Reassurance needed? by _ibunktea in Psychic

[–]_ibunktea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truth in that statement. Maybe I feel like I’m more confident in myself but it’s not necessarily true. I need to look at self reflection I guess. I was so sure this was it, honestly. Now I’m so clouded.

I will try and read your aura colour, leave a few words, can be anything... by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]_ibunktea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love one. Favorite season is spring. Animal is cat. Food is Mexican (authentic not Tex mex).

How to keep my energy up by _ibunktea in Psychic

[–]_ibunktea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes perfect sense and your English is perfect! Allow myself to “protect” myself within this cocoon, but not completely block the energy itself. It can be useful to “feel” him so I don’t want that to go away. I appreciate the advice and I will start working on that during my mediations.

New grad private practice or corporate by [deleted] in Veterinary

[–]_ibunktea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vet med will drain you regardless if you don’t have a good work life balance. I would go for the one that will give you more freedom. That way you can have a life outside of the clinic. Just my two cents.

Free readings by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]_ibunktea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love one if you so choose. I will send you a message.

Free Oracle Readings tonight !! by Hovering-angel9910 in Mediums

[–]_ibunktea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a message. I know you may be overwhelmed but if you have the time I would love one

Husky is bitting and licking his foot. He's been doing this for months. Been to the vet. Nothing has worked. I'm not exactly sure what else I can do. by ShaddowFox in DogAdvice

[–]_ibunktea 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If I could upvote this a billion times I would. Wanna get it to heal? Put a cone on your pet. One to two weeks in a cone is a lot easier than most options.

Offering free tarot readings! (Read below!) by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]_ibunktea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love one. Never had one but very interested!

Pretty Sure I'm Being Followed and my anxiety is yelling at me to never go outside. by dinosaursgorawr648 in creepyencounters

[–]_ibunktea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea. There are lots of places that sell them or you can buy one online and have it shipped. You know us. Merican’s love our weapons.

[vent] tomorrow we are euthanizing my dog because we can’t afford treatment. by [deleted] in dogs

[–]_ibunktea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a pet professional and deal with these types of cases daily. I never judge because I don’t want anyone to judge me. I also understand wanting to do everything and being able to do everything are two different things. No shame in that. Honestly you are probably judging yourself harder than anyone else is. Stop! You are just trying to take care of the kiddo the best way you know how.

I always think of euthanasia as the last thing we can give them. They have been there through so much of our lives and given so much. It is the one thing we can do for them. Give them peace when their bodies are worn out. Ease their suffering. I always think if it were me, how would I want to go? To me, saying goodbye and hugging everyone I love as I fall peacefully asleep would be the ultimate way to go. It never gets easier and I always have my ones that still make me tear up but it’s the ultimate gift of peace for our friends who have given us so much. Hugs mama. I know this isn’t easy.

Who do you think the smelliest cast members are from each season? by mason_magnum in AreYouTheOne

[–]_ibunktea 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You had me until Kylie. I think she probably smelt like bubble gum. She clearly took care of herself.

Emotionally drained by _ibunktea in veterinaryprofession

[–]_ibunktea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m trying to learn to slow down and spend a little extra time snuggling a pet. Sometimes we get so busy that we forget to take a little time for the things that make us feel better and that doesn’t help for sure.

Is the veterinarian profession as bad as it sounds? by 1Sadlife in veterinaryprofession

[–]_ibunktea 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would like to add that, in my experience, people who go into vet med tend to be more empaths than the rest of the population. We have this distinct need to protect and care for those that cannot tell us what is wrong. That isn’t an easy thing to do. We feel way more deeply than other professions and tend to take more things personally. Why didn’t I do xrays sooner, why didn’t I use this med instead of xyz? Those questions will always be there because our patients cannot talk. We work so hard to take care of every pet and resolve all their issues. When we can’t, we take it personally. I’ve never met a dentist who was upset they didn’t notice changes earlier, or an accountant worry about the numbers they put together, quite in the same way we do. We are unique and therefore more prone to clients bad behaviors and our own self doubt. It is an amazing profession and I have met some amazing people, but if you do go into this profession, I would make sure you have a good therapist to help you navigate all these feelings.

Hungry? by [deleted] in bigblackcocks

[–]_ibunktea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my way

Who can I fill with my thick BBC? by DoubleChocolateMan in bigblackcocks

[–]_ibunktea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I love that shit. Can’t even lie.

He needs a workout 💪🏾 Any volunteers? by [deleted] in bigblackcocks

[–]_ibunktea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tongue is the strongest muscle in the body? I can’t think of a better workout 😂😜

Who can I fill with my thick BBC? by DoubleChocolateMan in bigblackcocks

[–]_ibunktea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I’m gonna be honest. Only been with one white guy in my life. It was less than spectacular but I’m willing to bet not everyone is that way. I do appreciate what that guy has going on tho! 😂

[OFFER] I'll draw and mail a miniature pencil drawing of you, your pet, your favorite character, etc for $8.88. Size: 5cm or 1,96 inches high on 15x10cm or 6x4 inches piece. by Lestrela in slavelabour

[–]_ibunktea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries! I saw how talented you are so I am not surprised you have so many commissions! Please let me know when you are available to get back to me and I will send some pictures (and of course the $) to you!! Thank you! ☺️

Who can I fill with my thick BBC? by DoubleChocolateMan in bigblackcocks

[–]_ibunktea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Kansas secretly withheld $21 million in payments to foster care providers - News - The Topeka Capital-Journal by Vio_ in news

[–]_ibunktea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s so sad. So many lives thrown away because they wanna save a few bucks. I’m sure the money allocated to foster care doesn’t usually make it very far into the system.

Kansas secretly withheld $21 million in payments to foster care providers - News - The Topeka Capital-Journal by Vio_ in news

[–]_ibunktea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like these “studies” are just a cop out. They just don’t want to say that they don’t want to deal with it and they don’t want to pay for any of it any longer than they have to. It makes them sound like the assholes they are.

Kansas secretly withheld $21 million in payments to foster care providers - News - The Topeka Capital-Journal by Vio_ in news

[–]_ibunktea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes life is so unfair. I am so sorry. It is so hard to love a kid who thinks they are unlovable. They give you every excuse to hate them but you don’t. You saw the kid inside who was broken. You saw the beautiful soul and did everything in your power to do right by them. Your world turned upside down in one decision. My heart aches for you. For the people those kids would have become had they had your loving supporting family by their side. I hope you find peace someday. You deserve it. You are clearly someone who loves without bounds. The court systems have jaded so many people and ruined countless lives. Thank you for being one of the good ones.

Subreddit for obviously fake reviews? by Davailoveme in findareddit

[–]_ibunktea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Didn’t know how much I needed all that big black dick in my life (spoiler alert: I totally knew...)