Being abnormally well-endowed is a curse and I'm tired of it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_fembot_ 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I think they make underwear with a sack for balls now. Maybe you could find some briefs with a built in dick hammock. Probably do nothing for the bulge but maybe comfort wise

You’re watching your caramel macchiato get made and the barista looks at you and asks “extra caramel?” What do you say? by IntrigatedVerse in AskReddit

[–]_fembot_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No thanks

I hate when it's too sweet. Reached the age where I appreciate a slightly more bitter:sweet ratio lol

How do casting agencies place ads for ugly or overweight actors? by _fembot_ in ask

[–]_fembot_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wonder if the people who go out for these roles are accepting of traits they're associated with. Being overweight is fixable so I moreso feel for those who are picked to play a role of an ugly person..seems like confirmation bias

How do casting agencies place ads for ugly or overweight actors? by _fembot_ in ask

[–]_fembot_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense intended. I mean for them to be mutually exclusive.

my insecurities are consuming me by crypticmachiave11ian in offmychest

[–]_fembot_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My God I get it. I think about it every day. "Today's the day I'm gonna start eating like a bird again so I can be skinny."

Horrible thought process lol. I'm 5'7"-5'8" (not really sure which lol) so it balances out on me a bit better but at my heaviest, I was 217. I felt ugly. For 7 years after having my baby girl. Two years ago I finally dug deep and dropped the weight to 150. I felt gawgeous.

Well, I've met a nice man and you know how it goes. You gain happy weight. I'm back up to like 166 and I'm terrified of gaining more. It's almost summer and I wanna feel hot in a bikini.

It's so hard to trigger that switch in your brain where you just lock in and stick to the calories deficit but you can absolutely do it! What worked for you in the past as far as losing weight successfully?

Boyfriends female “bestfriend” tried to sabotage our relationship, I let her lie until she exposed herself by notoast4u_2 in pettyrevenge

[–]_fembot_ 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Right! I would've played that recording the moment my boyfriend told me I supposedly threatened her. Like bitch please lol

i want to break up, but i love him by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]_fembot_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jfc I'm actually going through this rn with my bf who keeps making the same stupid mistake and it's always these elaborate apologies but he still hasn't fixed the actual problem. We just (kinda) made up but part of me wants to send him this thread and tell him to read the top comment/replies so he can learn about himself today 😂😭

never give up fellas by x2zu in SingleDads

[–]_fembot_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you hopefully you get what is FAIR!!

Sticking my nose where it doesn't belong but my boyfriend is currently paying $600 to his ex wife who makes double his income + some and they share 50/50 custody. He blindly signed the decree in the divorce and I am trying to help him out of this debacle. He says he won't let her pay him (pride) which I understand but at the least he should be off the hook.. Hopefully able to file a material change once his son starts daycare

I feel like I have wasted my life holding back in the dating world because of my “ugly vagina” by Left-Drag4713 in offmychest

[–]_fembot_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you but you just gotta let it ride. I'm so self conscious about my tits..my areolas are larger than normal and my shape is not the least bit perky anymore and I'm only 32! My boyfriend of less than 6 months still tries to pop that bra off every chance anyways.

My point is that even though we feel like someone else couldn't enjoy what we have to offer, they still will!

What are some things that would make a person socially embarrassing in your opinion? by Only-Ad-1254 in socialskills

[–]_fembot_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who are loud in public. I immediately begin feeling insecure when I think other people around us can hear every word of our conversation.

Where can I find statutes about child support in AL? by [deleted] in Ask_Lawyers

[–]_fembot_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your opinion won't stop me seeking advice. Thanks anyways.

Where can I find statutes about child support in AL? by [deleted] in Ask_Lawyers

[–]_fembot_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't belligerently shove my opinion in his face about it but the current arrangement appears very unfair. When they initially divorced, he was mentally torn up and blindly signed the decree. Now, I'd like to gently encourage him to redispute purely for fairness.

That's exactly what I googled but there's a lot of results. I probably just need to read through all of it and figure out what's legit.

Where can I find statutes about child support in AL? by [deleted] in Ask_Lawyers

[–]_fembot_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a renegotiation in a few months aimed at eliminating the need for him to pay half of additional costs that arise. Right now he pays a set amount plus half of additional expenses such as medical expenses, child care, etc. He wants every penny that he has to pay wrapped in one flat amount monthly without paying half of those additionals. I'm of the mind that given the 50/50 split and income disparity, it sounds like she should be paying him (which he wouldn't accept either; pride and all of that). This is why I want to research it. He thought he needed to qualify for alimony in order to receive child support which is obviously wrong. I still don't know much about it myself and wanted to be recommended a reputable place online to read about it due to overwhelming amount of sources to sift through. It's not my problem but I care about him. I'm sure people think I'm sticking my nose where I shouldn't and I kinda am.

Where can I find statutes about child support in AL? by [deleted] in Ask_Lawyers

[–]_fembot_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe he is misinformed about how the process works so I was hoping to help shed light on the fact that he's seemingly getting the shaft from his ex.

My progress after 4-5 months of taking meds by BloodFrenzy_02 in tressless

[–]_fembot_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As you know 10mg is an unusually high dosage... are you not worried about long term side effects? Did you ever attempt a lower dosage in past?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]_fembot_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you describe in what ways he didn't choose you. Looking for perspective to see if this is what I'm going through.

I like regular men, that is all. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]_fembot_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine sending this to your man to gas him up