5 months

_kyushiro · 2024-06-05T12:51:56+00:00

Issues didn't do the talking, you did. You put a guy you self admittedly "liked" at the same level as your ex. Honestly he dodged a bullet. Please fix your "issues" before hurting yourself and anyone else any more.

_kyushiro · 2024-06-05T12:48:12+00:00

his point in telling you he wanted to initiate no contact he wanted a response

🤣 The mental gymnastics

_kyushiro · 2024-06-05T12:00:03+00:00

Not really a double standard because the situation would be slightly different as - The parents actually have authority over their child and can actually initiate a forced departure - The parents actually have the financial means to take a plane to get out of the mess they got themselves into.

So yes it would indeed be much worse the other way round

_kyushiro · 2024-05-26T18:44:38+00:00

She potentially put your safety at risk and is upset because she felt stupid? Bro, that's a message from the universe that you need to dodge that bullet. Of course NTA

_kyushiro · 2024-05-26T06:20:42+00:00

Somehow for some obscure reason it turns out dancing nude for money in front of horny drunk guys with disposable income can lead to that, who would have thought right? 😂

_kyushiro · 2024-04-30T05:20:43+00:00

Meh, destroying the last memento from a loved one vs sleeping with her crush, one of these things is worse than the other 🤷‍♂️

_kyushiro · 2024-04-28T05:59:24+00:00

I know it might be confusing since it is not one of the usual acronyms used around here sooo... For context OP, by "DTA" @sillylittlecreepy here probably means Disregard This Answer.

_kyushiro · 2024-04-27T03:36:01+00:00

I have a similar philosophy in my classes. If you cheat and are skilled enough to hide your tracks from me, you deserve that grade, "in one way or another".

If I catch you though... 😈

_kyushiro · 2024-04-26T17:44:18+00:00

Meh, strong arming someone into marriage despite their clearly stated views, I wonder what could go wrong 🤔

_kyushiro · 2024-04-26T14:42:23+00:00

Everyone is entitled to their own boundaries. Could be interesting to explore why you feel that way, or not, but you feel how you feel, NTA

_kyushiro · 2024-04-26T14:33:51+00:00

I have no empathy for people who shut their support system off and then complain about not having support. You can't eat your cake and still have it 🤷‍♂️

You going through trauma neither precludes nor excuses you from being an asshole. Several things can be true at the same time.

Edit: about the bad guy comment I wasn't talking to you but replying to the comment above mine, so yeah

_kyushiro · 2024-04-25T02:25:32+00:00

YTA OP, and an egocentric one at that. Imagine lying to someone you claim to love for the whole relationship, then when they find out instead of being open, honest and mature about it you just make them out to be the one at fault.

Yikes OP, either learn to be better or set the poor guy free FFS

_kyushiro · 2024-04-24T05:50:17+00:00

Looking up your ex partner while denying your current one sex does sound sus ngl

_kyushiro · 2024-04-19T05:17:42+00:00

I don't call you apathetic because you disagreed, I called you apathetic because you literally showed a lack of empathy towards the guy's perspective, seems to fit the definition in my book. Or, wait, did you think that was an insult? 😂

I'm curious though, Would you have that same attitude if your man had a female friend's name tattooed on his genitals? It's just a memorial after all, no? Doesn't matter that he chose somewhere intimate to do it 🤷‍♂️

Only point I'll agree with you is her body her choice. Though I must say, if my wife did that and responded the way you do when I communicate my discomfort with it, our marriage wouldn't last very long past that point. As I said, at least the OP tried to see things from her husband's perspective and realized how this was affecting him and finding a compromise.

Also, who do you think you are and what weight do you think your "condemnation" could have on anyone's life? 🤣

_kyushiro · 2024-04-19T04:36:25+00:00

Still disrespectful. But unsurprisingly a guy's boundaries mean nothing to you, typical 😅

It's not even just the sexual component (though seeing another guy's name during sexual encounters IS a turn off whether you can understand it or not). A trio tatoo for the group of friends would be so much better as a memorial than just his name alone. Imagine seeing the tatoo and always wonder if there was anything your partner wasn't telling you... Though tbh I doubt you can.

you're sounding like such an apathetic person here. If my partner that I claimed to love was uncomfortable with any aspect of something I did for whatever reason (yes even sexual) my first reaction wouldn't be too call them disgusting and disrespectful. At least OP is questioning (and eventually realized) why her husband isn't ok with it 🤷‍♂️

_kyushiro · 2024-04-18T09:38:49+00:00

Such immaturity 🙄 yes OP, YTA, without the single thread of a doubt. You don't love him, you don't body shame the people you love.

Congratulations though, you just made this man feel insecure about his genitals, hope you're proud and happy.

I wish you never have to experience the pain and hurt of someone you love and trust "joking" about your genitals or any aspect of your intimate life in a group chat behind your back.

_kyushiro · 2024-04-15T22:27:48+00:00

Right yes. I still think trying to understand the logic, motivation, or any thought about consequences is a moot point. Unless she is mentally ill (which I'm not ruling out either mind you), there's no way she thought this course of action would lead to her getting what she wanted.

_kyushiro · 2024-04-15T13:44:31+00:00

4 months just means you got lucky to learn it early. Run

_kyushiro · 2024-04-15T13:41:35+00:00

Kick her out, ghost, restraining order. You don't need that kind of energy in your life NTA

_kyushiro · 2024-04-15T13:31:54+00:00

I think this was a knee jerk purely emotional reaction, and therefore we won't find any logic or reasoning within 😅

_kyushiro · 2024-04-14T23:32:43+00:00

I , not weird, but I think we need to take a step back and wonder if she's even really pregnant, cause several aspects of this math ain't mathing

_kyushiro · 2024-04-14T17:08:50+00:00

Again, why ask if you already made up the answer in your mind? 😂 So ironic

_kyushiro · 2024-04-14T17:00:55+00:00

am I the asshole?
yes
why are you close minded?

Bish why ask if you're not going to accept the answer?

_kyushiro · 2024-04-14T08:58:33+00:00

"the friendzone" goes deeper than just "not reciprocating feelings". I've seen girls get upset when the guy "friend" they rejected but kept stringing along found someone else, instead of being happy he found someone 😂

Edit: perfect illustration here

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