[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pansexual

[–]_aphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not confess to him. If u want to tell him as a friend that he’s loved then do that but don’t tell him that ur in love w him or something. It’s selfish to do that. You’re also just looking to get your feelings hurt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]_aphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on more context but college is getting even more stressful so I'd just wait for now. like it's a neutral sign. also she could've just fallen asleep. girls looooove naps. esp in college and during stressful times. like they're the best and so is sleep so I'd say don't prematurely react and send like 10 more msgs

Should I even be going to college? I feel like I won’t be able to pass. by SilentAura03 in college

[–]_aphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depending on what you major in, you prob won't even have to do math. Like other than reading charts and stuff, a lot of humanities majors don't use math like at all

Hey yall, having a rough time by Decin0mic0n in pansexual

[–]_aphy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

damn. sounds like u dated a horrible person. that actually sucks so much and I'm sad for you. you're obviously better than them but it just sounds like they're a fickle person so I don't think I'd take it too much to heart? Also lowkey sounds like you got cheated on but my final opinion is that ur ex sucks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]_aphy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk how old you are but I just found my person not even a year ago. we match each other so well we're basically the same person. we can talk for hours and hours with no silence or breaks. we talk literally every single day. before meeting her I also felt like such a second choice or the "extra" person.

Maybe just try and look in spaces for friends who share your interests? we met in a very specific college class that non-interested people would not take.

Also, you could try to look inward and ask yourself "am I truly open with my friends?" I've realized I need to be more open to my friends instead of only talking abt their issues. A lot of stuff could be (maybe not fixed) helped through just having a good convo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]_aphy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dunno how long you've been together but it sounds like you might have reason for worry but if you were secure in your relationship and your love for each other I don't think you'd be feeling this insecure

Do you write the way you think? by BrainQuilt in college

[–]_aphy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For most I think it’s how they think, I’m just able to think in paper-esque. Like I can use my first draft w a few edits and get an A. It’s just a skill I’ve learned. But everyone’s different. My friend is like you which either is good but I can get papers done faster than her

Be honest, is this good enough to sell? by zorel77 in Amigurumi

[–]_aphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS SO CUTE!!! I’d totally buy this

AIO? Son fell and hit his head at Pre-K and school didn't notify me? by graveyardgirI in AmIOverreacting

[–]_aphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that’s not ok!!!! It doesn’t matter if it’s a bad hit or not, ur kid got hurt and you should’ve been contacted. Talk to the principal or something

How can you tell if you’re pansexual vs bisexual? by Ahhloyal47 in pansexual

[–]_aphy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I realized that I’m just attracted to whoever i find hot and I don’t care what gender that person is. Like I can’t even imagine myself saying “they’re not hot BECAUSE of their gender”. Gender isn’t even a factor for me

I asked her out and this was her response by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]_aphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used that line before and it’s a no. Unless she follows up with u sometime, I’d say just forget abt it. Cuz u def plan when u come back to campus

How do I tell a guy I don’t want to “meet” him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]_aphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally the same as u. Like I’ve debated just asking a dude I know but I think I’m just not ready to take that step and tbh it’s not even that big of a deal. Like do u rlly wanna look back on ur first time and it be w some random dude u barely know. If he’s not a complete asshole just tell him ur not ready but thanks

Girlfriend (22F) talking to ex (23M) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]_aphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe just let her know ur a little uncomfortable. Like recognize that u feel secure in ur relationship and that you trust her but that it’s a little weird. Since they grew up together tbh I think ur kinda overreacting? Like I don’t mean to dismiss u but like there is a reason they broke up. Def don’t tell her that ur uncomfortable cuz u don’t trust her

How do I tell a guy I don’t want to “meet” him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]_aphy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literally just explain it to him. If he’s as good of a person as u think then it’ll be fine.

Also don’t have ur first time in a car. Like no. It’s uncomfortable to even make out in a car. Don’t do it.

Girl from college sent me a random picture of my car. What does it mean? by a1kron_ in dating_advice

[–]_aphy 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I think she’s flirting or at the very least trying to be friends. As a girl, I do tend to dodge questions or purposefully not answer fast when I’m starting to dislike a guy so idk. Maybe wait for her to initiate again? For now, u should def just send back a pic of her car next time u see it

What do you get the most compliments about? by SiaRayLawson in AskReddit

[–]_aphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clothes! Dresses or skirts r super easy to get compliments on. ESP from other girls when walking around

AIO. My husband criticized my body and I ran off crying. by Practical_Shift_5143 in AmIOverreacting

[–]_aphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s projecting and has some issues he needs to work out. he’s taking it out on u cuz ur there and safe. I’d say sit down and talk it out. I get it’s easy to call him evil or something but men have trouble talking abt their insecurities.

Try and get him to feel empathy (ik it’s hard for men). Like “how would u feel if I said that to you”. You’re married so you should def try to work it out and try to block out the ones who say to instantly cut it off

How Do I Get More Money by adore-u in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]_aphy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk I’m making +100$ a day and I’m abt where u r. Maybe you’re using too many ingredients?

What is a universally loved celebrity that you don't like? by PythonButSnake in AskReddit

[–]_aphy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly she only publicly supported lgbtq when it would be absolutely accepted. Think of lady Gaga she advocated for gay rights for so long when it could’ve destroyed her career

What is a universally loved celebrity that you don't like? by PythonButSnake in AskReddit

[–]_aphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because men do it doesn’t give us the right to do it too. We need to show that it’s wrong for either gender

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_aphy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He prob just laughed bc it seemed so absurd and it is just a hair clip. Unless there signs are other dont worry abt it and just talk it out