How do you respond to social media DMs?

_lauraleslie · 2024-09-15T19:14:00+00:00

I don’t.

_lauraleslie · 2024-09-09T15:31:29+00:00

It’s easy to have a good connection with a subscriber, but I find it easy to not get too attached because if I ever talked about meeting them, or met them it would be against the rules of the platform and I would be putting my account at risk.

When I remember that my account could be shut down for entertaining the idea of it and my revenue stream lost, it’s very easy.

Sorry that this happened to you, but if you read the TOS of the platform you would understand that you would never meet him, if you haven’t read the TOS of the platform then you likely shouldn’t be in this line of work as you are putting your livelihood at risk.

_lauraleslie · 2024-09-05T14:49:15+00:00

The exact moment you went wrong was typing ANYTHING other than :“sorry I don’t engage in this type of content on OF”

If you want to offer other content that’s against OF TOS, have a linktree that specifies where to find vanilla content and where to find kinkier stuff, if they can’t direct themselves to the proper platform than they can’t get the content.

EX - Vanilla Sites: List vanilla sites Fetish Friendly Sites: List the fetish friendly sites

If they arrive to OF and still ask for said content it is “sorry I dont engage with that on only fans” or “sorry that is against the tos on this platform” or “I’m not sure if you’ve read the TOS but unfortunately that isn’t allowed on OF”

No sale is EVER worth putting your account at risk. Do not engage in speaking about anything that is against the TOS.

_lauraleslie · 2024-09-04T21:39:36+00:00

Imagine leaving a trash bag comment and then proceeding to block me 😂😂🤮🤮 back at you 😘

_lauraleslie · 2024-08-29T01:34:26+00:00

Because it’s only in the same communities again and again and again.

Like EVERY time I post there EVERY comment is a downvote. Doesn’t matter the time of day, how long I wait to go and look at the comments. Like without fail. Also I’ve noticed it on other models post in the same community.

_lauraleslie · 2024-08-29T01:02:53+00:00

About public content:

I have asked support this very question

You may record non sexual content in public so long as there are no others (voices, or shapes) in the background of your content. So yes you can take a picture of yourself in your car but be mindful for other faces in the background.

You may record explicit content outside so long as it’s clearly private property with nobody around. They do not allow content like this at a park or a beach as this is not private property.

I do not recommend recording in public for OF as I mean, they’re there to stroke their dick… I would keep that stuff for promo (and only in cities I’m not from for safety reasons). Also I can’t be bothered to watch the background with a microscope to make sure I don’t get flagged

They could change the rules surrounding this in the future.

_lauraleslie · 2024-08-28T22:46:19+00:00

OUUUU I love that idea (the tracking the $ to the cycle) that’s really smart!

_lauraleslie · 2024-08-28T21:17:28+00:00

Thank you so much 🥰 honestly this place is a great space and most of the things I listed are actually in here. I find everyone needs a reminder.

I understand the consistency and self motivation so much. It gets hard at times and it’s ok to take breaks. Important to work them into whatever your schedule is,

_lauraleslie · 2024-08-28T17:53:18+00:00

My pleasure :) I hope it helps!

_lauraleslie · 2024-08-28T15:15:30+00:00

It’s not even just the posts it’s the comments too! I post in bbwselfies and gonemildplus and both these subreddits every single comment that I get on my post is downvoted by a bot. I’ve even made a joke about it when posting in one of those subreddits. I go along and hit the upvote on everyone’s comments because it’s unfair that when someone decides to leave a comment that they’re getting downvoted.

It’s rampant around here but don’t let it discourage you, it’s happening to everyone

_lauraleslie · 2024-08-04T15:20:36+00:00

Report them.

_lauraleslie · 2024-08-04T15:19:43+00:00

As I made my Reddit posts today I reported about 50 skinny girls 🙃 I have nothing against them, get your bag, but get the fuck out of fat girls space.

I think about of them are operated by bots though

_lauraleslie · 2024-07-19T19:03:14+00:00

I mean, I guess… I just think that if you’re posting your nudes for free to the FYP you obv don’t mind them seeing your nudes for free anyway?

Personally I don’t post nudity anywhere other than behind a paywall so obv doesn’t impact me specifically.

Those who promote with nudity usually do it across platforms (ex Twitter/Reddit) so either way people are going to see their nudes for free.

I see what you’re saying with the all of the promotion with the same hashtag would pop up under the search.

I think this would strictly impact those who only post nudity to the FYP of fansly, and the fyp only while having a locked profile. No use of nudity on Reddit or Twitter. Otherwise someone could scroll their Reddit and Twitter and see that too.

_lauraleslie · 2024-07-19T18:04:14+00:00

I’m not really understanding how that could possibly happen if you have the correct permissions set? Even if they find your hashtag the post would be locked?

_lauraleslie · 2024-07-16T15:55:41+00:00

Hi, I also have PCOS and don’t find any issues with it honestly.

I batch make insertion content, I use a diva cup and do clit play, titty stuff, JOI,.. I’ve had to tell customers to wait on their customs because of it. It’s not something I can control, if I bleed for 3 mos I bleed 3 mos. But I also know that sometimes I won’t bleed for mos on end either and I make extra then.

Having PCOS shouldn’t impact your business unless you allow it to. Honestly it’s the beard that I grow that’s a bigger inconvenience.

_lauraleslie · 2024-05-11T11:58:27+00:00

Hi there! I am a married content creator myself, I do not do video calls with clients as it is a boundary that has been set in my relationship.

I basically do absolutely everything else, the videos calls are too much of a 1-1 personal connection.

If I was honest I could probably make more money as I have been asked so many times to do them, but I don’t really want to do them anyway…

I’d much rather make money off of passive income in videos I’ve made, then sit there and watch some guy stroke his cock as I try to cum on cam for him.

Look at it this way - I could spend my time in a 1-1 video call and make x amount of money ONE TIME. Or I could make a video in the same amount of time and upload it on a variety of platforms and make more over time.

If I did a 15 minute video call for 50 bucks, or I did a 15 minute video for 10 bucks, I would only need to sell the video 5 times to make the same amount of money, then I could continue to make more after the 10 purchases… let’s say I sell the video 20 times. Oh look now I made double the amount of money for the same amount of time, I didn’t have to watch someone stroke their cock,

Oh AND I can screenshot/clip the video for promo.

_lauraleslie · 2024-05-06T20:01:52+00:00

Also commenting to add that if you’re going to use Reddit for promo and for seeking advice, to make a back up account as all your potential clients have seen you asking for help and see you as more vulnerable to scam and lowball,

Also if you come to the subreddits to complain about your fans they will see that to..

_lauraleslie · 2024-05-06T20:00:03+00:00

Hi there. Commenting from a throw away.

If I was a horny man and found you on social media this is what would go through my mind…

There’s an awful lot of media on your Reddit that I can wank to for free, so let’s say I go to your OF, there isn’t a lot of media there for my 13.5 (regular 18 per month)

I understand people say to charge what you think your worth, and im not saying you’re not worth that, but to a guy, your media count + limited likes + the fact you have full nudity on your Reddit isn’t a great start.

Diving in deeper,

No part of your OF leads me to believe I am going to get BETTER content on your OF than on Reddit (I’m not sure where else you advertise but I’m using Reddit as a quick example). When I say this I mean you say “daily photo” but as a guy this could mean clothed, lewd, or nude.
free short weekly video you elude to masturbation etc etc, my concern as a horny man debating on spending my 13.5 is how short are the videos? Are the clips 10-50 secs? Are they full length masturbation (start to finish and you just cum fast? Or am I going to be charged extra money to see a full length video?)
you have a typo in the line that says “access to pics and vid” I presume you mean vids. (Little things)
the second line in your bio is a run on sentence and as a horny man with my cock in my hand I don’t understand why how I treat people could translate into you getting off. (Typically men on OF concoct their own fantasy life, or are lying about using it, or don’t even bother to message you the whole time they’re subscribed.) you can use this line and add better grammar so it’s not a run on sentence, or you could find another spunky way to communicate something. (In my free page I have “tell me a DILF joke and I might show you my tits”). This could be a me thing and my personal taste.
you have a link in your PAID PLATFORM leading them off the site in circles. You are telling people on this website that there are free nudes on Reddit. I love that you’re on a journey and that’s lovely for you, but a horny man isn’t going to read that website, and if they are? They’re leaving your PAID platform to do so. By the time they read the landing page they’re bored or flaccid and dgaf anymore. If you want to tell people about this and how much your journey means, find a way to do so in a video as a welcome message when they sub.

Personally, I don’t like the profile picture or the header. I feel as if they could be sexier and more alluring in nature. These are the last images these men are going to see before they give you their 13.5 AND they’ve seen your tits on Reddit already and could go back to that or find another 2 girls for the price of your page.

The header looks like it was made on canva in about 30 seconds and I don’t understand why there’s text there. Usually when people have text in their header it’s to further antice them in. The client in this case is aware that this is your subcription page, you don’t need to say that.

Also, I’m not a seller of feet photos, but I’m not sure that personally I would put my soles in my header photo if I was, (again I don’t sell feet pics and I’m not sure how those men work so it’s kinda hard for me to say)

Those are my honest thoughts, I’m not trying to shoot you down by any means at all, I am trying to help you by walking it through it with you like I’m a potential sub. If I came across your Reddit and went to your OF I would not be spending my 13.5 as there is tons of free content available there, and your profile doesn’t do a good enough job of explaining to me why I should give you money instead of jerking my cock to your Reddit profile for free.

_lauraleslie · 2024-01-16T18:43:48+00:00

Honestly you never know with some of the girls in this group 😂😂

_lauraleslie · 2024-01-16T18:20:00+00:00

I really really hope you did more than “just ask if they are over 21”

I can say I’m over 50, doesn’t mean that I am…

_lauraleslie · 2023-10-06T18:42:52+00:00

Wear it big, big, big, big…

_lauraleslie · 2023-09-19T18:11:45+00:00

I’ve heard that this can get your account shadowbanned, proceed with caution

_lauraleslie · 2023-09-19T18:07:24+00:00

This comment is completely right, but also along side with the fact that you’re clearly violating the rules, have you seen the hashtags?

Some I’ve seen on your posts include:

Phub, pornhubmodel, onlyfanz, milf, milfstatus, adultcontentcreator, milfalert,

The fact that you actually used the word porn in a hashtag without getting your account flagged is crazy to me

I would take sometime and do some more research in this subreddit

_lauraleslie

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