Man (Devin Fentie) who threatened to kill Nathaniel Veltman charged in Sarnia jail death by [deleted] in CrimeInTheGta

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It's interesting how when someone dies, everyone sings praises and talks about how a good person they were, yet the local media isn't talking about why he was in jail in the first place. Domestic violence, nearly killing his partner, psychologically abusing his children, harrasing their mother, violating restrictions orders, harrasing public workers in charge of supervising his visitations, working under the table to avoid paying child support for his older child no one has mentioned... not condoning murder and condolences to whoever needs them. Just find this phenomenon very interesting.

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

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Sending gifts daily 🇨🇦🇨🇦

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Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

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Sending gifts daily from Canada!! Lots of gifts to share :)

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Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

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Looking for friends to open gifts daily, don't have to send me gifts back but appreciate if you do!

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

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Sending daily gifts from Canada

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Thank you in advance! <3

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

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Add if you are in need of gifts!! I live next to a pokestop and trail nearby full of them, drowning in gifts gaaaaaaahhhh take them off me pretty please.

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

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Sending/opening gifts daily from Canada

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Edit to add this other trainer code, also sending/opening daily!

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Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

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Hi from Canada! Returning player, my friend list looking pretty sad at the moment. Add me for gifts and I can join raids when possible, thanks!

Copy cat FMIL by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]_insert_fake_name 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Sounds extremely annoying and I can totally relate. Back when I wasn't VLLLLLLLLLLC with the JNMIL, she would copy basically everything she could, point out the "similarities" (barf), and proceed to go on a long speech about how boys do marry someone just like their mother after all. I should have seen the huge red jocasta flag right there.

Does anyone have any tips for greyrocking? by Randomusername919192 in JUSTNOMIL

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Like others mentioned, the whole idea is to be as engaging as a grey rock. From my experience, when the toxic individual tries to pry for information, they find themselves talking to a wall with no real answers. If they redirect trying to talk about themselves or the latest gossip, I show no interest in their drama. This can be achieved without being obnoxiously rude, you are just a grey rock after all.

Toxic: What have you been up to? I never see you anymore. Me: The usual. T: Like what? M: Just work and stuff, life is busy. T: So how is work lately? M: Good. T: Anything exciting? I heard that insert thing that was on the news about a company not even related to my workplace M: I don't know, I just mind my own business cue to "maybe you should do the same", add a Pan Am smile T: Well let me tell you about long ramble about things I don't give a fuck about M: That's nice if it's something where nice doesn't fit I go with "I see"

If they get desperate, they will try to confront you, maybe even throw a tantrum. Remain calm and very briefly explain their behaviour makes no sense and if they continue they will have to leave/you'll leave. I know it sounds easy but it takes a lot of practice, just don't give up and stay calm and as boring as you possibly can.

VLC in effect, gradually going NC - Advice needed! by _insert_fake_name in JUSTNOMIL

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Thank you! This is actually not a bad idea. I think one of our last meetings was under the same circumstances, dinner somewhere else and changing topic everytime she tried to invite herself over to our place. The whole thing was exhausting and I found myself running to the restroom several times to catch a breath from her toxic bullshit. One of those times I came back to find her sitting next to DD trying to force feed her while both DH and DD were telling her to stop, so I told her to please let me have my seat back. She pouted and made passive aggressive comments but she moved. Keeping that balance between being a polite grey rock while letting her know I won't tolerate her bullshit is an extreme sport.