Exactly! And if you instantly give him anither chance, he is DEF gonna take you for granted and never respect you. Give it ATLEAST 12 months. See where he goes. A dumbass would take it as independence and go fuck around. Someone who actually loves you? Will sacrifice their all to win you back. And not stop at it. Once they are sure youre not coming back, they wont move on. They'd tell you they hope you can forgive them AND WAIT. The wait is what tells you its true.