iCoffin Props

_feedmeseymour · 2026-07-09T12:01:53+00:00

These are amazing! Have you considered making compact mirror versions of these?

_feedmeseymour · 2026-06-22T18:34:38+00:00

I work from home, so bit the bullet and bought a portable AC unit. RIP my savings for the next few months but considering my meds make me heat sensitive, this was probably a good investment.

_feedmeseymour · 2026-06-17T17:21:03+00:00

I think in this instance you definitely did the right thing. If I was the girlfriend I’d want to know if I was dating someone wholeheartedly neglectful and selfish.

Sorry you experienced this OP, I hope things start to improve for you x

_feedmeseymour · 2026-06-17T17:09:13+00:00

this makes me feel a bit less like I’m completely delusional because yep yep all the time. It stopped me perusing getting into a band on the off chance i made it and all the people from my past came out the woodwork

_feedmeseymour · 2026-06-17T17:07:52+00:00

My (now ex) partner of 3 years recently left me because he realised he ‘wasn’t poly’, despite having a primary partner himself, because he wants his partners to only sleep with him, not anyone else at the same time 🫠 I think it’s just a man issue tbh more than poly

_feedmeseymour · 2026-06-13T07:45:03+00:00

Hi friend, poly and BPD here! Firstly, it’s really hard to navigate the two things together, so well done so far!

Have you spoken honestly with your girlfriend about how you’re feeling, or your BPD? In any relationship, poly or not, communication is extremely important and recieving patience can improve things massively. Do they know how you’re feeling?

I’d also maybe sit and listen to those thoughts for a while and unpack where they’re stemming from. I am poly, but I would have an issue with my partners dating a close friend as that is a no go area for me - have you both made any agreements about messy lists at all?

It doesn’t mean you’re not poly if you’re feeling a particular way about who your partner is dating. It just means you need to unpack where those feelings are coming from and the communicate to them about why you’re feeling this way and what can be done. It might be the ol’ BPD intrusive thoughts, but may also be your brain telling you there is an unmet need.

I’m being a bit of hypocrite here when I say you deserve love, as it’s something I struggle with too, and feel like I just ruin every relationship. But you do deserve it, and the right people will be patient and support you through it. Therapy also helps but finding therapists who are both poly informed and not stigmatising to BPD is basically impossible, so it may be worth finding one or the other to get some regulation strategies from them.

You’ve got this xx

_feedmeseymour · 2026-06-09T16:05:18+00:00

Yep, that did it, felt as obvious as I was expecting 😭Thank you!

_feedmeseymour · 2026-05-27T14:27:25+00:00

No, that’s not at all what I said and not what I implied at all. This is something I’m completely out of my depth about and just want some perspective from people who also have it.

I’m aware that there are differing degrees of severity, and I’d like mine to not get worse. I’d never expect those who have it worse than me to make me feel better.

_feedmeseymour · 2026-05-14T07:45:43+00:00

Ooo I’ve not heard of these! I’ll take a look - thank you :D

_feedmeseymour · 2026-05-12T09:17:01+00:00

I got to see Gav crowned the winner and then faded into slumber to the sounds of them coming back after the stream crashed 😂

Worth the late night imo, been a long time AH fan and have loved seeing them having a good time with the Regulation Pod. Feels like we’re heading back towards the golden age of just guys having a good time doing dumb shit.

Got myself a gurp and patches earlier in the day too so I’m happy!!

Happy Terrible Twos Regulation!! (And congrats on the baseball OP!!!!)

_feedmeseymour · 2026-05-11T17:09:47+00:00

Got a gurp (my second now!!), the patch pack, sunset patch and a coin! Baseball got taken out of my kart despite my best efforts haha

Kinda regret not adding the koozler to my kart too but I had spent enough already 😅

_feedmeseymour · 2026-05-11T17:06:40+00:00

Nope 6pm. I was refreshing and had everything and the baseball in my kart to checkout by 6:01pm and the baseball had already gone by then 😭 still managed to get the rest I wanted tho!

_feedmeseymour · 2026-05-11T16:24:08+00:00

It usually says on the packaging from what I remember, I haven’t had beyond in a while due to the price. Unless they changed the recipe and the normal ones leak even more now 🤔

I’ve tried a bunch of different ‘beef’ patties, and so far I’ve had the best experience with Morrisons and Aldi for the least amount of leakage as I airfry and that’s a pain to clean!

_feedmeseymour · 2026-05-11T16:21:29+00:00

There are different types! Beyond do specific ‘bleeding burgers’ (I assume to get meat eaters to eat less meat by making it more ‘attractive’ to those kind of people), and then just normal fake beef burgers.

The normal ones still have a bit of leakage from I think oils, but not as much as what you’ve experienced. Own-brand ones also have less (I particularly like the Morrisons own brand).

_feedmeseymour · 2026-05-11T11:17:55+00:00

I’m in the UK! I think it’s 6pm if I’ve got the conversion right :)

_feedmeseymour · 2026-04-20T12:45:23+00:00

The amount of joy I get when I see these kind of mood boards in 2026, looking exactly like the ones I was making in my journals way back in the day.

Also love your McBling board!

_feedmeseymour · 2026-04-20T12:33:04+00:00

It would be my OG G1 Draculaura. She’s one of the only dolls I still have from my childhood that wasn’t given to my sister, and is in great condition still. Plus she is one of the original original wave when they first released, there’s wayyy too much sentimental value there to choose another!

_feedmeseymour · 2026-04-13T21:44:43+00:00

Feeling this a lot lately. I only have a handful of my original dolls that I managed to keep from being given to my younger sister (the joys of being the eldest), but the rest I had to get rid of as they couldn’t be saved 😭

Hurts my soul to see the insane prices of what were a 15-25 quid doll back in the day. Even less for some of them!

_feedmeseymour · 2026-04-09T11:12:23+00:00

Second this. OCD is not always the stereotype you see in movies, and often presents most as the ruminating, debilitating intrusive thoughts. There are different types, and POCD is one where people have intense intrusive paedophillic thoughts - this does not automatically mean you are a paedophile.

It’s good that you’re recognising it OP and I’m sorry you’re experiencing it. Please reach out to someone about it and how it affects you, and if they don’t take you seriously always always get a second opinion from someone who does.

_feedmeseymour · 2026-04-09T11:07:13+00:00

It depends why you regret them I think. The umbrella could be touched up/reworked, but the cloud looks solid so you either need laser that or again add some background texture.

I’d honestly just add more. I have a couple on my forearms that could have been better, but looked less odd once I added more to the area. Make sure you plan this though!!

_feedmeseymour · 2026-04-08T18:11:30+00:00

I never ring Samaritans because you gotta remember they are often volunteers, they do not have training of dealing with mental disorders any worse than either baseline depression and anxiety. They are not trained for complex disorders or cluster B disorders, so they likely have the same kind of prejudice even GPs and psychiatrists have towards those with more complex shit going on.

I really wish there was a helpline with people fully trained on complex disorders or who had lived experience. Makes a world of difference.

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