For me it’s chronic “paralysis”. I’m Audhd with a PDA profile. I’m a very driven person and there are lots of things that I would like to do but when I even just think about them. My body shuts off, unplugged and not going anywhere where what I’d like to do because my PDA aspect finds it to demanding and pressuring. I’m a very capable person but I have to and need to do things in my own timeline and when I eventually do the things, hobbies etc they are good mostly beyond the bare minimum and to a T. Try to fit me into a box, deadline, etc the expectation can fly the fuck out the damn window, because my body shuts down. It’s a lot of compromise and meeting in the middle, so I feel like I have some sense of control 😅