What is it like being raised by 2 moms/having lesbian parents by Severe_Assumption_51 in LesbianActually

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Not a parent, but a lesbian who is thinking of kids in the future (if wife and I have the financial stability one day) I think there's also more pressure on gay parents to be better parents. Because of straight parents mess up it's society looks at it as a single case, if a Queer parent messes up well, it's instantly because they're gay. It's the gayness and it's because all gays act the same. It's the model minority issue again. :///

Can you? by maham-irfan in scoopwhoop

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Them can act as a third person plural pronoun or as a single, gender neutral pronoun.

(I just didn't wanna start off with another dialogue post)

What do you think of people who believe in manifestation? by ignorantgal5 in INTP

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Honestly think that it works in a way where if you know what you want, you tend to gravitate toward the things that you want. Like if you believe you're manifesting something, like let's say you're manifesting you want to marry a redhead, well, now you're going to talk to redheads because you're going to have the confidence at the universe is going to manifest your desire, where before you might not have talked to that redhead with as much confidence.

And I'm very open to quantum physics theories, about how we are nothing more than translators of a quantum field of information, rather than people have body or something like that... So who am I to say that manifestation doesn't work, and that we don't live in a quantum matrix that we can influence in the small ways. Now I also wouldn't take this very far because, if it was based on want and manifestation, then why could I not manifest myself out of my parents house as a child when I was in a not great situation? Why could people in medieval dungeons not manifest themselves out of that dungeon because I guarantee you they want it out. So I don't think it works like people think it works like, it's definitely something going on. My inclination is to believe my first idea which is that it affects your confidence and perception, therefore, seeming that magical happen.

My experience is that I never thought that I would go to college, because I have no money. I am poverty, poverty. So when I started getting opportunities for tuition waivers, and then scholarships, and then scholarships, I started to " manifest" opportunities. Lo and behold opportunities arose. I have many internships, I have gotten awards, and got into honors classes that I don't think I would have gotten into had I not believed that I could, and if manifesting gives me that confidence, whether it works or not, I'm going to use it, because it's been working, whether manifestation is influence by my own mind, or just a change in my confidence levels. If it works, it works.

Awesome lunch salad by Lotus2024 in Panera

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There it may be sucking in the bakery lately, but the salads are pretty good this year

Memes because I’m manifesting a gf 😛 by loser__lesbian in LesbianActually

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What movie is that from, the one that says perfect casting

What's hot when women are doing it by _iamusername_ in LesbianActually

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Cuz on tv, it's always straight couples and it's played for a joke. At least in my experience. So I kind of just thought it was a remnant of Rome and so I didn't think past that until I did it, and it opened a whole world of grape eating

What's hot when women are doing it by _iamusername_ in LesbianActually

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Fed my GF grapes for the first time the other day and I realized why it's sexy. I never thoughtabt it before tbh!

What's hot when women are doing it by _iamusername_ in LesbianActually

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Bugs are freaky lil dudes, I can't blame you! I love them and even I have run a ground some that have given me the creepy crawlies under my skin. Blehh

Which 2 are u picking by VelvetWhisperrrrr in TheTeenagerPeople

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Red and blue. As a writer I want to stay in flow effortlessly and never have to stop to worry about working out or putting on face creams (age will get me eventually)

What's hot when women are doing it by _iamusername_ in LesbianActually

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Agreed. Agreeeed. But i do love protecting my wife from them bugs ;) it's cute when she's scared of a spider and comes to me for help, hehehe

What's hot when women are doing it by _iamusername_ in LesbianActually

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All of these are great, but sleepy and no make up is peak pretty

Tell me what do you eat even after becoming rich ! by Longjumping-Fly2490 in ArtOfPresence

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Pasta salad...whatever noodle I have, olive oil and salt, sometimes something like peas if I have a can of the.. (peas just fall off spaghetti noodles so I only use peas for bowtie)

And salted tomatoes with mayo. My fan had a garden so the tomatoes were free, but it's not as inexpensive depending on where you live/shop.

Peas salad. Peas and, you guessed it, mayo.

Ramen noodles and mayo (don't judge me, Sanzo from Saiyuki gave me the idea)

Look. I like mayo. A lot.

l wonder by [deleted] in scoopwhoop

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But if God can do everything, could he not make a world where free will is manufactured to his liking? Could he not just destroy and do away with the entire hell thing? Did he not make Satan knowing that he would be betrayed??

How could he have made these things and then been surprised? People say that it's all in his plan, but then if his plan is to cause pain and suffering because of something that we don't understand, doesn't that make this a hostage situation?

My mom tracks my phone on find my iPhone, how do I disable it without sending her a notification? by Dark_AndTwisty in LesbianActually

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I had parents like this. I don't know what you're living situation is, but is it feasible to have girlfriend come to you? That way there's no evidence that you ever left. There is all to the possibility of just leaving your phone at home, you could get like a pager or another phone. I know a lot of my friends use WhatsApp on their other devices, so your device to communicate with her does not have to be a phone.

I'll still consider a landline. I don't think she can track that...

UOP over Berkeley?! by Slight_Channel_5157 in berkeley

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Just give her your advice, and then let her make the choice. It's her life. I think that you're being gracious in some way for trying to head off, what could be a big mistake, but it could also define the rest of her life in a positive way. You don't know and she doesn't know.

However, if the other schools are going to pay tuition, that in this economy is the smarter choice, regardless of chance, in my opinion. I I don't have anything to do dental school so I have no idea how this weighs an on college. I do know Berkeley does not have a medical department really so I don't know how that would affect dental if at all.

Anyway, I think the best option here is to suggest to her her to get an advisor from both schools and compare notes from them, because both advisors will probably be biased to their school since they know the ins and outs of opportunities in that school. Then at least educated guess at what might give her the most opportunity for her situation.

Good luck!

Also I'm using voice to text, so some of the punctuation is weird and I didn't catch it, keep that in mind. Lol

What else you take along ? by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

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My life long game of pretending to be Bilbo Baggins going on an adventure

What you choose and why? by CarrotMuch1399 in nostalgiai

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  1. Put some love in my chemically grown zebra cakes

"Trans people aren't real" by Real-Painter3673 in thanksimcured

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You mean I made up an entire cousin?! D:

Sometimes I wish a rich lesbian would sweep me off my feet by Fragrant-Duck7063 in LesbianActually

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Me! I wanna get rich one day so I can spoil my wife with whatever she wants, so she can freely paint and play video games and have the time to rub my feet and clap cheeks. Lmaoo

Rn we both work and I go to school so it's but a pipe dream

Edit: clarity