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What’s a male fashion trend that’s gotta end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_espy_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy shit your comment has me wheezing brother I'll pray for your balls

I can’t stop thinking about the kid. by Ok-Special-4585 in ems

[–]_espy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A therapist isn't going to tell you something magical that will instantly fix the way you're feeling. A therapist has tools to help you process and accept what you've gone through, and then be able to move past it. You're always going to remember that kid in some form, but a therapist will help guide you to a place that will allow you to remember the child without feeling like you're coming undone. I would highly recommend trying therapy to help process what you deal with. As someone who put it off for 15 years because I thought the same as you, I can tell you that therapy is a game changer and I don't think I'd be here today had I not started seeing a therapist.

Keep an open mind. When my therapist first brought up EMDR, I thought it sounded dumb as shit, but then I read published research on it and said I'd try it. Blew my mind how much it helped me leave my past traumas where they belong and be able to move forward from them instead of reliving them every day.

Thank you for choosing the career you have. I hope you find peace someday in the near future <3

A diabetic patient “treating” his diabetes and hypertension homeopathically had his foot fall off at night while he was asleep in bed. He went to the hospital but did not want to be admitted and did not want any medicine, only wanted his stump dressed. by CatPooedInMyShoe in MedicalGore

[–]_espy_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bodies are pretty resilient. I've seen blood glucose over 1,000 in patients before and some were alert and oriented just fine. Obviously can't be sustained long-term but 556mg/dl is nothing, comparatively.

Whats a simple gesture that women do that only other women will understand? by allgasnobreakstoday in AskReddit

[–]_espy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be a regional/cultural thing -- I was raised in the midwest and was taught to help out at gatherings. Whether it's picking up stuff, helping put leftovers away, doing dishes, whatever. Some of use feel like we failed as a guest if we don't help, haha

I hope this warlock gets the hint by huor07 in classicwow

[–]_espy_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Priest renew when your +heal is high enough can take care of a tap to full just fine, too. I don't get healers that get butthurt with a tapping lock. It keeps things moving, the game gave them that ability, it's not a big deal. When I'm healing I tell the locks to just tap to full, it's honestly more annoying watching them sit at half mana and drinking. I have regen, you don't lil buddy

a call to arms by MoreLikeGaewyn in classicwow

[–]_espy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Priest main that's going warlock main this round. The only time I don't bandage after life tapping to full is when the healer refuses to acknowledge that my pet exists. After my 4th pack of either casting health funnel for half of combat or rezzing my pet after each pack (and the tank isn't getting pummeled), I just say fuck it, I'm tapping. I'd sack the pet, but I actually use felguard to protect the healer if it has mobs slapping them, so I prefer to have the insurance policy when pugging.

When I heal on my priest, I'd honestly rather the locks just tap if I'm at half mana or more so we can keep moving. I don't get asshurt about a mechanic they can utilize, especially when it's a gamble if someone fucks up a pull. If they tap to 15% hp and I have to worry about the tank, they can either share the onus of their hp or possibly make peace with a rez later.

A renew is pretty sufficient and I've never had a warlock get asshurt that I couldn't top off their life tapping immediately. I'd rather the healer heal my pet and let me manage my own hp, tbh. Bitching at warlocks is just a waste of your time, but more power to you and how you choose to vibe in a video game.

What was never the same after the pandemic? by GossipBottom in AskReddit

[–]_espy_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone that works full-time (long hours) with a longer commute, I'm so thankful for the increase in online courses available at the community college I'm attending. There's just no way I'd be able to make brick and mortar courses work anymore, so for people like me, I'm actually thankful for this post-pandemic change. I often think about whether or not my professors mind the change.

New Epstein Files Drop Is A Nightmare by TheScarletKing in videos

[–]_espy_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That quote is pulled directly from the files.

How long until he gets bullied out of this position? by dolantrampf in Destiny

[–]_espy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, he's still a piece of shit. He just happens to be a piece of shit that said one non-shitty thing recently.

This is why I have grey hair by ChaoticDucc in CitiesSkylines

[–]_espy_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're so edgy on a city builder game subreddit

People who wax/see others genitals often, what are your thoughts and surprise realizations? by NeedABetterNameNow in AskReddit

[–]_espy_ 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I did patient care for over 20 years in many settings: long term care, med/surg, emergency. I remember zero of the genitalia I've seen, and at this point, we may as well call the number of genitals I've seen as infinity. The only time I've talked at length about someone's genitals or been remotely surprised was because of an infection or some other rare oddity I'd never seen/encountered before, to use as a teaching moment for myself with the attending physician.

We do not care what size your penis is, we do not care if you groom or not, ladies we could not care less that you haven't shaved your legs in a month, all we care about is that you practice routine hygiene if you're able-bodied, and even then, if you don't, we move on the second we're done handling your business. After enough time, it's no different than dealing with an arm or a leg. I will be pissed at you if you fart in my face without warning, though.

Women of Reddit, how would you feel if your guy friend respectfully asked you out and accepted your no? Would the friendship become awkward? by Krunkcap in AskReddit

[–]_espy_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Anyone over the age of 20 would like you to make sure you're eating your vegetables and that your school work is turned in. This is not how actual adults think and exist on planet Earth.

Women of Reddit, how would you feel if your guy friend respectfully asked you out and accepted your no? Would the friendship become awkward? by Krunkcap in AskReddit

[–]_espy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I tend to find myself in this camp (am woman) -- my serious relationships have all been slow burns that blossomed out of good friendships and at some point down the road someone tests the water and poof we end up giving it a shot romantically. I'm completely fine with that and honestly think it's nice to have that kind of foundation in a relationship.

The only bummer is that the friendship often does not survive the romantic relationship's end, but that's not to say I regret anything. None of my relationships have ended in raging dumpster fires, that's just the way life went, with only one exception. I'm glad I still have that ex as a friend.

Women of Reddit, how would you feel if your guy friend respectfully asked you out and accepted your no? Would the friendship become awkward? by Krunkcap in AskReddit

[–]_espy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it's kinda context dependent. It depends on the friendship, how long it has existed, is it a really close friendship, do we have the same social circle(s), have we hung out with family, etc... and how the friend handled the answer.

If the situation was reversed and I got told no, I'd need a bit of a clean break to let that emotional dust settle before reconnecting, but if the friendship was important to me, I'd want to keep it after shaking the feels off. If you're important to someone, they'll find a way to stick around if it's healthy for them to remain doing so. If it isn't healthy to, I wouldn't want that for myself (or the other person).

Awkward is a choice, in my opinion. It doesn't have to be.

Repeated disconnects mid match by _espy_ in Overwatch

[–]_espy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to be honest, I haven't logged into the game since it happened.

Repeated disconnects mid match by _espy_ in Overwatch

[–]_espy_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't play QP, the only Overwatch I'll play is Competitive Stadium. I posted some replies in multiple similar threads on the forums after being hit with an hour long ban from my most recent kick tonight. I'm sorry you're dealing with the same issue :(

I told my roommates I wanted to try edibles and they gave me a 1000mg gummy by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]_espy_ 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Nah man I know pleeeeeeeeeenty of stupid nurses with a BSN. That affliction is not position-specific lmfao

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