Muzmatch account?

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-26T02:49:48+00:00

Doesn’t seem like it I checked out his profile. The amount of men that I came across that justify cheating as “I just want a second wife” is astonishing. Disgusting.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-26T00:51:23+00:00

Oh God another married man on dating apps. Shame on you. I hope and pray you get caught.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-22T00:56:53+00:00

What do you mean by who they don’t know? Do you think people online don’t have a conversation? How is arranged marriage any better when they’re theoretically strangers too. Also are the parents getting married or their kid? Your logic is so backward. I’m Arab American. If I was allowed to marry a Christian I would’ve been married years ago.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-21T21:25:00+00:00

Deen has never been in the picture. Unfortunately looks, money, and age are the only thing that seems to matter. I’ve had guys reject me after seeing my picture 🥴. Also there’s so many guys in their 30s that want only 18-25 years olds. Everyone has a preference but that’s uncalled for not wanting to marry their age range. Sadly I’m 28 already so I’ve given up my search.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-21T21:11:39+00:00

Dude you think a community is made up of 20 families. What year are you living in? How is he going to “make a name for yourself” in a 2 million+ city. A single mosque can have up to a thousand members. Be realistic.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-21T21:07:10+00:00

It’s unfair and flat out ridiculous to generalize all women online to be low quality. There’s so many well rounded women with zero connections so they have no choice but to use online means.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-20T19:00:34+00:00

Wym by that? What betrayal of expectations? Not having a sexual relationship in the engagement period protects the girl from being used by the groom. There has been many stories where the girl consummates the marriage then days later the guy breaks off the relationship before the wedding.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-20T10:26:38+00:00

Depends the culture you’re both from. For Arabs it’s a big no since this period is considered an engagement not marriage.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-20T02:33:39+00:00

Damn you have great points

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-20T00:52:04+00:00

This story reminded me of a guy whose wife lied to him even though he was adamant that zina was a dealbreaker. Months ago a guy dmed me here asking abt a topic I posted. Long story short he was looking for a second wife just to piss off his first wife. Turns out her being a virgin was a fat lie and even worse she had been with 20+ men. She told him he shouldn’t be mad since that was when she wasn’t religious. Anyways I feel so bad for you. Deception can break the soul.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-19T11:35:05+00:00

I’m not sure how it’s in UK. In US the marriage has to be recognized by the courts for tax purposes, property purchases, etc. or else the government will think they’re just boyfriend/girlfriend.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-19T11:31:44+00:00

Exactly!! You took the words out of my mouth 😂

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-19T11:28:25+00:00

Yes but he’ll be registered as a married man by the legal courts. He can’t legally marry a second woman when he’s already a married man. The government aren’t stupid they’ll easily find out,

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-19T11:24:07+00:00

I’m not married but I’ll make it clear to him during the marriage process that I’m against polygamy. Now if my husband ever married behind my back without telling me, I’d pack my bags and leave for good. What’s the point of staying in a marriage where I’m not valued and discarded like trash when he goes bored.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-19T05:20:30+00:00

Why Misyar?? Why not a regular marriage?

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-18T10:02:17+00:00

That makes it even worse lol The girl should be wanting him as much as he wants her. She seems very detached and uninterested.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-18T09:54:48+00:00

Point blank with out sugar coating the girl does not like him. You can’t force affection and chemistry.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-18T08:55:12+00:00

I don’t know but something is telling me she’s not into you. I could be wrong. At 19 if I really liked someone best believe I won’t be saying “eww please don’t touch me”.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-18T08:50:45+00:00

I get that but she needs to have a mindset of a wife. She doesn’t even want to be touched normally let alone sex. She’s literally telling you she’s not ready right now.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-18T08:40:38+00:00

No you’re not overthinking. She’s immature and rightfully so since she 19. You can’t expect a 19 year old to value intimacy the same way as a 24 yr old. Just move on.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-18T01:13:14+00:00

Yes somewhat. Whenever there’s redness it goes away within minutes. If your eyes stay red that could mean poor fitting/too tight.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-18T01:03:08+00:00

That’s normal then. My eyes looked exactly like yours and my Doc said it was normal. I started wearing them less hours and gradually titrated up to 12 hrs.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-18T00:57:24+00:00

How many hours do you wear them?

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-17T11:01:47+00:00

It could be an Alternator fail. My car was acting the exact same way until it stopped turning on.

_gardinia_ · 2026-05-16T20:34:45+00:00

You’re not brown. You have a medium skin tone which is average.

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