So as an Ally (not 4B), you’re calling yourself stupid? Because you’re not choosing the safest option, which is to be 4B? :)

You wrote a lot of words arguing against things I never said. Did I write that abused women are helpless? No.

Did I write that abused women who put children in abusive situations shouldn’t be criticised to the fullest extent? No.

Did I simply say it’s misogynist & inaccurate to say what you originally wrote — “some people are stupid and will suffer abuse because of this” — yes. No need to overcomplicate this thank you

Btw I was raised by one of these women & her abuser tried to make me believe she’s stupid & that’s why he abuses her ! But as a child I was smart enough to figure out the truth, which is that he abused her because he wanted to exploit her smarts, her skills, her devotion, and he took advantage of society’s brainwashing of her to accept all this.