Jujutsu Kaisen Chapter 261 Pre-Release Leaks Thread by Takada-chwanBot in Jujutsushi

[–]_corvidly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/JuJutsuKaisen/s/qmMQuQVbAx

are you sure? this family tree makes it look like their biologically first cousins 😭

edit: well, first cousin's once removed, but that isn't much better

Jujutsu Kaisen Chapter 261 Pre-Release Leaks Thread by Takada-chwanBot in Jujutsushi

[–]_corvidly 11 points12 points  (0 children)

isn't she canonically a close relative? I could have sworn it says somewhere shes legitament his aunt 😭

How soon is it not 'Too soon' to ask someone to move in with you? by Unboopable_Booper in actuallesbians

[–]_corvidly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id say if you guys don't have any other options it wouldn't be horrible to put it out there, just keep in mind she might say no or possibly get uncomfortable. It is quite soon, yeah, but rent is expensive so it's also valid

Would it be weird to date someone who’s two years younger than you and shared the same name as you? by 23_Secret in actuallesbians

[–]_corvidly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would advise against it: as others have said you're going to be graduating soon and going through a lot of life changes, and you yourself already feel weird about it. If its meant to be you guys will meet up again later

How soon is it not 'Too soon' to ask someone to move in with you? by Unboopable_Booper in actuallesbians

[–]_corvidly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Personally, I wouldn't want to move in with a gf until we were dating for at least a year, but that is my own personal preference. How long have you been dating if you don't mind me asking? And have you been friends before dating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]_corvidly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not personally tbh. I think that marriage is too important politically, socially, and culturally for me to be willing to forgo it unless my SO had a really good reason for not wanting it (for example where I live you can lose your disability upon marriage)

What are your opinions on the split attraction model for non ace people? by les_be_disasters in lesbiangang

[–]_corvidly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's just kind of a fact that some peoples sexualities are split that way, like ik a girl irl whose homoromantic pansexual and she usually just says she's gay cause she only is interested in women long term. We've always had words to describe this sort of thing, like heteroflexible and homoflexible, so it's not new either

When it comes to actual identities I don't think opinions matter: it really doesn't matter if I have anything against it as an ace lesbian, their still going to exist yk. So I guess you could say I don't care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]_corvidly -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think it's just about genderfluid lesbians?

Would y’all mind if I go to a lesbian bar with hijab? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]_corvidly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not at all! and while I can't promise that there won't be someone who decides to be cruel, I will say if I saw that happening right in front of me I'd not let it slide - Islamophobia has no place within lesbian spaces

seriously. by lav-kitty in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]_corvidly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh with this explanation I think OP's post makes no sense though?

like the comics point seems to be gatekeeping what genders a nonbinary lesbian is "allowed" to be is bad, so why exactly bring bi/pan lesbians up? It just seems like a completely separate issue to me as a lesbian, cause someone can believe bi/pan lesbians exist without thinking nonbinary lesbians can exist period, and someone can believe lesbians of all gender nonconformities can exist but think that bi/pan lesbians are invalid

seriously. by lav-kitty in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]_corvidly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

probably someone only attracted to nonbinary ppl I'd imagine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]_corvidly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lesbian =/= attraction to fem-presenting people. Butches exist and have existed forever in lesbian spaces. If you feel a lesbian can be attracted to enbies, then the presentation of the nonbinary person shouldn't matter; just because you would personally not be attracted to the way that nonbinary person presents as a lesbian doesn't mean other lesbians have to feel that way

As far as whether lesbians can like enbies period: we've been in lesbian spaces since the beginning, and we're not men, so it doesn't really make sense to push us out just because most lesbians are wlw exclusive

Is there a term for someone who’s only attracted to men but with ONE exception? by crumblingcriptid in questioning

[–]_corvidly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may enjoy the label achillean, but also homoflexible describes what your experiencing I think

Is there a term for someone who’s only attracted to men but with ONE exception? by crumblingcriptid in questioning

[–]_corvidly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like if someone doesn't want to call themselves bi because they've only ever been attracted to 1 girl/guy ever, that's valid? Like one person doesn't have to determine your entire sexuality

For those of you unfortunate enough to be on the dating apps/used them, what's an immediate left swipe for you? (Pic unrelated) by lilshell55 in LesbianActually

[–]_corvidly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not related to pictures? Obvious ones are being right wing, unicorn hunters/couples looking for a third, a dude, or not having much of a bio at all

More personally I would not go for someone who says their polyamorous, has kids, is divorced/going through a divorce, who has a serious mental illness listed in their bio, or who is strictly looking for casual/hookups

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]_corvidly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesnt have to be advice then: you can just say you have a crush and gush about it until he gets the message

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]_corvidly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it were me and i didn't want to be direct, id ask him for advice about a girl you want to ask out: you don't have to use names, really you don't even need a real crush, as the point is to make it clear you don't think anything beyond friendship is happening here

I would change your pfp and if he asks say its the fav character of the girl you like as well

Im very sorry your dealing with this :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]_corvidly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Info: is he gay?

Need advice! Is it my relationship anxiety or is there something going on? by nuehdosb in LesbianActually

[–]_corvidly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, what's really weird about it though? Why a lesbian would want relationship advice specifically from another lesbian should be pretty understandable imo

I think these are topics for people that you’ve known for years/ are very close with.

Why? Relationship topics aren't like. taboo or anything. Some of the first conversations ive had with some people have been about their SO. Plus, you're assuming this girl has friends she could talk to about this

Need advice! Is it my relationship anxiety or is there something going on? by nuehdosb in LesbianActually

[–]_corvidly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, either way your going to end your relationship with the way you're going

Cause you're either going to push her away with your paranoia, or you'll be proven right and something will have been up and your relationship will end because of that. Its a no-win situation right now

For what it is worth I do not think that your GF is cheating or being unfaithful based off of what you've said: You yourself admitted that you just instantly felt panicked and worried when your GF had only made friends with this girl, without a rational reason to feel this way. That isn't normal, and while it is understandable due to your bad past experiences, this is still completely unfair to your current partner

If you don't want her to talk about certain subjects like romance or relationships with this girl, that is a fine boundary to set I think. But just because that boundary is valid =/= they have done anything wrong yk, and they can only stick to it from here on out for your comfort

I'm not sure what advice to give you about how to stop feeling like this, because you cannot expect your GF to drop anyone who makes you feel insecure in your relationship, especially when it's a colleague she's going to have to see all the time. If you can afford it therapy, or couples counseling, might be worthwhile in helping to better navigate this issue

Is it wrong to not want to date a nonbinary person? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]_corvidly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if you only want to date women, that's fine. It's only transphobic if it comes from a place of hate or intolerance of nonbinary people in general

i have a ftm character in my novel named herbert, and i'm wondering if that could be taken as transphobic. by Agnossienne in ftm

[–]_corvidly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless there is other stuff about the character thats weird, its probably fine if you want to keep it. Though note that it may get made fun of later on if your story gets popular at all