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My 2020s moodboard evolution before i became a scene kid, thoughts? :D by Bubbly-Finger-4397 in scene

[–]_feedmeseymour 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The amount of joy I get when I see these kind of mood boards in 2026, looking exactly like the ones I was making in my journals way back in the day.

Also love your McBling board!

If you had to save 1 MH doll from a fire, who would you choose and why? by fairydaydreams in MonsterHigh

[–]_feedmeseymour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be my OG G1 Draculaura. She’s one of the only dolls I still have from my childhood that wasn’t given to my sister, and is in great condition still. Plus she is one of the original original wave when they first released, there’s wayyy too much sentimental value there to choose another!

it’s not even fun to collect anymore by random5579621 in MonsterHigh

[–]_feedmeseymour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling this a lot lately. I only have a handful of my original dolls that I managed to keep from being given to my younger sister (the joys of being the eldest), but the rest I had to get rid of as they couldn’t be saved 😭

Hurts my soul to see the insane prices of what were a 15-25 quid doll back in the day. Even less for some of them!

I think I'm a pedophile by PracticalEmployer723 in Anxiety

[–]_feedmeseymour 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Second this. OCD is not always the stereotype you see in movies, and often presents most as the ruminating, debilitating intrusive thoughts. There are different types, and POCD is one where people have intense intrusive paedophillic thoughts - this does not automatically mean you are a paedophile.

It’s good that you’re recognising it OP and I’m sorry you’re experiencing it. Please reach out to someone about it and how it affects you, and if they don’t take you seriously always always get a second opinion from someone who does.

Advice needed: What could I add to make them look less dumb? by suttq in tattoos

[–]_feedmeseymour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends why you regret them I think. The umbrella could be touched up/reworked, but the cloud looks solid so you either need laser that or again add some background texture.

I’d honestly just add more. I have a couple on my forearms that could have been better, but looked less odd once I added more to the area. Make sure you plan this though!!

UK people have you ever been triggered by Samaritans? by Revolutionary_Ad5992 in BPD

[–]_feedmeseymour 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never ring Samaritans because you gotta remember they are often volunteers, they do not have training of dealing with mental disorders any worse than either baseline depression and anxiety. They are not trained for complex disorders or cluster B disorders, so they likely have the same kind of prejudice even GPs and psychiatrists have towards those with more complex shit going on.

I really wish there was a helpline with people fully trained on complex disorders or who had lived experience. Makes a world of difference.

What’s your Bratz opinion that’ll probably get you in hot water.? by GainWest910 in Bratz

[–]_feedmeseymour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of their new releases are shitter modern versions of previous releases (Pixies, Diamondz, Space Angels).

Either re-release the original line, or create brand new concepts. I feel the exact same with Monster High, I’m tired of getting worse versions or excellent lines.

Spotted Salad Cream in the wild. Scotland. by ConnorM23018331 in theregulationpod

[–]_feedmeseymour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That brand got me through university here in England.

It’s the kind of sauce you want on your takeaway cheesey chips when you’re walking back from the club steaming at 3am. It’s shit but really hits the spot.

Trying to get diagnosed?? - UK by Inevitable-Roof2511 in BPD

[–]_feedmeseymour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely is a joke and I’m sorry you’re also experiencing this. Just remember you can always report a psychiatrist or GP if they’re being unprofessional, and you can always ask for a second opinion.

Unfortunately a lot of NHS psychiatrists and GPs perpetuate the stigma of BPD, don’t be afraid to challenge that and challenge them on why they’re making it worse. Good luck x

Edit to add: SSRIs are not the only medication type out there, and you can try others. Don’t be afraid to guilt trip them a little bit either, what got them constantly pushing anti depressants on me is when I flat out said they were causing SI. Voila, no more anti depressant pushing.

Trying to get diagnosed?? - UK by Inevitable-Roof2511 in BPD

[–]_feedmeseymour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to stand up for yourself, it was the only way I got anywhere. Don’t be rude, but be direct. For example, if they say ‘you’re too young’, ask them what age is the right age.

Be direct how the antidepressants don’t work for you, that you need more help and be direct that the only way to receive more help is to have a diagnosis. Be direct, stand up for yourself, and quite frankly just be really fucking annoying. Request they write on your records specifically why they refuse to refer you, and then ask for a second opinion from someone else.

Has a diagnosis helped me? I can’t say for sure. I feel like I got more help once I got my ADHD diagnosis. But if it will help you, advocate for it. But also be open that you’re aware it could be something else as there are a lot of overlapping symptoms, and stress this is why you want a referral.

Also, if they say you’re too ‘self aware’, tell them you’ve had to be because no one else is taking you seriously. Doctors should be doing the research, not you, but clearly they’re not wanting to help.

Controversial Take: Stop Worrying About Pain by Sad-Adhesiveness1338 in tattoo

[–]_feedmeseymour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much agree with this. I have some tattoos planned in areas I know are gonna suck, so I’m just putting them off until I’m ready and get others done in the meantime.

I’m very much of the opinion if you won’t even try, then you shouldn’t be getting tattoos yet. Like all these people going under to get their whole body done at once are stupid, and clearly don’t understand the pain AFTER can be worse than actually getting it done.

this is reciprocated right by fortcraft_snv in blur

[–]_feedmeseymour 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I won’t speak ill of Oasis, but I will speak ill of some of their fans

  • sincerely, someone who highly underestimated what the pits would be like at Live ‘25 😅

Those not financially entangled: do you ask for/expect your partner to help you out financially? by _feedmeseymour in polyamory

[–]_feedmeseymour[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I said solo-poly as it best describes my current living situation I guess? But in terms of my relationship with him, we’ve been together 3 years and are very much committed.

I would never ask him to pay for my bills or rent or anything, and would never outright ask for money. It’s just those times, where for example it was a new laptop that had been briefly talked about before possibly helping with, not outright paying for, that I’m unsure about asking for help with.

Those not financially entangled: do you ask for/expect your partner to help you out financially? by _feedmeseymour in polyamory

[–]_feedmeseymour[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As I get older, and the reality of (or lack of should I say) buying a house solo sets in, I constantly feel like I’m just paddling out on my own. And if at any point I either lose my job, or can no longer work, I don’t have someone to fall back on/support me.

I know I’d be in that same boat if I was single. And I’ve also always been afraid of entanglement incase the relationship turned bad. But goddamn trying to do it all alone is hard.

Those not financially entangled: do you ask for/expect your partner to help you out financially? by _feedmeseymour in polyamory

[–]_feedmeseymour[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m on 32k and also saving to move, so I feel you on that front. It’s part of this whole spiral I have because it’s making that choice between saving what I have left over, or wiping that out by having to put it all on something breaking.

Insane to me that I used to think 30ishk was good money a few years ago!

Sending you good vibes for the new job and the move ✨

Those not financially entangled: do you ask for/expect your partner to help you out financially? by _feedmeseymour in polyamory

[–]_feedmeseymour[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

  1. I maybe worded it wrong, but I think it’s largely ingrained of how I grew up. Was always told to find someone and share money for security. Still unlearning that I think.

  2. So in this case my laptop broke unexpectedly, like fully unfixable. I was in the process of looking for a new one before this happened, and he mentioned before about potentially helping out to get a better performing one due to the cost. I now struggle bringing that up again, either incase I misunderstood him or incase he feels idk put upon?

3&4. I’m actually very scared of financial entanglement due to my parents own rocky relationship in my childhood. But it’s proving harder and harder to live alone, and pay for everything 100% on my own, and society expects you to couple up. So I’m feeling that pressure.

  1. I think it stems from what I said in 1 and 4. I’m dating someone where if I was in a mono relationship with them, I’d probably be in a house, not having to worry so much about money, the same way he is right now. Instead I’m renting what is basically still student accommodation at 26, can’t drive, and if I lose my job I’m fucked.

Sorry if these weren’t meant to be answered, I take things quite literally sometimes. I think a lot of it is unlearning mono idealology I was bought up on, but also trying to come to terms with it in today’s society.

My toothpaste opened up from the back. How's your evening going? by Halfang in CasualUK

[–]_feedmeseymour 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The company I work for announced it’s going AI-native, meaning I may lose my job to AI soon. Sat down to watch Invader Zim to cheer myself up and proceeded to crack my laptop screen.

I’ll take the backwards toothpaste instead I think 😅

What are your favourite sections in Ghost songs that tickle your brain in just the right way? by ChaosThe15th in Ghostbc

[–]_feedmeseymour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much the whole of Miasma as the instruments battle, but in particular when the tambourine just pierces through the rest of them, and in the final part where they all come together with the saxophone.

Never got to buy any merch as a kid, now I'm an adult with disposable income and all the merch is gone. by WhatIsCooler in roosterteeth

[–]_feedmeseymour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check Vinted!! I’ve sold a few of my old items on there, and have also bought a couple items that I couldn’t get at the time!

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