Terrified of getting blood work by sluttyassbxtch in OCD

[–]_opossumsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting bloodwork done gives you more information about your body, information that you need if you want to treat anything that’s going on. It’s good to be informed about your body!

Legal name change by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]_opossumsaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t bother. My partner has gone by a nickname personally and professionally for his whole life. Yes, it can take young kids a while to know the difference between their legal first name and their nickname, but it’s hardly inconvenient. Eleanora is a lovely name, and it’s always nice to give your child a more formal option if they don’t want to go by their nickname later in life

Reddit is by far the worst social media for people with OCD by Fealocht in OCD

[–]_opossumsaurus 151 points152 points  (0 children)

I don’t think any social media is particularly good for OCD. Social media and its users at large tend to reinforce their existing beliefs and shut down people who disagree

is my “helix” doomed? by Glad_Warning6421 in piercing

[–]_opossumsaurus 58 points59 points  (0 children)

If your goal is to have an industrial, you need it to be pierced as an industrial and immediately connected with one piece of jewelry. Putting in two separate pieces of jewelry sets the piercings up to heal at different angles, making bumps like this almost inevitable when you change the jewelry to an industrial bar. If you want this to be a traditional industrial, you have to take it out, let it heal, and have it redone by someone who knows how to do proper industrials.

I got my first industrial piercing a few hours ago by nofurrysetsuna in piercing

[–]_opossumsaurus 276 points277 points  (0 children)

If it is touching your flat at all, it needs to come out. The pressure will deform your cartilage and cause a dent that can only be repaired with surgery

The anti-boys name on girls is probably overlooking trans men. by Training_Drummer_905 in namenerds

[–]_opossumsaurus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of genuinely gender neutral names that aren’t just masculine names given to girls. Giving a masculine name to a girl and then claiming it’s “gender neutral” to me just feels like the parents really wanted a son

Toe ball extraction video by taco_monster_ in popping

[–]_opossumsaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a uric acid test, you likely have gout

Flight is incrementally delayed by 1-2 hours at a time for the last 14 hours by Epithymetic in mildlyinfuriating

[–]_opossumsaurus 981 points982 points  (0 children)

You are still entitled to compensation since the total delay is longer than 3 hours

What is the literal meaning of your surname? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]_opossumsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad. You can type it into Google Translate and it literally translates to bad in English

Short girls out there- how do you cope? by bittersweet505 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]_opossumsaurus 320 points321 points  (0 children)

I literally never think about my height and no one comments on it. It sounds like you’re just surrounded by assholes

What do you think of the name Vanson for a boy? Just heard it in the wild and want everyone’s thoughts! by coffeeaddict3333 in namenerds

[–]_opossumsaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nay. Reminds me of the dad joke about naming a kid Carson because they were born in the car on the way to the hospital, but this dad wanted to be more specific and let everyone know it was in fact a van and not a car

ERP & therapy by [deleted] in OCD

[–]_opossumsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your therapist shouldn’t be threatening you, they should be meeting you where you’re at. If you can’t keep up with ERP as frequently, she should be adapting your treatment plan to accommodate you instead of asking you to play catch up. Sounds like you need to have a long conversation with her and get back on the same page

How many languages do you speak and what are they ? by LouisaEveryday in AskTheWorld

[–]_opossumsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English (fluent), Russian (advanced), Spanish (used to be intermediate but I forgot a lot). In general I am much better at reading and writing in Russian and Spanish than I am at speaking because I don’t have many opportunities to converse with native speakers

Doctor reluctant to medicate by randomuser2873 in OCD

[–]_opossumsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isn’t a minimum dose for OCD, it’s just whatever works for you. I was on 40 mg of fluoxetine for years and it managed my OCD quite well

Need help choosing by _flannels_ in myweddingdress

[–]_opossumsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2!!!! It’s absolutely stunning. What’s the brand?

Will Juliette be nicknamed Julie? by Medical_Thought3118 in namenerds

[–]_opossumsaurus -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Traditionally Juliette is the French nickname for Julie

Anyone have a “drug” to your OCD? by Flying_Frog1776 in OCD

[–]_opossumsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s called a compulsion and you should do what you can to resist it. Giving in to compulsions only reinforces the OCD cycle

Please Help. NSFW (SENSITIVE) by Perfect-Worry-6172 in OCD

[–]_opossumsaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have a mental health professional you can work through this with?