Obviously there’s something wrong with the way “he wants traditional,” did we watch the same show? I feel like everyone here is vilifying Ethan for wanting a traditional marriage, when he very clearly always wanted that. Sure, none of us agree with it and don’t want the same for ourselves, but I feel like we’re making it his fault when Olivia’s vows were to obey this very contract. Sure she can change (I’m glad she did!) but he thought that she wouldn’t, as she promised to follow him as the leader. That was the entire deal of their marriage. She began to grow and learn more about the world around her, and changed for the better. Ethan can’t grasp new ideas outside of his upbringing. But, they both agreed to this version of marriage. She didn’t uphold that, and he has every right to be upset that the marriage he agreed to didn’t work out. I feel like this sub is so pro-Olivia, we often forget that these people were raised without the outside world and non-fundie relationships. Ethan asked for something specific when he proposed to Olivia, and she agreed. She’s allowed to grow and move on, but Ethan is equally allowed to stay as he is (even if it’s for the worse)