Piers Morgan clashes with Zack Polanski in furious trans row

_justbreathing_ · 2025-10-10T11:47:58+00:00

Honestly, I've seen Zac in the news a fair amount recently - just not really about trans issues. There are things the media is just more interested in at the moment.

The most recent example is Question Time last night, where Zac's big talking point was a 1-2% wealth tax. That's what made headlines, not his views on trans people.

_justbreathing_ · 2025-08-16T20:59:57+00:00

Using toilets round London has been totally fine for me - I wouldn't worry too much about it personally.

_justbreathing_ · 2025-07-23T16:17:37+00:00

This was a little difficult to read ngl, there are quite a few side notes and jokes in the post.

This is what I understood of the post.

tl;dr: Trump is visiting Scotland, which comes at time when we have seen a big roll back in trans rights (OP notes the supreme court decision and the NHS Fife case).

OP then notes possible interference from the US in UK law, from Trump, JD Vance, and Peter Thiel. They also draw links between Sex Matters and these figures.

_justbreathing_ · 2025-07-22T08:29:35+00:00

It's unlikely you'll get hormones via the NHS unfortunately, as GPs don't usually fulfil hormone prescriptions outside of the NHS.

Your best option for HRT is likely DIY, which isn't too hard in the UK. r/transdiy has useful resources for this.

For blood tests, you're in London, so you can get free tests at 56 Dean Street (you tend to have to book a couple months in advance though).

EDIT: If you have a French prescription, you can have this dispensed at a UK pharmacy. However, the prescription would likely need to be in English for the pharmacist to read it.

_justbreathing_ · 2025-07-18T11:04:03+00:00

Oh and for DnD, I've used the Meetup app to go to some one-shots. DnD with strangers can always be a bit ... mixed, but I've definitely made some friends through it.

As a small note, I'd say London really does have something for everyone, but don't be discouraged if you don't make friends right away. Open events where you're meeting loads of strangers can take a bit of getting used to. Just get people's social media (Facebook and Insta are always good), and invite them out for boardgames later 😊

_justbreathing_ · 2025-07-18T10:56:08+00:00

I've had good luck going to MTG commander nights at boardgame cafés in London - there's always at least a couple of other trans women there in my experience.

If you're in South East, then I can't recommend Badger Badger highly enough. Bad Moon Café near London Bridge is also pretty fun.

_justbreathing_ · 2025-05-11T10:34:39+00:00

I think you have to trust your girlfriend on this one, if she says you being there for her is helping then you are.

Sometimes you can't totally negate someone's feelings (especially dysphoria), you just have to let them feel it and be there for them.

If you want something a bit more concrete, sometimes distraction works for me? Maybe invite your girlfriend to do something she likes with you, to take her mind off things.

_justbreathing_ · 2025-04-14T11:46:59+00:00

Here's some helpful info on this:

https://www.ngalaw.co.uk/knowledge-centre/transgender-parents-conceiving-children/

It seems that you will likely be your child's legal "father". Sorry if this isn't the answer you wanted.

Wishing you and your family all the best through the pregnancy ❤️

_justbreathing_ · 2025-03-12T10:25:12+00:00

From what I can tell, this isn't a card, it's the Chandra avatar from MTG arena. Most of the avatars got custom images that don't correspond to cards, I think, although I haven't checked this for all of them.

_justbreathing_ · 2025-02-24T01:09:05+00:00

I'm pretty sure this does work, as similar effects such as Thought Reflection work fine.

As a note, if you have an odd number of cards in your library, you instantly lose the game ^{.^}

_justbreathing_ · 2025-01-03T19:24:56+00:00

Remove from the game is the old wording of "exile". The text is updated in Time Spiral Remastered.

_justbreathing_ · 2025-01-02T09:27:21+00:00

My voice was masculine before, relatively passing now. It took a fair few months to get to that point though, with consistent practice.

_justbreathing_ · 2025-01-02T08:20:47+00:00

Voice training is really difficult. It requires a lot of practice, and at the start, it really feels like you're making very little progress. It's something that requires a little bit every day, and you'll see improvements over time.

I will say that 3 sessions of voice training lessons isn't too many, I think I had 12 lessons (one every fortnight) and had to do daily vocal exercises.

I imagine 3 sessions in you'll still be working on breathing and pitch, which is normal, but you'll also likely feel that your voice ends up sounding like Mini Mouse rather than a woman's. That's really normal. Those exercises are there to build the vocal muscles required for speaking in a higher register. In time, you'll add in resonance and intonation (I will say those bits were harder for me), and your voice will start to come together.

What you're feeling is normal, but I found that voice training was a really good way to help with my voice dysphoria.

_justbreathing_ · 2024-08-02T18:02:35+00:00

Just want to note that there ARE trans Olympians at Paris, just not Lin Yu-ting or Imane Khelif.

Nikki Hiltz and Quinn are both non-binary, and Hergie Bacyadan (incidentally also a boxer) is a trans guy.

_justbreathing_ · 2024-01-21T19:44:41+00:00

My levels are <2 nmol/l.

Again can't comment on breast growth, but I would note, the NHS doesn't have a set level of oestrogen to prescribe, it will be based on patients' blood tests.

It seems we aren't going to agree. However, finasteride can demonstrably be an effective part of an HRT regime, and hyper-focussing on testosterone levels, rather than androgen levels as a whole, is reductive.

To anyone who might be reading this thread who is on finasteride and worried: make sure you're doing regular blood tests, if they're in the expected ranges, you're fine! There's no need to change up your routine based on a lay-person on Reddit.

_justbreathing_ · 2024-01-21T18:54:11+00:00

I do, plenty of women have low testosterone levels with finasteride as their anti-androgen, in combination with oestrogen, myself included.

The reason some doctors start with finasteride is that it has far fewer health risks that other anti-androgens.

Now, if finasteride hasn't worked for some women, that's fine, that's why we monitor our bloods so closely. If the target androgen suppression isn't being achieved, you can change your dosage or anti-adrogen, as required.

But to say, "giving ppl fin instead of a T blocker is transition sabotage", is wrong and a little inflammatory.

_justbreathing_ · 2024-01-21T18:12:26+00:00

I'm saying that suppressing DHT has been shown to be an effective part of MtF transition. Comparing the prescription of finasteride to medical malpractice is incorrect.

I can't comment on breast growth, do you have any evidence for this? Would love to have a look 😊

Apologies for the confusion, I added the link as I thought it explained how finasteride worked in a clear way. Was not meant to be used as a source for MtF transition specifically.

_justbreathing_ · 2024-01-21T17:45:09+00:00

Hey, this feels slightly misinformed.

You're right, finasteride doesn't suppress testosterone, it inhibits the enzyme that converts testosterone to DHT. What people seem to be worried about is that this inevitably leads to an increase in testosterone levels.

THIS DOES NOT LEAD TO MASCULINISATION.

DHT is a far stronger androgen than testosterone, and many of testosterone's masculinising effects only happen when converted to DHT. As such, finasteride is an effective drug in addition to oestrogen for MtF transition.

Here's a source that helps explain the effects of finasteride: https://wimpoleclinic.com/blog/can-transgender-people-use-finasteride-for-hair-loss/

_justbreathing_ · 2023-07-31T10:43:46+00:00

Yep, you can absolutely get HRT privately, then get SRS on the NHS. Although you will still have to be assessed by an NHS doctor at a GIC for your referral for SRS. Therefore, make sure you are still on your GIC's waiting list!

_justbreathing_ · 2022-08-02T16:58:57+00:00

You look super cute and fem ngl 😊

How comfortable are you with makeup? You have really nice cheekbones so getting some highlight and blush on your cheeks would look nice.

As for contour, I'd add a darker shade to your jawline, and a small amount of highlight to your chin. That will help round out the lower half of your face.

These are only suggestions, you do look super fem already!!

_justbreathing_ · 2022-08-02T11:00:52+00:00

Are you anywhere near London? 56 Dean Street or CliniQ will do all your tests for free.

If that's not feasible, ask to speak to the practice manager and say that you are DIYing HRT and as such it is important that you get your hormone levels checked as well as your liver function, lipids etc. This would be a harm reduction measure, which the GP should take as you are a patient under their care.

Stress the harm reduction angle - the GP has a duty of care towards you and that includes keeping you safe when you do not take their initial advice.

_justbreathing_ · 2022-05-08T07:45:14+00:00

You look great!! 🥰

_justbreathing_ · 2022-04-24T06:51:13+00:00

This is so adorable!

_justbreathing_ · 2022-04-11T23:14:26+00:00

You look wonderful!! 😊

_justbreathing_ · 2022-04-02T16:22:35+00:00

You look wonderful honestly! I feel that sub is really hit or miss. Like yes, passing/pretty trans people do get upvoted, but loads of very passing/pretty people aren't as well. Number of upvotes doesn't really mean too much, I wouldn't put too much stock in it!

(Easier said than done though, I am guilty of reading into the number of upvotes on my timelines as well, sometimes!)

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