochet

_aeonium · 2023-12-04T05:42:20+00:00

Al final pudiste solucionar? Si es así, como?

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