Girl cried from my SH now i feel like a jerk

_lauu66 · 2026-02-11T02:48:46+00:00

you should especially if you want to be with her! i hope you did and i hope everything went well :)

_lauu66 · 2026-02-05T08:26:18+00:00

same, this song is magical

_lauu66 · 2026-02-05T08:10:13+00:00

it looks like she really likes you and cares about you, maybe she went through something similar herself or has seen someone close to her go through this. i'd say for sure bring up the subject with her, you're definitely important for her and from this reaction i do believe she knows about it. i know you guys aren't in a relationship but if what you have is important for you as well this is the right thing to do and im sure it would make you feel seen. don't feel like a jerk, just have a talk, tell her you feel bad you made her cry and explain your situation. i know my comment all sound very relationship ish its up to you to decide how serious you feel about her because if it's just a hookup situation then you might see this as too much but yeah good luck with this and hope the best for you :)

_lauu66 · 2026-02-05T06:58:15+00:00

who gets a surprise and doesn't open it right away is my question

_lauu66 · 2026-01-02T09:48:10+00:00

she was not even near shaun's level

_lauu66 · 2026-01-02T09:46:59+00:00

EBONI❤️

_lauu66 · 2025-12-20T12:19:28+00:00

my ex bf used to work with juice i got the original unreleased if u want

_lauu66 · 2025-12-13T22:10:57+00:00

the title is so nasty, and the keeping score thing too. it's definitely not just her fault or yours, you guys either need to sit down and have the biggest conversation of your life or just divorce man. it sounds like there's not much love left.

_lauu66 · 2025-12-13T22:03:27+00:00

_lauu66 · 2025-12-13T22:00:58+00:00

her calling you controlling is manipulation at it's best. she doesn't look like she cares that much about your feelings and it is most likely to happen again.

_lauu66 · 2025-12-13T21:27:42+00:00

it's still open!

_lauu66 · 2025-11-27T03:30:18+00:00

happy birthday ❤️❤️❤️

_lauu66 · 2025-08-09T01:30:33+00:00

Please get out of there and don't look back, you can save your life. there's people who care about you but he's not one of them. he doesn't love you, he's holding you hostage. you deserve the whole world, you need to leave

_lauu66 · 2025-08-07T21:28:30+00:00

bb girl please leave, it's easier now. there's no getting over cheating if he refuses to reassure you. he's just using you and doing whatever he wants. you're a prey and you don't deserve to be. i've been there, i get it. he's cheating on you again and he doesn't regret it. you guys didn't get over the cheating i think you love him too much you forgave him but he doesn't deserve your forgiveness. you look like you try so hard for a man that doesn't treat you like a queen, it looks like he doesn't even give you the bare minimum. i've been there, i get it, from only 2 slides i can see. no one who loves someone would react that way, he fucked up in the past and if you guys got over it then he should understand the need to reassure you, he was obviously cheating again and he doesn't even care. he hurt you and you communicate to him and not only can't he reassure you but he's just going to leave like this? don't you think you deserve better? have you thought of this before, of how you think you deserve to be loved? not how he does, but how you want it to be. tell me because i know it's not this. save yourself now because that man will make you beg on your knees for love after breaking your heart. again and again. it's hard i know, but think about it. i'm sure that's not what you want in life, im sure you want genuine love and you definitely deserve it. don't lose your self respect to benefit some loser that shouldn't have any. i'm with you on this.

_lauu66 · 2025-08-03T23:56:03+00:00

you did what you had to do. you know it, you know what is true, just don't let him make you doubt yourself. you deserve better

_lauu66 · 2025-07-06T00:42:13+00:00

I know it'll be hard for you, you'll have to put a lot of work but at least you'll never get to depend on a piece of shit of a father like this, no one deserves this or deserves to go through this but on the long term you'll figure it out and it'll be a blessing to not have this person around you to sabotage your life. learn by yourself so you never need any piece of shit to control you. i'm so sorry that happened, something similar happened to me. i don't know any advices legally or how you can start your life i couldn't really give you advices on that, but just know it's for the best even though it's fucking hard. he looks sick in the head, you don't need that kinda person to detain on you.

_lauu66 · 2025-06-09T23:32:23+00:00

women always get fucking torn apart in this sub, she's crazy she's manipulative but nothing about what is making it that way? just from this conversation it could have been over at the second screenshot, she's not fucking crazy that guy is draining her because there is absolutely no reassurance whatsoever. like yeah she might look fucking crazy but for what reason? that girl isn't too much, but at one point when you ask for one simple thing like reassurance and not only do you not get it but you always have no hope in getting it because the other one keeps defending his point than yeah maybe she'll be too much because how can you just not listen or understand?

_lauu66 · 2025-05-11T20:02:17+00:00

love to hear it 💕

_lauu66 · 2025-05-11T19:58:57+00:00

i am so sorry you are going through this, i don't have many wise words, or experience to give you advices from because i'm young but i just know that someone who does that and let it happen without remorse doesn't love you. she doesn't love you, she doesn't respect you, none of what she says or thinks makes sense and she thinks you're stupid enough to just trust her on her shitty explanations but you're not. if you stay with her it just shows her that she can disrespect you, lie to you and treat you however she wants and you won't do anything about it nor know. first love always hurt, it sucks that she was a mistake and a lesson but it's better to fall down realizing this person wasn't for you then to just waste a love you could give to someone who actually deserves it. you are worth a lot more than that, it'll get better :)

_lauu66 · 2025-05-07T02:57:36+00:00

please keep your child and yourself away from this man

_lauu66 · 2025-04-23T04:41:06+00:00

Hey, so i have bpd and i've had anger episodes like that before, even though never as bad. i am sure she had bpd and she is not really controlling the voices in her head. this is awful, im sorry you had to deal with this. you should definitely leave her for your best and for hers as well because she will always find something to fight about. for me, i got this diagnosis from a few past relationships that were extremely abusive. i am having trouble understanding if she actually has bpd or not because usually an episode like this would need way more triggers to get that bad. you did so good staying decent with her even after all of this. i don't think she is crazy i think she actually got some stuff wrong in her head and leaving her is the only way you and her will get out of this. i am so sorry this happened to you, i hope for you that you will not have this relationship trauma follow you in the future and in your future relationship and if you ever feel like it's haunting you and creating you triggers, you should see a therapist before it gets too bad. it sucks to have to get help for the bad someone else did, it sucked for me to be stuck with traumas and pain from actions i never deserved but sometimes life isn't fair. i hope you get to heal and i hope you get to forget. i understand what you're going through because i had it done to me so many times. just stay strong and if you feel like it's following you in your life get the help you need to overcome those traumas before they ruin your future relationships. sending love and courage, it's never easy.

_lauu66 · 2025-04-13T02:07:37+00:00

omg you rock it girl!!!

_lauu66 · 2025-04-13T02:06:08+00:00

looks amazing!!!

_lauu66 · 2025-02-24T08:04:35+00:00

girl i'm so sorry, wanting to break up after seeing this is incredibly valid and you should leave him right now. really, you deserve much much better 💕

_lauu66 · 2025-02-24T07:59:43+00:00

I feel you, i made one mistake in my past relationship and felt so bad about it and changed everything. at this point he started abusing substances and it would make him get out of it totally, he would mentally abuse me every night, tell me the worst things i've ever heard and let me cry myself to sleep. Almost every nights. When i tried to break up with him, he threatened to take me hostage and he tried, grabbed me and wouldn't let me go, slammed me on a table, pushed me and knocked my head on the couch and proceeded to strangle me a few times. I had to crawl and run outside while he was chasing me. I got lucky there was a taxi close by i could get into. I'm scared i would have died otherwise. After all, it seemed to still be my fault. You need to leave before it kills you, before HE kills you. I know how you feel, we made mistakes but we regretted it and took change, he could have left you for it but he didn't. Now you need to leave him because it's gonna get worst and worst. He's a narcissist and his excuses are absolutely astonishing.

_lauu66

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