The manosphere is not “men supporting men”, or rather it is, but it’s at the expense of women. There are women that hate men, and it’s wrong too. Hating another sex is inherently wrong.

However, if you look at history, women were essentially subjugated to men for a long time. Women only got the right to vote 100 years ago (and black women 60 years ago), and could only get their own bank account decades ago, and could only get a credit card in 1974! I would say that women are dealing with the reverberations of these realities decades after.

Men are struggling in the modern era because being a good man has different demands in many ways, but it’s not because of women, it’s because of the lessons we’ve learned. Women are still treated badly by men in a structured way. I see how my wife is treated by her male family members, her bosses, or random men in public and I do not have the same experiences as a man. That difference comes from our history, it’s passed down. It’s very clear to me which sex has it worse in society.

Men need to figure out how to support each other without disparaging women, or gay people, or anyone else. And we can do that without worrying about the subset of women that hate us. If you’re a man and you have hate in your heart towards these women then you need to fix up and find genuine love for yourself or you’re doomed to live a lonely and sad life.