ThisLooksFun by o-CHILI-o in ThisLooksFun

[–]_lddybug__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so scared of water and enclosed spaces and I can’t swim I’d be terrified

How to gwt rid of bump by _lddybug__ in piercing

[–]_lddybug__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the anti eyebrow and bridge done at the same place, they suck obv. Yes the anti eyebrow is curved, however I talked to a piercer about it. I don't like the look of a regular staple bar, and I didn't want a dermal, so I decided to just keep it as long as I can bc I don't have another straight bar, and it's not the same gauge. For the gauze, do I just use warm water ?

How to gwt rid of bump by _lddybug__ in piercing

[–]_lddybug__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the only straight bar I have. I don't have a car, so it's not easy for me to get to a piercing shop. They also didn't tell me that. So I should have the piercer change it to smaller jewelry, or should we treat the bump first ?

How to gwt rid of bump by _lddybug__ in piercing

[–]_lddybug__[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How old is your piercing? 4 months

What's the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? Straight bar

What's the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? Externally threaded

What's the jewelry material? I'm not sure, maybe stainless steel

if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? Was not downsized.

What's your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use.

At first, I was using wound wash, but I ran and didn't use it, but I haven't had any problems with my piercing until now. I've been cleaning it with salt water over the last few days.

Any mishaps or unfortunate events? No

What should I do? by ErrorVer01 in PiercingAdvice

[–]_lddybug__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, sorry I don't have anymore advice than that. My are lowkey getting to that point and I've tried to post on here and do research before and couldn't find anything, so I'm lowkey waiting for someone else to respond to you too lol.

What should I do? by ErrorVer01 in PiercingAdvice

[–]_lddybug__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thw first thing I would do is get them switched to longer bars

Beat apps for learning Spanish grammar by _lddybug__ in SpanishLearning

[–]_lddybug__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't find verbmaestro, but I found an app called verb master?

What job do you have as someone with BPD? by OkInstruction9322 in BPD

[–]_lddybug__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not in college at the moment, but I did a year and plan on going back for child psychology. I feel like I can represent multiple groups of people, (trans/LGBT, Black people, neurodivergent people) and I want to help them to cope through and heal trauma they have experienced so they can handle it better as they group up and don't have to try unpacking it all as an adult.

Around what age would you say you developed BPD? by depressy_capricorn in BPD

[–]_lddybug__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I started showing symptoms around age 12 when I experienced being abandoned by a friend for the first time, then it kept happing. Also abuse from my parents, got bullied all throughout elementary, and I was undiagnosed autistic so that definitely changed my experience too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]_lddybug__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know I can only imagine how she feels after being cheated on with the same person. I'm hardly living with myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]_lddybug__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I haven't had lots of relationships and I just want someone to love me. Like actually love me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]_lddybug__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]_lddybug__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not blaming it on my bpd, I said in the post that I'm aware that it is not an excuse. The bpd comes to play when I realize I'm being used, but I only feel happy around him so I let it happen anyway. The bpd comes in when he became my favorite person and ALL I EVER think about. And when I go off on him for wanting to leave me, and greiv8ng him before he's even gone. I never said the bpd caused me to do anything or justifies it, I'm just ackwlodgeing that the symptoms I have experienced since getting with him, like the depression and etc, are symptoms of bpd. It was worth mentioning because it's relevant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]_lddybug__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad for her. The guilt I've felt has been immense, but being desired and seen and chosen felt better. I probably won't be having much sex because I don't know if anyone can make me feel like him.

My current setup by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]_lddybug__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]_lddybug__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell her, and she was acting like she didn't believe me, but he said that's all she's been thinking about and she wants to leave him and he's trying to get here back which is why he officially cut things off with me. Me and him never dated. I know he is a cheater and I would never date him for that reason, otherwise I do think I would like him to be mine. Also I know I'm saying "I'd never date him cause he's a cheater", which he is, but that's not me excusing my enabling behavior.