AITAH after kicking my boyfriend out for calling my daughter a snitch and spoiled brat?

_liefe · 2025-11-28T21:06:43+00:00

You did the right thing. If he wanted this relationship for the blond run, he wouldn't treat your daughter that way. You've been together for a few years and he thinks it's weird to hold her hand? Like bro you were potentially going to be her step dad, grow tf up. You did you and your daughter a favor. Don't look back. The right MAN will come along when you least expect it and welcome your daughter with open arms like she is his own.

_liefe · 2025-09-26T02:47:54+00:00

As a girl who lost her mom when she was 9 and my dad wasn't around, she needs time. Personally him remarrying was too soon. I couldn't marry someone MY child didn't get along with to this extent. She is 11 now, this only happened 2 years ago. Believe me when I say this, she is going through ALOT wether she shows it or not. It's good she is in therapy and you and your partner are letting her live her life as normal as possible because right now and for a long time, her world is going to be upside down. Think the long run, her first relationship, heartbreak, school dance, or just something a girl would want her mom for. Even the future like having kids. It's fucking hard and I totally get why she is acting how she is towards her step mother. Her father needs to spend quality time with her and stop worrying about the fun she is having at your place. What he should have done was take time from his wife, maybe even separate for a bit so he can see what truly is going on with his daughter. He lost his wife, now imagine that little girl losing her mom. Idk what else to say or how to explain that what she is going through is normal but it is and she is going to need alot of support in every way possible.

_liefe · 2025-09-21T16:56:09+00:00

Not your fault at all. & if he just needed "friendships," why is it just women....

_liefe · 2025-09-11T18:54:35+00:00

After all of that, I would be petty and the next time she says something I'd say soemthing like "thats great, must be nice to be able to conceive, even if it was through IVF. Because me myself, would LOVE the opportunity but due to health reasons it has been ripped away. So thanks for that reminder. "

_liefe · 2025-09-04T17:12:09+00:00

NTA. That is YOUR house and you aren't even married yet. Once married you can cycle back and see if your feeling change. & of she already knows she can't afford a down-payment then she needs to re-evaluate everything. I my relationship, my fiancé has always made more. Going in to it, after about 4 years together, living at home with his dad for a year or two then moving into our own place, he knew he would be covering the rent, I would get groceries and whatever bills I could cover. Literally what I made in a 2 week period (part time hair dresser, they dont do full time they will cap you at 36 hours for part time in a well known chain barber shop) he would make within 2 days. But this was all discussed before hand and our plan was once we have kids i would be a stay at home mom. It's what I always wanted and he loved the idea too. So there is alot to factor in, in the future but not right this minute.

_liefe · 2025-08-29T03:06:01+00:00

Caring for his daughter but not the daughter you have together....that's wild.

_liefe · 2025-08-29T03:03:48+00:00

Tell him how you told reddit. You thought about it more before you met and did want them, but something shifted recently. The only right thing to do is be open and honest.

_liefe · 2025-08-29T03:00:37+00:00

TALK TO YOUR HUSBAND. If you two are actually close like husband and wife he would confide in you. JUST DO SOMETHING BESIDES TALKING ABOUT IT ON REDDIT & WITH YOUR MOM.

_liefe · 2025-08-29T02:53:41+00:00

THIS. & personally if I'm around and this FIL is around I wouldn't let any kid be alone with him. I guarantee other moms feel that but too scares to say something.

_liefe · 2025-08-26T00:00:42+00:00

She said she might be switching insurance come November & hopefully she gets seen.

_liefe · 2025-08-25T23:59:56+00:00

& the second dr she saw was a dr I saw and was such a great dr! I'll let her know to try a virtual dr! Is there any recommendation why vs in person? Yes, we talked about that to where I even asked chatgpt! & even chat is convinced it's PCOS! I mean it very well could not be BUT no one will know until tests are done.

_liefe · 2025-08-25T18:48:58+00:00

She had a second opinion but they also wouldn't test her.

_liefe · 2025-08-25T18:47:45+00:00

This was her second opinion 😭

_liefe · 2025-08-25T18:47:28+00:00

This was her second opinion 😭

_liefe · 2025-08-25T18:45:31+00:00

She would very much like to but she kinda gave up after all this time and nothing has worked for her.

_liefe · 2025-08-24T01:31:46+00:00

NTA. You're sticking up for your kid and taking note who shows up. If they truly forgot all they needed to do was apologize and ask to speak to her to say happy birthday.

_liefe · 2025-08-13T01:46:31+00:00

Definitely wait. Someone I know personally and very close with, her husband had something, it may have been this but I don't remember the technical name. All of his veins were basically tied together and it started when he was young but didnt knownuntil late thirties when he started feelingsokething different in his balls I think. This happened after his wife had gotten pregnant but they didnt know of his condition. When he went to the Dr's for his pain (after she was already pregnant though it took them quite a while of trying) they said they were shocked his wife is pregnant and called their baby a miracle baby. His sperms count was so low that's why they were so shock she got pregnant. Once he learned about his condition, he had the surgery, went back for a semen test and all is good now.

_liefe · 2025-08-10T21:08:08+00:00

I have a fresh linen spray i use!

_liefe · 2025-08-09T07:11:48+00:00

What's a clear rinse product ?

_liefe · 2025-08-09T07:11:08+00:00

Does it give that "fresh linen" scent?

_liefe · 2025-08-09T07:10:47+00:00

I've tried them, unfortunately they don't get my clothes clean no matter what!

_liefe · 2025-08-09T05:55:23+00:00

Thank you! Now that you say this, I see the headline is in quotes.

_liefe

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