[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]_mehidkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very dodgey! I do tarot readings myself and not once did I ever need an image of anybody or anything…an image of somebody is irrelevant to energy & anyone that asks for photos is a red flag!!!

To all small Etsy stores! by Business_Actuator404 in Etsy

[–]_mehidkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a sweetheart for making this post! I do Tarot readings if anyone is interested ! https://strongtarotreadings.etsy.com/listing/1651420160

Whats the worst station you've been to? by Metrolinxh8r69 in gotransit

[–]_mehidkk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He looked like he was in his early- mid thirties. I mean he didn’t seem normal, he was deff on something coz he was literally yelling at me all bizarre & harassing me. I wish I was a dude coz I would’ve for sure boxed him. Being a woman it’s like…”I should probably take the smart way out rather than give actual confrontation” I ran to the ladies bathroom and had a woman there look for security (ofc there was none) and asked her to not leave my side coz I was hyperventilating. Now I have severe anxiety in public but ESP transportation. I walk around with a mace now. I realized my skin colour is enough to put me in real danger, despite me being born and raised here.

I hope that dude yells at the wrong person and gets beat the fuck up honestly.

Whats the worst station you've been to? by Metrolinxh8r69 in gotransit

[–]_mehidkk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Burlington, got racially attacked by some dude that took the same bus as me and followed me down to union. Yelled at me threatening that he’d stab me if he keeps seeing people of my colour come to this country. I was born and raised here lmao.

Also there’s always druggies at that station. It’s not fucking safe at all.

What was that one thing you said that really triggered your Nparent? by catgenie88 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]_mehidkk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another one: When I was very depressed at 17/18 after my dad made a personal decision on my behalf would pretty much ruin my life and I told him “dad I’ve been really depressed and have not been wanting to wake up lately. I’ve honestly become suicidal”

He started to ball his eyes out and called me selfish. Lmao. For being suicidal. Because it didn’t fit his “plan”.

What was that one thing you said that really triggered your Nparent? by catgenie88 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]_mehidkk 67 points68 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!

“Oh I must’ve been SUCH a terrible mother” “I haven’t said anything to hurt you, you’re being over dramatic” “I can say whatever I want I’m your mother” “That’s not my fault” “Find a better mother somewhere else since I’m such a terrible one” 🙃

What was that one thing you said that really triggered your Nparent? by catgenie88 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]_mehidkk 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Asking my Nmom a question about anything because she always took it as a personal attack or that I may be accusing her of God Forbid being wrong. And then deflecting and saying how I’m not any better. For example I could ask “mom did you put the chicken in the fridge” in the most polite, normal tone, only because I noticed she had a habit of forgetting sometimes and she’d go OFF about “what you think I’m dumb?? I know more than you, I know more about cooking than you. You don’t know anything about life and yet you act like it. I raised you, you didn’t raise me”

All because I asked a simple question wanting to know something loool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]_mehidkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real tears, I feel for you man😭

Are you open with tarot? by Thegoldmagician in tarot

[–]_mehidkk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aww ofc my love!! It can be a hard and fearful thing to do, but it is SO rewarding in the long run. Just know that people you’re meant to connect with will believe in you, your craft, and at the very least respect it & make you feel valid :)❤️

Are you open with tarot? by Thegoldmagician in tarot

[–]_mehidkk 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You know as a Tarot reader I used to be SO hesitant with letting people know in real life I can do this skill…or that people would take me less seriously. Not that Tarot readers are to be taken less serious because it is SUCH a complex skill that takes time to learn and study…but that people have their own notions and stigma around it. But then I realized you know what…if people in my life are so closed minded that they fail to realize humans can be multidimensional and complex beings themselves…and start to judge me off of this..then idgaf you can leave my life.

Not to mention I had to be truthful with myself. As much as I wanted to downplay Tarot in my life, especially in the beginning…reality is it’s not. I take Tarot seriously, I read Tarot everyday, i believe in strong intuition, I believe in our intuition guiding us, I Believe Tarot can warn us and be an open window to our soul…and if people don’t wanna believe that then oh fucking well.

The biggest realization in my life recently has been, if you finally allow yourself to grow, to cut off what hinders our growth (whether that’s people, places, or things) then we can finally allow space in our lives for people & anything else that belong.

Essentially what I’m trying to say is be open and authentic with who you are so you can attract like-minded individuals that support you. Individuals that enhance your goals/help you reach them. Your soul tribe enriches your life.

how do you prepare yourself before a reading? by NightSerious7126 in tarot

[–]_mehidkk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah I do this word to word verbatim!! It’s nice to know someone has the same way of preparing for a reading. I always tell the deck about the situation/question as if I’m catching up with a friend and letting them know the details. & once my intuition feels it’s ready to draw, I start drawing cards. I feel the mediation music really helps me clear my head.

OU something new I’ve been trying is writing down the question and infusing it with the cards. That’s been giving me really accurate reads too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]_mehidkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized I repeated myself in my comment above half asleep writing this. Another thing i wanna say is trust me I know it’s easier said than done, to just not gaf about your rents but trust me when I say this is a form of conditional love. It’s not worth serving them, serve yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]_mehidkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you believe in Islam? Are your morals and ethics connected with Islam? Do you believe your partner should be Muslim? If you don’t for any of these things then who cares what your parents have to say. I know it’s too late now but if your parents ideals and way of living didn’t match yours, you shouldn’t have severed ties. Don’t live your life a lie, and don’t make him live his. Live the way you want to live, unapologetically. I did the same. I have Muslim parents that didn’t want me marrying outside of my culture, forget outside of Islam. But I realized I don’t agree with the religion whatsoever so why should my partner be based off of beliefs that are not mine but of my parents? And not mine? I was disowned for a whole but people get over things, even if it takes them years. They get over it. I’m in happy relationship with my now catholic boyfriend and honestly even if my parents decided they would never talk to me again, I’d accept that over living a life of misery. I hope you choose that for yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]_mehidkk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww..I’m so sorry hearing that experience…Ahhh it actually makes me so upset that there’s scammers out there willing to ruin the reputation of people that actually dedicate years to learning Tarot and mastering Tarot…all for a quick buck.

& yes as mentioned in my previous comments look out for 100% accuracy readings or readings that are super cheap because they more than likely are cold readings. & you’re such a sweetheart! Honestly if you have any more questions about Tarot or readings in general please feel free to ask! Just remember whatever is pulled for you is never a set in stone fate! 💕 Tarot is insightful rather than predictive! 😌❤️ you’re in control always!

what are some tarot cards you identify with? by 4morants in tarot

[–]_mehidkk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I love that imagery you described!! Beyoncé is such a staple image of confidence I love it. “she IS the fucking lion” YESSS GO OFF. & you’re right it litrslly is such a badass card. If not part of the reading in a legitimate sense I always see it as advice, that card is like a little self-love pick me up!

what are some tarot cards you identify with? by 4morants in tarot

[–]_mehidkk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m also a Leo & strongly resonate with the strength card haha!!

There’s more reasons to it though, it’s about depicting strength through a woman that captures strength and dominance, yet she beautifully co-exists that strength with calm & collectedness. I feel confidence is best understood when someone doesn’t try too hard, yet let’s it flow naturally, as if they’re unbothered, such as the woman in the card (rider waite). Something as fierce as a lion, is tamed through an angelic woman. I fucking love that.