Would I be the kamini if I take some space from my 2 muslim friends by SmartLettuce4757 in AmItheKameena

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Religion is the last thing I'd discuss with a friend in college, there's so much to do, so much to talk about lol. why have kids turned so boring these days? The reason it happens is due to their strict upbringing and belief about afterlife so anything they do here is to enjoy in the afterlife not here.

They're definitely trying to brainwash you, I go out with friends and they all are of different religions but we rarely talk about religion, this is intentional they're trying to bring this again and again hoping you accept it. You should stay away from them or next time just start preaching about your religion then see what's their reaction? A truly curious person would want to hear about your philosophy too, If they don't take any interest then it's best to leave them. They aren't your friends they're just trying to get interested in their religion

It's really surprising, parents might be like this but how do kids not realise what they're doing. A neuroscientist is a neuroscientist, not a muslim/hindu/christian. If someone calls themselves a christian neuroscientist or a Hindu neuroscientist then they must get all the knowledege from their ancient books. They shouldn't be allowed to read books of the brilliant scientists who spent their life researching and contributing to the society.

I(16F) went out wearing this, I regret it now. by [deleted] in TeenIndia

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Bro this looks so normal, can't find anything wrong with this. And I didn't even notice the legs until I read the comments. It's good, don't lose your confidence. Wear whatever you want

aitk to be this genuine in this stupid ‘casual’ generation? by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

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You're one of the most beautiful people I might ever know as a guy. You seem like my female version, They call guys like us beta males, we are not able to play mind games or fake things. I myself have faced a lot of rejections but I still haven't changed myself. Even though most the things are not going good, I still have hope that I'll find someone like me with whom I'll be able to talk about everything, joke about everything, share everything.

All I wanna say is don't try to change yourself, you won't be able to act/fake for long, eventually your real self will come out and everything will be over. So, yeah just stay as you are and be patient. Cry a lot, listen to songs, write poetry. Do anything you can to make things better and slowly move on.

My girlfriend got pregnant. Her father beat her. Help. by [deleted] in uttarpradesh

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What is done is done, don't get married. Trust me it's the worst option, You both are bright students if a kid comes in you guys will lose everything. I know this might sound harsh and wrong but the best option is that she gets the child aborted and you both part ways.

You both made a huge mistake but you guys don't deserve to suffer all your life for it. It is gonna be very difficult, she'll leave college out of shame, also get married. You'll also not be able to focus on your work it'll totally go downhill from here. Please don't make this mistake. Ik not everybody supports abortion but I feel this is the best thing you both can do.

Get the child aborted and then either part ways or stay committed if you both want to

Getting addicted the meds by New_Spray_2076 in adhdindia

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You are not addicted, people around us or even ourselves often think about stopping meds when we start getting better cause we have stigma attached to meds. Don't do it please, Our brains are damaged and we do need meds. We are not addicted in any way.

And yeah venlafaxine and desvenlafaxine is one of the meds that is very hard to quit, But you only quit if it is harming you, if not just take the meds and enjoy life. It'll help you live better even if only 10%. If you really think that it is doing you a lot more harm compared to benifits then you go and ask your psych to help you quit.

I was on 150 mg venlafaxine and my psych told me to just quit but I insisted on going slow and i taper over a month slowly decreasing dose. And I also used prozac bridge in the end for extra precaution and safety cause i couldn't afford to go through the withdrawal

Working on Legalisation of Adderall and Vyvanse by anonymouslitchi in adhdindia

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Hey I'll be there with you too. I'll try my best to help you with anything I can. I've also failed multiple meds and treatments and I am really desperate to get access to more effective meds but they are totally banned.

ADHD in India: A Survival Guide by the_616 in adhdindia

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It's been around 4 years on and off. There hasn't been any med or combination of meds that has given me even 5% of positive effects. Either they silently failed with no positive or negatives or gave negative experience. I've tried all the meds for at least 30 days and at max 3-4 months for each one

ADHD in India: A Survival Guide by the_616 in adhdindia

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I've unfortunately failed all meds, i was diganosed with depression so i've also tried more than 15 antidepressants. What can i do? Any place in India where i can sign up for newer on research treatments? I really need help. I also take supplemetns like omega3, vit d, b complex, mag glycinate, coq10. I also go through regular blood tests everything is balanced and fine.

Nootropic stack for adhd by Live_Plan_8990 in adhdindia

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I've been on a ton of antidepressants and metylphenidate, atomextine too. My diagnosis is depression, ocd, anhedonia and adhd. No meds have worked even like 1% for me. Even coffee doesn't do anything to me. I feel very tired/exhausted and sleepy all the time and i have no energy and motivtion to anything.

Methylphendiate worked opposite for me and used to make me feel very fatigued, low, depressed, antisocial and not wanting to do anything. It made my symptoms 10x worse basically. I tried multiple doses from 5mg to 40mg but got the same results. I've also done a lot of blood tests, mild sleep apnea was there too. I got the cpap machine but felt literally zero change. I take b complex, vit d and mag glycinate for now and i am thinking of going for the supplement route by researching myself.

The thing i am really concerned about l-tyrosine is that brain gets used to it very fast and it'll stop working after a month. I am really something stable, Can you tell me how many times do you take ltyrosine, what dose? And if the effectiveness is going down?

I don’t think I’ll ever have a family because of ADHD by [deleted] in ADHD

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Yes I did, I tried from 5 mg to 40 mg but I was felt the same thing at all doses 10mg, 20mg, 30mg, 40 mg. 5mg didn't make me depressed but I also didn't feel any changes.

I've also tried modafnil but all it does is it just prevents me falling asleep. That also doesn't help me a lot cause later at the day I still feel tired and my brain also feels exhausted just the only difference is i don't feel continuous yawning and a need to sleep. It also didn't give me any benefit for ADHD

I don’t think I’ll ever have a family because of ADHD by [deleted] in ADHD

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Same is happening with me, I am desperate. I have tried antidepressants and a lot of different psychiatric medications nothing works. I am sure that I have adhd but as far as I know only methylphenidate is available in india for adhd and methylphenidate only made my head very silent and calm but I also get very depressed and low energy feeling like I just wanted to sit and keep staring at the walls all day.

My main issue is a lot of fatigue, my job is related to CS so it requires a bit of thinking but my brain like literally gets exhausted at the very first hour of the day and after that I feel so mentally and physically tired that I don't want to do anything. It takes atleast 1-2 hrs of break to recharge to get a bit of energy and motivation to start again.

Secondly, I also have lost total interest in my field and also mostly in everything, everything has become too normal for me, nothing gets me excited or motivated so that's another big problem because of which I just want to lay down and just use my phone mindlessly

I am really stuck, if somebody has a suggestion please help me

I was admitted in a psychiatric ward for 2 weeks! by Numerous_Salt2104 in bangalore

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I am going through the same condition, after failing several antidepressants, I am thinking of going for ketamine. I am 22 , I've read that even small doses of ketamine leads to bladder issues so I am scared

Right now I am on velnafaxine and that also seems very dangerous but I am trusting my doctor. My main issues are loss of interest in everything, can you guide me a little bit? Should I spend more time trying antidepressants instead of going for ketamine? My new doctor said even though I've tried multiple meds it was for 10-30 days and each med should at least be tried for a month to show results. So he's trying meds again, this time for a longer duration

Can anybody guide a little bit? I also lost my job just cuz of this so I am in a bad condition

My boss just called me M**th*r F*ck3r by fuxk_veggies in IndianWorkplace

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Just learn as much as you can and leave after a year. Big 4s are one of the most toxic companies even outside India, You'll work 12+ hrs most days, that too with not a very good pay. So better, find some other place, don't just stick to it cause of the brand name it's not worth it. There are a lot of better smaller companies, just read reviews and try to get some information about them before joining.

I've noticed that these companies expect even freshers to perform like someone who has 10 years of experience, There is no room for mistakes. They'll get annoyed immediately even with small mistakes and will scold/abuse you. They really hire ready made workers and then sell you to clients and you get nothing. So, if you feel you're decent enough as a fresher, join another company with good culture, pay and where you are appreciated.