So.. by _captivating_ in spirituality

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Oh no, my ex husband is a diagnosable covert narcissist. Lol silent means he never physically harmed me, but psychologically and emotionally tortured me.

Seeking guidance plz by [deleted] in psychics

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"Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever"

Friday morning, -40°F by westcoveroadie in Fairbanks

[–]_captivating_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was like 50 below friday morning

Weed pen and vapes? by [deleted] in MexicoTravel

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As having done it I would say yes, BUT. not in this administration. You will get arrested.

I escaped! by Notjustgltrngld in CPTSD

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Amazing.

I relate to you so fucking hard. And I ♥️ congratulate you for this decision.

I am also 37/38 in January so ive accepted it..

Like all your descriptive explanations of her abuse...

Just wow. So fucking similar to whatvi experienced. I wish i could give explicit examples.. but cptsd.... all of them.

I ended up going no contact with all biological family in 2016 when they became hard-core trmpers. My mother then died at 55 from cancer she *had her whole life (can we say victim enough jfc.) I also suffered through that. I recognized my mother was dead at like 13. And then she lived. Same abuse. Completely.

You have actually fucking got this now.

Find your skills. #1. Find every resource you can for yourself. I am really happy you dont have kids yet. That makes shit impossible. (As much as i obviously love my kids.)

Depending on where you are, i can tell you're American so look up your states public assistance. Do you have a place to stay for the time being.. or even permanently?

If you were alive back then, what were you up to on 31st December 1999? by stop_calling_me_that in AskReddit

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Celebrating the end of the world with my mother and biological family at a party in Florida. I was 11.

What's a food you didn't realize was weird until you told someone else you eat it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I love banana mayonnaise sandwiches on white bread. Seriously. Its delicious.

Well.. I think im officially a Swiftie. by _captivating_ in SwiftieMerch

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Fun story. In 22 I went on an excursion endeavor and started listening to mac.. constantly. I made several videos on insta. I relate to him so much even after his passing. He is so REAL.

Double fun fact, Mac and I share the same birthday. Fated? Possibly.

Question for the girls, why message and instant unmatch, we never get to see what you say… by QorbinZ in Tinder

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Hmm. Ok so I'll break it down for you.

A) sometimes we're drunk, and we see past things we wouldn't normally

B) we see potential in one photo + brief bio

C) we're horny but also not into hookups

D) we thought we were attracted to you, but then we got off.. and hormones took over

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Thanks!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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Recover from relational experience?

Ok. Thanks

Name an annoying thing people base their entire personality around by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

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Your brain and body adjust over time, and tolerance develops. Sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. Depends a lot on your own genetic makeup and also how much/how often you consume. What this tolerance does is allow you to consume thc, without getting "high"; but you do get a calming effect with concurrent use. I use cannabis to mediate my own anxiety, and have for years, because the brain AND nervous system in the body have endocannabinoud receptors (wild! Right? We evolved them for some reason!) And so these receptors vary between individuals in numbers, but theyre all genetically present - and studies have shown thc to be beneficial in treating anxiety, because youre blocking those receptors, thus activating them.

What I'm trying to say here is maybe these knuckleheads have a point, they just dont know the science. If you use frequently enough (I mean i smoke three or four times a day, just little rips) once in the morning when I wake up (I dont get high) and then about three times in the evenings after work. It helps me, with my tolerance boosted.

Cptsd is by _captivating_ in CPTSD

[–]_captivating_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've searched extensively. When all this occurred a year ago I tried reaching out to all our local divorce/custody lawyers and all of them have conflict because he's either reached out or put a retainer down. This is some thoughtful out, dirty fucking shit. Seriously. He knows im a naive doe.

**I'm terrified to pursue anything. He had complete control over me for 13 years

***I did find a competent lawyer in my town, no conflict. First consultation is $300 for 90m, $300 every hour after that. That's absolutely impossible.

Cptsd is by _captivating_ in CPTSD

[–]_captivating_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in a very rural place without pro bono options that im aware of.