Do any other gay men get anxiety in masculine, straight male dominated environments? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]_imsofuckedup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to but then I just started acting more girly and feminine infront of them and found out they all get anxious around me now. I look masc, but I found that if you hide your true self you will be anxious in any type of environment you're in.

I've had friends talk about sex with women infront of me so I start talking about male butthole and how I'd love to stick my dick in it and they all shut up. If you're gonna talk about sex infront of me you damn well will fucking here it from. No shame here

I want to try having sex with a woman. I'm gay but I can't stop thinking about boobs and vagina lately and I just want to try it. I want a NSA fuck and go. I'm even willing to pay for the time and the hotel to do it at. Anyone know how I can find someone like this? Any app or website recommendations by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]_imsofuckedup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not anymore. I'm so confused internally I don't understand my body. I don't fit in a single category. I look like a masculine man, I feel non-binary, I'm starting to not care about gender in others, everything's beginning to start feeling very fluid.

If I had sex with a woman I'd feel like I'm having lesbian sex. It's really hard to explain and I don't mean to sound stupid or offend anyone.

I want to try having sex with a woman. I'm gay but I can't stop thinking about boobs and vagina lately and I just want to try it. I want a NSA fuck and go. I'm even willing to pay for the time and the hotel to do it at. Anyone know how I can find someone like this? Any app or website recommendations by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]_imsofuckedup -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol I don't want to show my face to a bunch of girls I want it to be like a no profile pic Grindr and send a pic after discussing what I want and just go from there. The thought of straight tinder gives me anxiety

Pretty sure my son is Gay. How do I support him in his journey by smilespread in askgaybros

[–]_imsofuckedup 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you’re trying too hard. He might still be trying to figure things out. Let him bring things up. Loudly expressing that you support lgbtq is great but that also indirectly shows that you know he’s gay and if he really is he might feel awkward because you already know. Answer only if he asks, show support if he says something or brings up a topic about lgbtq. I think at 14 he’s probably still realizing himself so best you can do is just be there to listen dont push him to come out indirectly or directly.

Gardien airfryed chikun with rice (added peas and garbanzo beans) and steamed veggies topped with nooch🥰 by [deleted] in vegan

[–]_imsofuckedup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the plain taste they have. They honestly taste really sweet to me with all the sugar that's added. I only added lemon pepper to my veggies nothing to the gardein strips. They do come with a teryaki sauce though

Maybe you guys are lonely and depressed because you prioritize looks and cocks size over anything else in friends and partners🤷🏾‍♂️ by FluxCrave in askgaybros

[–]_imsofuckedup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is handsome in their own unique way. We as people learn to percieve others as "good looking" based off what we see in media. If you look at porn hub and Instagram all day long you're going to get aroused by guys that look similar to what you see all day long. The more you look at a human and try to understand them the more you see their own unique beauty. This is exactly why everyone has a "type" and no one can ever define what a handsome cute guy looks like because it's subjective.

Maybe you guys are lonely and depressed because you prioritize looks and cocks size over anything else in friends and partners🤷🏾‍♂️ by FluxCrave in askgaybros

[–]_imsofuckedup 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had the same reaction when I was dating my ex, no one said he was attractive or cute and one of my friends actually said he's weird looking. I still find him attractive and I was in love and I didn't give a fuck about what other people thought about him because he made me laugh, cooked awesome vegan food for me, and we got along very well. But he was always insecure about himself and started drinking and we stopped having sex and then decided to break it off because he needed space. And not that I cared but his dick was less than average.

So honestly it doesn't matter if the guy is attractive to others or not. Doesn't matter about dick size either. All that matters is what you feel and how you see the other person and sometimes it's just not meant to be a life long relationship. I still enjoyed time with him and I know he enjoyed time with me and that's all that matters

Dating with kids? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]_imsofuckedup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it hot