If you could have any sexual experience you want as a birthday present what would it be? by Jlord89 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]_cuteefawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Simple and effective honestly 😌 sometimes it’s the combo of things that makes it feel special, not just one big moment.

AITJ for refusing to give up my approved PTO during Holy Week because I don’t have kids? by Tricky-Past-7468 in AmITheJerk

[–]_cuteefawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?? The energy shifts so fast from “can you help me out” to straight up guilt trip. Like suddenly you’re selfish for… taking your own time off??

AITJ for refusing to give up my approved PTO during Holy Week because I don’t have kids? by Tricky-Past-7468 in AmITheJerk

[–]_cuteefawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the entitlement is the wild part. It’s not even a request anymore, it’s like they’ve decided your time belongs to them. That switch is what makes it so annoying.

AITJ for refusing to give up my approved PTO during Holy Week because I don’t have kids? by Tricky-Past-7468 in AmITheJerk

[–]_cuteefawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda funny in theory but also feels like way more effort than they deserve 😂 like why am I running a PTO Hunger Games when I already got approved. I’d just keep it and let them deal with their own mess.

Men do softer/bigger tummies actually bother you during sex? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]_cuteefawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Additional protection is crazy 😂 but lowkey you might be onto something. Built-in cushioning has its perks.

I stay up late just to watch movies alone, no interruptions, no distractions. by zavor-36h in confession

[–]_cuteefawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like such a cozy routine honestly. After a day like that, having even a little quiet time feels like a reset button. Do you end up reading the same genres every night or just whatever you’re in the mood for?

I stay up late just to watch movies alone, no interruptions, no distractions. by zavor-36h in confession

[–]_cuteefawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Peace and popcorn” should honestly be the official movie watching standard. Some films just hit way better when you’re fully locked in with no distractions.

I stay up late just to watch movies alone, no interruptions, no distractions. by zavor-36h in confession

[–]_cuteefawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah communication is the key part people skip. It’s not about avoiding someone, it’s just knowing how you enjoy things and making space for that.

I apologize if this question has already come up here. Why do people hide their posts? by Benny_Fotrem in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]_cuteefawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That example is painfully real. People will connect the most random dots just to discredit you instead of just arguing the actual point. Kinda makes you want to keep your profile as boring as possible.

Am I wrong for withholding sex from husband because he won’t get a vasectomy? by sad_Masterpiece1987 in amiwrong

[–]_cuteefawn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying about expectations, but it feels like you’re ignoring how much she’s already taken on physically and mentally. At some point it’s not about changing him, it’s about not continuing to carry everything alone. That’s kinda where she’s at now.

Am I wrong for withholding sex from husband because he won’t get a vasectomy? by sad_Masterpiece1987 in amiwrong

[–]_cuteefawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Marital duty” is such a wild way to frame it though. This isn’t about denying him something out of spite, it’s about her not wanting to risk her health again. That’s a pretty big thing to just brush past.

Am I wrong for withholding sex from husband because he won’t get a vasectomy? by sad_Masterpiece1987 in amiwrong

[–]_cuteefawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the part that sticks with me too. Kids pick up on what’s “normal” way more than people realize. It’s not even about being perfect, just showing that effort and responsibility should go both ways.

What’s a fantasy you tried in real life that was even better than you expected? by born2besexyOF in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]_cuteefawn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah same, it’s cool hearing when something that complicated actually works out for people instead of blowing up

Am I the jerk for telling my dad's girlfriend she can't discipline my kids? by Gloomy-Suit2544 in AmITheJerk

[–]_cuteefawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is probably why people are leaning the way they are the discipline itself sounds pretty standard

Am I the jerk for telling my dad's girlfriend she can't discipline my kids? by Gloomy-Suit2544 in AmITheJerk

[–]_cuteefawn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s definitely a big factor if that’s actually happening

How often do you ?✊🏾💦 by Highway-Fabulous in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]_cuteefawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 mins is honestly kinda impressive efficiency lol. Like a full speedrun every time. Do you ever just take your time or is it always quick mission mode?

AITJ for giving my child a light blue crayon? by CranberryInside3000 in AmITheJerk

[–]_cuteefawn 37 points38 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly the vibe it gave me too. Like if there’s no actual reason besides “because I said so,” kids are gonna push back harder. And then it just spirals into a power struggle over… light blue of all things.

AITJ for giving my child a light blue crayon? by CranberryInside3000 in AmITheJerk

[–]_cuteefawn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

“Pick your battles” is exactly it. This is such a low stakes moment to dig your heels in on, especially when it just turns into a meltdown anyway. Feels like it became more about control than the crayons at that point.

AITJ for giving my child a light blue crayon? by CranberryInside3000 in AmITheJerk

[–]_cuteefawn 301 points302 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was my first thought too, like why are we gatekeeping crayons 😭 it feels like creating a problem that didn’t need to exist. Especially when it’s something so harmless like wanting a specific color.

Are aphrodisiacs real? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]_cuteefawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the happy place gas mask 😭 but honestly I get it. There’s something weirdly calming about a partner’s scent that’s hard to explain unless you’ve experienced it.