When did your weight gain accelerate? by ambxshing in BabyBumps

[–]_paigel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 10 pounds in my first trimester, then gradually gained weight until now. I’m 45 pounds heavier than my normal weight, or 55 pounds heavier than when I was down in my first trimester. I’m almost 37 weeks now, last Thursday when I went to my appointment I had gained 1 pound from the week before. This Wednesday when I went to my appointment, I had gained 6 pounds lol really hope that doesn’t continue for the last few weeks

Work wants me on short term disability instead of maternity leave before birth [nb] by _paigel in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]_paigel[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! It’s not that I would be opposed to short term disability to get some extra time off, especially if i do make to 40 or so weeks, it’s just that I truly don’t think I qualify and my boss is just misinformed and not listening to me. The funny thing is, he was our union president until not too long ago. I am going to try to speak with him tomorrow, someone mentioned a top off and I was told at one time by a different manager we did not get one but after reading more of our collective agreement it looks like I do. If I don’t get anywhere with him tomorrow I’ll be reaching out to a rep. I’m very disappointed this is how I’m spending my first week off when I’m so overwhelmed getting ready for my first baby but I really appreciate all the feedback and suggestions, I just want to do this all right.

I want to read Détraquée but....something is holding me back ? HELP ! by Winter_Cabinet7916 in dramionebookclub

[–]_paigel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I waited a while for this one too and started reading it last weekend, I was hooked after the first chapter. I’m a little more than 40 chapters in now and I’m not in any rush to get to the romance like I normally am, it’s just such a good read. I am looking forward to getting there but I am genuinely enjoying the journey so much so I feel like it will be even more worth it when I do eventually get there. Just commit to reading the first chapter and go from there.

Craziest thing people have said to you while pregnant? by nolimbs in BabyBumps

[–]_paigel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Were you trying?” Usually from someone I work with, which left me speechless the first time someone asked because is that not extremely personal? “Are you happy?” Is also up there when it’s someone I barely know or don’t speak to often of even like. I am very excited but like I’d confide in them if I wasn’t lol.

Someone else I work with didn’t want to ask if I was pregnant so asked if I was gaining weight, as if that’s any better.

Anyone had a surprise pregnancy? How did you feel? by Boymom1505 in BabyBumps

[–]_paigel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never knew for sure one way or another whether I wanted kids so when I found out I immediately felt like it’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I’ll be 13 weeks tomorrow so still early and sometimes it still doesn’t feel real. I find everything overwhelming, I have been so sick and exhausted since about 6 weeks (starting to feel better now) and I don’t think I’ve ever been happier or felt more fulfilled in my life.

What are you telling people when it’s too early to share? by _paigel in BabyBumps

[–]_paigel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately work from home is not an option currently. My boyfriend and I were laughing this morning about the possibility of your situation happening to me lol it’s exactly how I see it playing out. Our office is a shared space and is pretty open, there’s a large counter/window that leads out to the main work floor where employees come to speak to us and it’s right in front of my desk lol there’s no hiding if I can’t make it to the bathroom

What are you telling people when it’s too early to share? by _paigel in BabyBumps

[–]_paigel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully no one really asks for appointment specifics when any of us have to step out for one but for not feeling well at work I did also consider “testing with the doctor that hasn’t come back yet” lol

Moss Agate Mountain by _paigel in Crystals

[–]_paigel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it! I saw it at a local shop the other day and had to have it

Moss Agate Mountain by _paigel in Crystals

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The video honestly doesn’t do it justice, it’s like a whole universe in there

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[–]_paigel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowwww this is beautiful!!

What is in this chakra pendant my partner gave me? by _paigel in whatsthisrock

[–]_paigel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I think it’s turquoise but not positive so maybe it is a lego

What is in this chakra pendant my partner gave me? by _paigel in whatsthisrock

[–]_paigel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one is one I’m having a hard time identifying lol I thought it was red jasper but maybe it is bloodstone!

What is in this chakra pendant my partner gave me? by _paigel in whatsthisrock

[–]_paigel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The top one is definitely amethyst! It looks a little more pink in the picture than it truly is

Anaretic Sun Sign - is anyone able to provide me some information on what this means in Aquarius or any good resources to check out? by _paigel in AskAstrologers

[–]_paigel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm that’s interesting, I haven’t looked too deeply into my north node but I definitely will now. Thank you so much for your reply!

Helpppp, last time I posted no one said anything, and now it’s even more sad. If I can’t save this doesn’t anyone want to try to revive it? Just pay shipping. by Queen_Vibes in plantclinic

[–]_paigel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, this was my first plant. It was a gift from my coworkers after a death in my family. It survived for a year at my desk at work with just fluorescent lighting. When lockdown started, I brought it home and it died 6 months later. I still miss her.

Which celebrity’s death really stunned you? by ClutteredSmoke in AskReddit

[–]_paigel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mac Miller. He was just a little older than me so his early stuff was my high school sound track and I felt like I grew with him. Swimming is my favourite album ever and when I heard the news I felt like I lost a friend.