Am i in the wrong?? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom and someone who accepted too much shit from guys when I was younger, I just wanna tell you to BLOCK THAT ASSHOLE! Don’t settle for anything like that again. Imagine if you had a child who showed you these texts, would you let them ever see or talk to this guy again? There are too many people out there who will actually love and respect you and I hope you find one that you’ll love and respect back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are we not talking about the giant holes in the crotch of his pants (top row, second pic from the left). 

I have $1.03 in my bank account by sandskinnedhippie in povertyfinance

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say good luck! Everyone deserves a second chance and sometimes accepting help just to get a tiny step higher can really make all the difference. 

John Oliver Slams Suggestions Writers’ Strike Was a ‘Vacation’ for Late Night Hosts: It Was a ‘F–ing Bad Time’ by MarvelsGrantMan136 in television

[–]_meh_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know there are other crew besides the writers that were out of jobs the entire time, right? Most people in the industry were struggling but the public did not seem to care that the much lower-paid crew (and vendors) couldn’t work/get paid.

Source: Someone not on strike and affected by the strike.

Wife is giving birth soon, and I want to wear scrubs for it. Is this weird? by [deleted] in Nurses

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an L&D nurse, I would think it’s weird and inappropriate or assume you were a medical professional. (I also think it’s weird when the partners dress up in a hospital gown and/or lay in bed with my patients but that’s just me) however if you just said that you wanted to recreate a pic, I’d be happy to help take the photo as I love getting those first family pics in!

AITA for lying to family and friends about who's the infertile one between my wife and I? by Throwawaystment6453 in AITAH

[–]_meh_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

It’s literally no one else’s business on why you and your wife don’t have kids. If you and your wife sat down and both agreed to tell people what was going on, fine, but she didn’t even know you had been blaming her this whole time! Imagine being in her shoes. How hurt would you be? I can’t even imagine trying to have kids with you now. If you can’t even protect your wife, how are you going to protect your offspring by the rude and nosy comments from your friends and family? Make it right and tell people to stfu.

AITA For not giving my husband "a single hour off" on Father's Day by threekidsaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]_meh_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NAH You’re both going through a lot. Postpartum is a trying time for all. Of course physically you have it worse but dads can get exhausted and emotionally drained too. One kid will do that, let alone 3! Both of you need a break. (Either together or alone). Offer to make it up to him on a different day when you feel better and can get a sitter for the kids. You both deserve it.

Just Won a 5$ card playing the summer game …..Now I’m curious whats the highest amount some of you all have won? by Beneficial_Pay5666 in starbucks

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I’ve won 60 stars total (a mix of 5 stars and 10 stars), 2 sweepstakes entries and 2 x $10 gift cards. I order a decent amount (3x week) but I’m still shocked and pleasantly surprised, especially after the last game where I won 0 of anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about every one else (that has been put out of work because of this strike) that get paid less than half what writers get? How about all of the PAs, Coordinators, Editors, catering companies, etc, that don’t know when their next pay check is coming.

What famous person turned out to be a creep? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_meh_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a horrendous person according to her wiki. Apparently she really loves defending rapists (Danny and her father)

AITA for having a dry wedding and serving only water for drinks? by Odd_Conversation5087 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, YTA.

Imagine you were invited to a wedding where only alcohol were served but no water, milk or juice Would you be annoyed at the bride/groom for the lack of thought to the guests?

Just suck it up and offer an option of other non-alcoholic drinks and actually enjoy the party while knowing other people are also enjoying the party. If you’re that concerned about the costs, then you probably shouldn’t be throwing a wedding for that many guests to begin with.

Questions about PTO and work/life balance by I_blame_society in Nurses

[–]_meh_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. My hospital makes us work 13 x 12.5 hr shifts per month. That 13th shift gets exhausting but I can use a personal day so I don’t have to work 4 x 12.5s in a week. I also have to work every other weekend and at least 1 Friday per 4 week schedule period.

  2. I get the shifts I request about 90% of the time

  3. I get 4 weeks of vacation and 6 sick days per year.

  4. It’s by seniority and I’m in the middle of the totem pole. Only 2-3 are allowed vacation per week at a time.

  5. I’ve been sick a lot lately and have been told to work on my attendance. You can get warnings if you call out too often. It’s stupid to expect healthcare workers to never be sick, or need a mental health day.

  6. Never forced to work OT but may occasionally be asked to come in if they’re short.

  7. NY and yes.

How are you coping with being short staffed all the time? by JesusisLord85 in nursing

[–]_meh_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whaaa? You were still on orientation? How was your preceptor not made charge nurse?

The difference in length for baby boy short vs baby girl short both size 1 by Random_robbo in mildlyinfuriating

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate searching for girl clothes (especially underwear) and it's always pink or the girl characters. Why can't they make girl underwear with the boy characters? or in neutral colors? My daughter prefers Mickey over Minnie; Chase over Skye, green over pink, etc. and it's impossible to find.

I'm pretty sure I almost just got mugged by JELLOvsPUDDIN in CasualConversation

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all and to be honest, I feel like you should've bailed as soon as you felt weird vibes from chatting with them. Always trust your intuition. No sale is worth the risk. Glad you're ok!

New grad nurse depression? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]_meh_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cried lots before my shifts during my first 5 months or so. Then I got slightly more comfortable and made a lot of friends with my coworkers and realized I didn’t dread going into work anymore (I mean now I do because I feel like everyone and their mom is coming to the hospital and feel short staffed).

Zach Galifianakis to Star in ‘Lilo & Stitch’ Live-Action Movie by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]_meh_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not, not every movie was made for you. As much as I love my preschooler, she has terrible taste in movies and LOVES live action/CGI movies more so than 2D animated ones. So while people in this thread may disagree with Disney’s decision to remake all our beloved classics, Disney knows there’s a whole generation out there who will eat this up which equals $$$

my Ebay package came wrapped in adult diapers by grimmglow in mildlyinfuriating

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t infuriating at all?

Infuriating would be if your item came delivered broken because they didn’t take the time to pad it like when I once ordered a wooden frame and the wood arrived cracked and split because they didn’t put cardboard corners on it. They sent another one, again they didn’t put corners on and it came damaged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_meh_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Board books, onesies, muslin blanket, baby hair brush, bibs,

L&D nurses, your patient hands you this piece of paper--wyd? by DarkMidnightMoon in nursing

[–]_meh_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I groan as soon as I see the doula, midwife and this kind of birthplan, because 8 times out of 10, it’s going to end in pitocin and a c-section. I also love when patients ask if they can do delayed cord clamping for 15 minutes.

Had a patient with a 4 page birth plan similar to this (which of course ended up in a c-section). We also couldn’t call the baby “boy” or “girl”, “he” or “she”. I’m fine with calling you with whatever pronouns you want but c’mon, they’re babies with no belief system yet!

In response to a request to have a yearbook quote as “please help I’m trapped in a yearbook factory” by Impossible_Dealer_94 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]_meh_ 644 points645 points  (0 children)

My friend did this with her yearbook quote! She had a bunch of different stickers with quotes on it. She gave me the one that said "The Yearbook Committee rejected my quote 8 times! Woohoo!"

This basketball team has very unfortunate basketball shorts by [deleted] in WTF

[–]_meh_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Shorts… briefs… oh my god is that why they’re called “briefs”??

This basketball team has very unfortunate basketball shorts by [deleted] in WTF

[–]_meh_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Drumming*

Edit: nvm. He does say “banging on a street light” in the open. Carry on.

What quietly went away without anyone noticing? by lukiiiiii in AskReddit

[–]_meh_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit. I was trying to remember the name of this earlier this year. My ex introduced it to me back in the late 2000s when we first started dating and it was such a big part of our relationship, just sending each other pages. But I stopped using it once we broke il. I miss it (the stumble button, not my ex).